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Wat U Need To Knw Abt Showing Favourism Amg Ur Kids by cutiesoglam(f): 10:22am On Sep 02, 2014 |
I av studied some parents attitude to their kids n somtimes I keep. Wondering why some parents behave like that.I have two scenarios of this: 1. A set. Of twins : a mother gave birth tO a two males. She had the first twin n was fine, buh later in 5hrs she couldn't give birth to d second boy normally so she was operated buh she died after d second was born.d father hated d second n blamed his 2nd boy for d death of his wife thereby ignoring him a. nd showing love to d first . Many yrs later, d love n hatred defined d personality of them. D 2nd become inferior because he felt he wasn't gud to b loved thereby affecting his life Perspectives. 2. Siblings: som parent like. Comparing their children, especially if one is more brilliant, focused or nice. Dey use it to spite other of their kids. Beware, if u do this because u might b digging hatred amg ur children,n so when u are gone .dey might not b comfortable and free among demselves. So, dear nairalanders, as parent or parent to be. Children will never v d same behaviour. So kip it to ursef wat ufeel and pray 4 dem. so dt in d future ur attention won't affects der attitudes and perssonality. Also, feel free to share ur experience abt favourism...how it has affect u if u had the experience from ur parent ..and if, u as a parent do it, y do u do it? |
Re: Wat U Need To Knw Abt Showing Favourism Amg Ur Kids by ideyhere(f): 10:32am On Sep 02, 2014 |
I believe there's a rule on nairaland to spell words correctly? |
Re: Wat U Need To Knw Abt Showing Favourism Amg Ur Kids by cutiesoglam(f): 10:41am On Sep 02, 2014 |
Says who? If u can get d msg. N der isn't error in grammer.. Wat else?...its freedom of writing! I no write 4 newspaper! Comot face der |
Re: Wat U Need To Knw Abt Showing Favourism Amg Ur Kids by ATSOMEH(f): 12:51pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
ideyhere: I believe there's a rule on nairaland to spell words correctly? Exactly my thoughts. It just makes reading the post difficult and uninteresting as you have to spend time trying to recognize the words. |
Re: Wat U Need To Knw Abt Showing Favourism Amg Ur Kids by cutiesoglam(f): 1:30pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
ATSOMEH: post modified!. hope all is good now...lol |
Re: Wat U Need To Knw Abt Showing Favourism Amg Ur Kids by benELOHIM7(m): 2:31pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
is it the grammer u r here for or the wisdom in the post? ....@ op, aside enemity between siblings it could cause low-esteem in the less favoured sibling. ATSOMEH: ATSOMEH: ideyhere: I believe there's a rule on nairaland to spell words correctly? 1 Like |
Re: Wat U Need To Knw Abt Showing Favourism Amg Ur Kids by ideyhere(f): 3:13pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
benELOHIM7: is it the grammer u r here for or the wisdom in the post? ....@ op, aside enemity between siblings it could cause low-esteem in the less favoured sibling. The wisdom...but you have to understand something first to be able to utilize it... |
Re: Wat U Need To Knw Abt Showing Favourism Amg Ur Kids by Nobody: 3:48pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
there is no way a parent can love all the kids equally because they are all different human beings. No matter what, there must be one favourable child u love above others |
Re: Wat U Need To Knw Abt Showing Favourism Amg Ur Kids by cutiesoglam(f): 8:53pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
lofty900: there is no way a parent can love all the kids equally because they are all different human beings. No matter what, there must be one favourable child u love above othersYes, one cannever love d kids equally but der should be limits to how the parent shows it so that there won't b problem or unnecessary competition for parent's love among the kids. |
Re: Wat U Need To Knw Abt Showing Favourism Amg Ur Kids by Nobody: 10:45am On Sep 03, 2014 |
cutiesoglam:ur rite but most parents find it difficult to hide their love 4 a particular child thereby causing envy among the other children |
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