is there really a thing called destiny? is everything program or destined?

I think I am now having different take on this topic. someone Thought had been changing from time to time concerning this topic and as its kind of confusing in a way. But my thought has always been firm,

They say there is destiny and it can be change or rewritten to me that is contradiction to itself.

First let look at it definition and meaning of the word...

From Oxforddictionaties[url]destiny - /ˈdɛstɪni/ noun 1. the events that will necessarily happen to a particular person or thing in the future.

From [url=www.en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Destiny]wikipedia Destiny or fate is a predetermined course of events. [1] It may be conceived as a predetermined future, whether in general or of an individual. It is a concept based on the belief that there is a fixed natural order to the cosmos...

With this we can begin with the debate having understand the first view of it meaning.

Thanks.

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