Melsan:
Fine too.abeg PM me,i wan do amebo for u

lol. na wa o.

Melsan:
Fine too.abeg PM me,i wan do amebo for u

follow back so I can send my email. I don't have access to this email.

automatix:
follow back so I can send my email. I don't have access to this email.

Aiit.

Melsan:
Aiit.

I said follow back, not PM. Just follow back. I am follow you now. when you follow back, i will PM you.

kevinberry:
Dear person reading this,I hope your day has been going well, if not, I hope it gets better You are an amazing person who will inspire others to do great things so keep up the hard work. I know you may feel unimportant or insecure at the moment but know that you are a beautiful human being inside and out and you are important !Just trying to be nice on the internet, sometimes we just need such a message !I hope this comment helped you a bit and if not, I‘m sorry Sincerely,me!

it helpz me,thankx

Hi evryone,jx found this group nd think i may fit in.my personalty is a very different one,diffrent frm any other person i hv met,nd i think its givng me pro.I dnt hv friends nd i dont lik having friends,bt i hv ppl i chat wit,i dnt lik people visiting me and i dnt visit anyone either,i lov staying indoor,and doing things the way i like,am a knowledge freaked person,i cn read from morning till night,i cn as well think from morning till night,i hate people knocking on my door,or calling my name,i am a mean nd focused person,that i dnt give up on things,you wont believ it,i dont even know how to give up,i hv nvr given up on anythg in my entire life, i cnt do anythg meaniful whn ppl are wit me,not evn washing my own cloth,nd i hate time wasting very much that i cry whenevr i see i hv wasted time.I feel stressd whn ppl are around me,bt am a loving person, i cn actualy gist only whn i plan gisting,i hv a time schedul for evrythg,nw i need do alot of things,bt cnt jx bcx somone is staying wit me nd it giving me a migrain headache,,pls tell me,am i an introvert

^^ lol. You need a soothsayer? You are definitely introverted, evidently intuitive, and seemingly turbulent. I'm guessing at INTJ -T

wowww

.hmm.

... I've got to do a presentation in front of a board of extremely important people tommorow....



I don't know how I'm going to survive.


My ambitions are too high sometimes sef.......

SirWere:
... I've got to do a presentation in front of a board of extremely important people tommorow....



I don't know how I'm going to survive.


My ambitions are too high sometimes sef.......

So he's an introvert

Okay.

The best thing is to focus on doing a good presentation. Don't be bothered by what those people think of you. Also, you can look at them without really focusing on them, unless you are answering a question. Also ask yourself, what do I have to loose? Only something to gain.

You can also have summarised talking points noted somewhere in case someone asks a stupid question to distract you and throw you off balance.

SirWere:
... I've got to do a presentation in front of a board of extremely important people tommorow....



I don't know how I'm going to survive.


My ambitions are too high sometimes sef.......

Navigate to page 83 of this thread.

Goodluck

Olarewajub:



Navigate to page 83 of this thread.

Goodluck

All this advices make sense and are rational

but....

Everytime I visualize myself talking or pitching my case to them; I make a mistake.
Either my voice cracks, or I'm not speaking loud enough, or I forget my points or something.......


What makes this even worse is that I'm not the only one they invited.

My team and I really need this and I just have this gnawing feeling that I'll blow it....


I guess I'll just call it off.

Muafrika2:

So he's an introvert

Okay.

The best thing is to focus on doing a good presentation. Don't be bothered by what those people think of you. Also, you can look at them without really focusing on them, unless you are answering a question. Also ask yourself, what do I have to loose? Only something to gain.

You can also have summarised talking points noted somewhere in case someone asks a stupid question to distract you and throw you off balance.

Noted.
However, speaking publicy isn't reall my comfort zone.
My brain freezes, I forget my word and start to stutter.

It's happened before.

SirWere:

Noted.
However, speaking publicy isn't reall my comfort zone.
My brain freezes, I forget my word and start to stutter.

It's happened before.

That's why those summarised talking points will come in handy. They'll help you find your way in case you lose it.

I know that feeling (for me it happens when am under pressure, - I have to deal with someone who keeps intentionally putting me under pressure and I have a cool calculated plan of getting rid of him. )

For you, remember to stay calm, no matter what happens.

SirWere:


All this advices make sense and are rational

but....

Everytime I visualize myself talking or pitching my case to them; I make a mistake.
Either my voice cracks, or I'm not speaking loud enough, or I forget my points or something.......


What makes this even worse is that I'm not the only one they invited.

My team and I really need this and I just have this gnawing feeling that I'll blow it....


I guess I'll just call it off.

Don't give. The advice I can give to you is at page 83 of the thread.

Wish you Goodluck.

SirWere:


All this advices make sense and are rational

but....

Everytime I visualize myself talking or pitching my case to them; I make a mistake.
Either my voice cracks, or I'm not speaking loud enough, or I forget my points or something.......


What makes this even worse is that I'm not the only one they invited.

My team and I really need this and I just have this gnawing feeling that I'll blow it....


I guess I'll just call it off.

do the presentation to your self while looking at the mirror. it helps a lot

ModestGal:
Hi evryone,jx found this group nd think i may fit in.my personalty is a very different one,diffrent frm any other person i hv met,nd i think its givng me pro.I dnt hv friends nd i dont lik having friends,bt i hv ppl i chat wit,i dnt lik people visiting me and i dnt visit anyone either,i lov staying indoor,and doing things the way i like,am a knowledge freaked person,i cn read from morning till night,i cn as well think from morning till night,i hate people knocking on my door,or calling my name,i am a mean nd focused person,that i dnt give up on things,you wont believ it,i dont even know how to give up,i hv nvr given up on anythg in my entire life, i cnt do anythg meaniful whn ppl are wit me,not evn washing my own cloth,nd i hate time wasting very much that i cry whenevr i see i hv wasted time.I feel stressd whn ppl are around me,bt am a loving person, i cn actualy gist only whn i plan gisting,i hv a time schedul for evrythg,nw i need do alot of things,bt cnt jx bcx somone is staying wit me nd it giving me a migrain headache,,pls tell me,am i an introvert

LOL... Boo, you're an over-introvert, the irony of the whole introvert thing is that it makes is selfish people....

Introverts are great thinkers

otabuko:
LOL... Boo, you're an over-introvert, the irony of the whole introvert thing is that it makes is selfish people....

i think so

I have been reluctant to find you my brodas and sisters for a long while and i found you guys and im so happy i intend posting a thread real soon but this is my type of introvert.
Dnt try to embarass me in public , you'lld end up embarassing ur self.
People will think im proud coz, i dont just talk to anybody dat wants to talk to me even a girl in church had to tell my sister im proud thats because she's neva seen me with friends or family, i am actually playful .
There is a guy in my area who is the first to hail me everytime he sees me, i neva greet him first coz i dont want to hail him.
Someone once had a reasonable discussion dat interested me, the next time the discussion was stupid i did'nt say a word, fear catch her,
Give me media, power supply and data if u like lock me for three months i won't even sweat.
If you want to start an arguement with me make sure you can finish it coz when you don't, thats another problem.
I have a good listening talent, even if u talkin shit just pray i love u i will listen all the way.
I am actually very raw in private and in private chat u could never imagine.
There z more to Come in my intending post

Ginaz, this is the thread. Try to read through as many pages as you can.

Olarewajub:
#IntrovertFact.
Majority of introverts have hard time uploading their pics on social network.

This is me

wow, its so lovely seeing ppl like me, ppl wil only attribute our introvertness to pride,i dnt knw why,they think i feel too big to greet nd respond greetings, nd its actualy cx i talk wit a very very low voice nd once i see smone is at d distanc he cant hear me, i jx keep mute,nd i respond greetings but they cant jx hear me, i dnt play with them bcx they dnt jx intrest me nd i prefer reading news than staying wit ppl,bt i do lov ppl in my heart,they cnt jx see it.I gues my introvert is truly over introvert.Imagin being the best student in my departmnt,one of d best in my faculty,like second to d best cgp in d whole faculty,ppl only atribut my introvert personalty to stingynes nd pride.They think i knw evrythg, i hv everything,once they ask me nd i tell them i dnt hav,they wl think am lieing,or they ask me to teach them,they wil thnk i must know it,i read always bt nt my departmntal course note,they wl say i dnt wana teach them,

Amazing Thread.

ModestGal:
wow, its so lovely seeing ppl like me, ppl wil only attribute our introvertness to pride,i dnt knw why,they think i feel too big to greet nd respond greetings, nd its actualy cx i talk wit a very very low voice nd once i see smone is at d distanc he cant hear me, i jx keep mute,nd i respond greetings but they cant jx hear me, i dnt play with them bcx they dnt jx intrest me nd i prefer reading news than staying wit ppl,bt i do lov ppl in my heart,they cnt jx see it.I gues my introvert is truly over introvert.Imagin being the best student in my departmnt,one of d best in my faculty,like second to d best cgp in d whole faculty,ppl only atribut my introvert personalty to stingynes nd pride.They think i knw evrythg, i hv everything,once they ask me nd i tell them i dnt hav,they wl think am lieing,or they ask me to teach them,they wil thnk i must know it,i read always bt nt my departmntal course note,they wl say i dnt wana teach them,

If you love yourself being an introvert then it's fine...I was once like you, but in my first year in Univ, i met these group of very interesting brilliant guys, we became friends and i suddenly discovered my hidden extroverted nature..i sometimes flash back to my gentle self in secondary school, i was just too gentle and lost out of all d fun that comes with high schooling but i am glad for the total switch of my nature..Though i still love my personal space and also love personal moments for deep reflections but I am now a person who people would run to when they are bored cos they appreciate my great sense of comicalness. When i left 9ja, i initially wanted to switch back to my introvert self, i struggled to hold back while studying my new environment and new colleagues, Immediately i became my normal extroverted self, i quickly turned to the most loved in the whole department.I curry favour from people easily cos of my nature...I have since discovered being an outright extrovert might make one lose out on good people and so many good things..... sorry to bore you wth my story

bigerboy200:

If you love yourself being an introvert then it's fine...I was once like you, but in my first year in Univ, i met these group of very interesting brilliant guys, we became friends and i suddenly discovered my hidden extroverted nature..i sometimes flash back to my gentle self in secondary school, i was just too gentle and lost out of all d fun that comes with high schooling but i am glad for the total switch of my nature..Though i still love my personal space and also love personal moments for deep reflections but I am now a person who people would run to when they are bored cos they appreciate my great sense of comicalness. When i left 9ja, i initially wanted to switch back to my introvert self, i struggled to hold back while studying my new environment and new colleagues, Immediately i became my normal extroverted self, i quickly turned to the most loved in the whole department.I curry favour from people easily cos of my nature...I have since discovered being an outright extrovert might make one lose out on good people and so many good things..... sorry to bore you wth my story

bt seriously, i tot this group is meant for introverts alone?nd it says extrovert,keep off,sinc u ae an extrovert nw, i think u shld keep off too.I lov who i am, i hv always being this way,mixing wit ppl gives me headache,nd i dnt like it at all.nd I dnt rily understand your advice.

ModestGal:

bt seriously, i tot this group is meant for introverts alone?nd it says extrovert,keep off,sinc u ae an extrovert nw, i think u shld keep off too.I lov who i am, i hv always being this way,mixing wit ppl gives me headache,nd i dnt like it at all.nd I dnt rily understand your advice.

I'm sorry then..let me keep off...

ModestGal:

bt seriously, i tot this group is meant for introverts alone?nd it says extrovert,keep off,sinc u ae an extrovert nw, i think u shld keep off too.I lov who i am, i hv always being this way,mixing wit ppl gives me headache,nd i dnt like it at all.nd I dnt rily understand your advice.

hehehe... This lady harsh o.

bigerboy200:
I'm sorry then..let me keep off...

lols, am sorry too, dnt keep off pls, i dnt jx lik to b abused

ModestGal:

lols, am sorry too, dnt keep off pls, i dnt jx lik to b abused

Awwww...That's so nice of u..Thanks..

bigerboy200:
Awwww...That's so nice of u..Thanks..

u ae welcom, so nice of you too