Your wife and your only son is sick and one of them will die ,the only money you have is to save only one person.Who will you save? Your son or Wife? No borrowing of money.

I may sound mean but if I find myself in such a situation where I can only save one out of the two, like give a kidney to one(Godforbid anyways), I ll save ma husby cos we can make another baby(babies), unless on the condition we ve grown old and ve enjoyed the best of life together then I ll save my child cos then its their duty to bury us not the other way round.