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Re: What Should He Do? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
cococandy: Well she could have said she didn't want him anymore and sought a divorce legally with her reasons too. I didn't read the whole story before i wrote that. I wish she had left before she had those kids. The marriage was over for her for a while how did he miss that? |
Re: What Should He Do? by pickabeau1: 4:03pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
5minsmadness: ok.. |
Re: What Should He Do? by pickabeau1: 4:04pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Killer team this is beevann kind of karmic justice 5minsmadness: |
Re: What Should He Do? by baby124: 4:08pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
5minsmadness: LMAO. What, this is a big lie. I know because i have seen cases like this, and it amounts to nothing. The authorities do not involve themselves in personal disputes. If she went ahead and married someone else for papers while still married, then and only then will they look into her case. Even then she can claim abandonment by the husband prior to relocation or abuse. It will take a whole lot longer than 3weeks, considering she will get a lawyer who will prove her case. Husband and wife matter? Where is the proof that she did not own the properties? Why will she be deported for a car document her husband bought for her, and she owns? Deported because she has documents owned by joint property or property acquired during marriage? Abroad, everyone gets time to prove their case. You can only be deported swiftly if you committed a crime (violent or credit card). Please, know who you are talking to. 3 Likes |
Re: What Should He Do? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Seriously what is wrong with you people? How do you SNATCH a grown man? was he kidnapped? NO He betrayed his girlfriend. She made a play for him and he fell for it they must have done a lot of undercover stuff before they shocked the girlfriend and then he forgot he was playing with a woman who had mastered the art of deceit and i am sure the writing was on the wall what she did cannot be done in a day. 3 Likes |
Re: What Should He Do? by 5minsmadness: 4:15pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
baby124:Ok. Op if your man wishes to pursue the case, simply visit the nearest competent lawyer. As long as he meets the requirements I stated the woman will be handled. |
Re: What Should He Do? by 5minsmadness: 4:18pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
andromida: How do you SNATCH a grown woman? Was she kidnapped? NO She betrayed her boyfriend. He made a play for her and she fell for it. They must have done a lot of undercover stuff before they shocked the boyfriend and then she forgot she was playing with a man who had mastered the art of deciet and I am sure the writing was on the wall what he did cannot be done in a day. 1 Like |
Re: What Should He Do? by beeevan: 4:54pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Absolutely.....to those who deserve it . |
Re: What Should He Do? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Is this about the run away wife.? 1 Like |
Re: What Should He Do? by crackhaus: 5:19pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
andromida:Really though, the emotional psycho-babble of some women never cease to amaze me. So you're actually blaming the man in all this? You can't be serious. Okay let's go with your theory of betrayal for a moment, how come it's the man betraying his girlfriend you choose to see? Are you blind to the fact that the first act of betrayal was actually by this woman? I mean she betrayed her friend first by making a play for him...and falling for it doesn't mean he betrayed his gf, it means he is just human afterall.. he was carried away. There's no way you can spin this to make it his fault. It's just like a situation where most of you ladies pretend to struggle and playfully act like you don't want sex during the fore_play leading up to it, just so you can have an excuse later saying that you never really wanted it. So unless you're going to agree that the woman is to blame in such a situation, then maybe I can agree that the man is to blame here for betraying his girlfriend when all he did was just fall for a very persistent and skillful playa. 2 Likes |
Re: What Should He Do? by DukeNija(m): 5:45pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
pickabeau1: I swear down! Her husband must thread with caution O. |
Re: What Should He Do? by DukeNija(m): 5:47pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
beeevan: Lol. Wicked! 1 Like |
Re: What Should He Do? by Nobody: 9:08am On Jul 25, 2014 |
crackhaus: I agree in such situations it is the woman's fault. She betrayed her friend. He betrayed his girlfriend. No biggies there they are a better match. I am not blaming the man, just highlighting the fact that he is not "the poor innocent man" |
Re: What Should He Do? by crackhaus: 9:45am On Jul 25, 2014 |
andromida:What if I said that in this particular case, this time, and in this story in the OP...he is actually the 'poor innocent man'? |
Re: What Should He Do? by Nobody: 11:46am On Jul 25, 2014 |
crackhaus: How? 1 Like |
Re: What Should He Do? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
dytbabe:we have to leave God out of this first ... he should do the necessary . I hope you understand the mental depression him and the kids will be goin thru. no reason is justifiable . the worst that may have happened was to seek divorce. |
Re: What Should He Do? by linearity: 1:34am On Jan 06, 2015 |
Bigamy is a crime in the US, since they have not divorced, if she has already married in the US; he should look up email address and contact info of the County DA where she is leaving in the US....send a message to the DA with proof of my marriage....if she has not remarried, then he can wait until she is officially married in the US. They will prosecute and lock her up, at the end of her sentence, they will package her and return her to naija. However, I will advice against this; you do not not want to hurt the mother of your kids this way and she will never forgive him and might even plan a bigger revenge on him after the humiliation. |
Re: What Should He Do? by linearity: 1:41am On Jan 06, 2015 |
baby124: Not actually true....If she remarried in the US without first getting a divorce, that is Bigamy and it is a crime in the US. It means she lied when she obtained her marriage license, she can be tried for bigamy and thrown into jail and after her sentence, she can be packaged nicely and deported to Nigeria. All the husband have to do is partition the DA with proof of a still existing marriage. But, as indicated in my other post, this is a hash approach, the better approach is just ask for divorce and move on. |
Re: What Should He Do? by bukatyne(f): 12:53pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
cococandy: Any feedback/way forward? |
Re: What Should He Do? by cococandy(f): 3:43pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
bukatyne:he moved on |
Re: What Should He Do? by bukatyne(f): 3:44pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
1 Like |
Re: What Should He Do? by 5minsmadness: 6:40pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
linearity:Thank you. |
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