I think DNA test is 1 of the renowned home breakers. A programme was just aired few minutes on a local F.M station. A woman called in and sought people's advice. She said she has 4 kids. She later discovered her 3rd child is not for her husband. Since she has heard about Restitution, she has been feeling guilty and she doesn't know what to do. Please Advice her.

Who will relay the advice back to her?

The op.

God help us women!!! So she has been playing aware match while married even to the point of not knowing who owns the child. Issora...

Something he heard over the radio.
Unless he means to call in.

Anyway OP she has no choice but to tell her husband the kid ain't his.
He can decide what to do afterwards.
In other words he's the one who needs advice here and not her.
Because he'll be confused and heart broken.
To forgive or not to forgive.
To let go or not to.
Considering he has 3 other kids from this same woman,to break up the marriage or not because of the one kid that isn't his.

It'll be a tough choice for him.
She really isn't the one who has a choice to make.
Except of course she choses not to confess.

Wen she dey play the away match why she no ask us for advice?

Cococandy there are some things better left to die inside the heart than to say out.she will forget it. It's just some people trying to put her on a guilt trip to make her feel bad . The mistake is ireedemable so she should just forget saying anything because if she does she should get ready for the outcome which maybe so destructive that she may not be able to handle it any longer

cococandy: Who will relay the advice back to her?

i ll do dat MA

SAMBARRY: Cococandy there are some things better left to die inside the heart than to say out.she will forget it. It's just some people trying to put her on a guilt trip to make her feel bad . The mistake is ireedemable so she should just forget saying anything because if she does she should get ready for the outcome which maybe so destructive that she may not be able to handle it any longer

are you 4 real? U go wicked oh, no b small. I think dat ll put salt on the wound.

Well she's high on guilt.
What can she do?
Not everyone can stomach guilt for long o.
Headaches,loss of appetite,acid reflux,hypersentivity(jumping out of your skin at every sound behind you),sweaty palms,thumping heart(loud heartbeat) gassing etc etc

Boy my conscience always does a number on me anytime I'm hiding something
Especially if it's something big.
But her case she's hiding something HUGE!!!
If she's like me she no get choice o.
She go confess in her sleep one day.

SAMBARRY: Cococandy there are some things better left to die inside the heart than to say out.she will forget it. It's just some people trying to put her on a guilt trip to make her feel bad . The mistake is ireedemable so she should just forget saying anything because if she does she should get ready for the outcome which maybe so destructive that she may not be able to handle it any longer

Profcamsey: are you 4 real? U go wicked oh, no b small. I think dat ll put salt on the wound.

why say something you know you can't handle the outcome when it comes which will most likely be unfriendly. She had better sleep soundly like nothing happened. It's incidences like this they say silence is golden

I will sleep and wake up like nothing happened. Watch 2 or 3 movies or go for a comedy show to get that stress and tension of fear and anxiety off and boom the thought, the guilt, and fear is gone before I even finished watching the movie and laughing. That's the only way to be strong on the inside and stomach a lot of disasters waiting to explode . silence makes them die a natural death

cococandy: Well she's high on guilt.
What can she do?
Not everyone can stomach guilt for long o.
Headaches,loss of appetite,acid reflux,hypersentivity(jumping out of your skin at every sound behind you),sweaty palms,thumping heart(loud heartbeat) gassing etc etc

Boy my conscience always does a number on me anytime I'm hiding something
Especially if it's something big.
But her case she's hiding something HUGE!!!
If she's like me she no get choice o.
She go confess in her sleep one day.

SAMBARRY: I will sleep and wake up like nothing happened. Watch 2 or 3 movies or go for a comedy show to get that stress and tension of fear and anxiety off and boom the thought, the guilt, and fear is gone before I even finished watching the movie and laughing. That's the only way to be strong on the inside and stomach a lot of disasters waiting to explode . silence makes them die a natural death

SAMBARRY: I will sleep and wake up like nothing happened. Watch 2 or 3 movies or go for a comedy show to get that stress and tension of fear and anxiety off and boom the thought, the guilt, and fear is gone before I even finished watching the movie and laughing. That's the only way to be strong on the inside and stomach a lot of disasters waiting to explode . silence makes them die a natural death

D truth always finds a way to rear it's ugly head... one day him go find out, problem is, he might decide to use a double barrel instead of just kicking you out... U go blame am? cos if na me, na wetin I go do...

The did is done, shutting the hell up will serve just fine. Women too dey para, how many men will confess to what they aren't caught doing?

cococandy: Something he heard over the radio.
Unless he means to call in.

Anyway OP she has no choice but to tell her husband the kid ain't his.
He can decide what to do afterwards.
In other words he's the one who needs advice here and not her.
Because he'll be confused and heart broken.
To forgive or not to forgive.
To let go or not to.
Considering he has 3 other kids from this same woman,to break up the marriage or not because of the one kid that isn't his.

It'll be a tough choice for him.
She really isn't the one who has a choice to make.
Except of course she choses not to confess.

E.O.D

Ehen?
Na me gif am belle?

SAMBARRY: I will sleep and wake up like nothing happened. Watch 2 or 3 movies or go for a comedy show to get that stress and tension of fear and anxiety off and boom the thought, the guilt, and fear is gone before I even finished watching the movie and laughing. That's the only way to be strong on the inside and stomach a lot of disasters waiting to explode . silence makes them die a natural death

I somehow understand where you are coming from. But something like this is too massive to hide. One day it will definitely come to light and God help her if she survives it, literally. It will definitely weigh on one's conscience, it might take decades but at a point even you will decide to tell to take away that guilt. Even @ 50, 60 or 70. Going to the grave with this will make one's spirit restless. BTW there's no comedy house or movie house on the other side.

Kanwulia: Ehen?
Na me gif am belle?

Lol. I tire o. Who send d woman message?

DukeNija:

Lol. I tire o. Who send d woman message?

Ehn-ehn!
Na who sen the H-OP?

Kanwulia:

Ehn-ehn!
Na who sen the H-OP?

Radio station!

I don't think this is news,if dna tests are made compulsory at birth,many bas*ard children will turn up....immorality is now the other of the day. ..married men cheating and impregnating girlfriends everyday without knowing it .....married woman sleeping with another man without shame,how she no go carry belle from ibadan come give husband for lagos make the woman just keep quiet dey look....God will reveal the secret for her when he's ready to.

Profcamsey: I think husbands and wives are renowned home breakers. A programme was just aired few minutes on a local F.M station. A woman called in and seeked people's advice. She said she has 4 kids. She later discovered her 3rd child is not for her husband. Since she has heard about Restitution, she has been feeling guilty and she doesn't know what to do. Please Advice her.

*fixed.

^ "sought" too (not seeked) , people should try to correct their atrocious english in addition to being jobless.

There are so many untold secrets! l had an uncle who died last December, he had been widowed since 2009, never re-married & had 5 children aged btw 19 & 29.,it was@ his burial in January that his "2 other kids" came 2 knowledge, they are aged 2 & 17!

njokusboy:

D truth always finds a way to rear it's ugly head... one day him go find out, problem is, he might decide to use a double barrel instead of just kicking you out... U go blame am? cos if na me, na wetin I go do...

so what if he kicks the woman out


life won't go on


In fact the woman should start building another house secretly so that the day he sendd her out she already has a place to go.jayz said hope for the best and prepare for the worst

the worst the man can do is to send her out after that nko? Msheeeee


as if men too don't have love kids with other women outside marriage

Yimu it's when you are brooding over it or fretting over it you start having high bp.when it comes to light the highest that can happen is divorce when he divorces you you move on with your life



what is new under the sun? Nothing my dear

DukeNija:

I somehow understand where you are coming from. But something like this is too massive to hide. One day it will definitely come to light and God help her if she survives it, literally. It will definitely weigh on one's conscience, it might take decades but at a point even you will decide to tell to take away that guilt. Even @ 50, 60 or 70. Going to the grave with this will make one's spirit restless. BTW there's no comedy house or movie house on the other side.

Kanwulia: Ehen?
Na me gif am belle?

who talk say na you? Face whr u r goin

DukeNija:

I somehow understand where you are coming from. But something like this is too massive to hide. One day it will definitely come to light and God help her if she survives it, literally. It will definitely weigh on one's conscience, it might take decades but at a point even you will decide to tell to take away that guilt. Even @ 50, 60 or 70. Going to the grave with this will make one's spirit restless. BTW there's no comedy house or movie house on the other side.

even, she go suffer die for hell. But dia must be a a way she can tell n wuldnt cause problem

Kanwulia:

Ehn-ehn!
Na who sen the H-OP?

na who send u make u comment?

tpia1: ^ "sought" too (not seeked) , people should try to correct their atrocious english in addition to being jobless.

if u must correct sm1, u do dat with sense and not as if u reason with ur ass. Btw thanks.

SAMBARRY: Yimu it's when you are brooding over it or fretting over it you start having high bp.when it comes to light the highest that can happen is divorce when he divorces you you move on with your life



what is new under the sun? Nothing my dear

Nope not just divorce. There are things worse than divorce my dear. Far far worse than divorce.