I av studied some parents attitude to their kids n somtimes I keep. Wondering why some parents behave like that.I have two scenarios of this:
1. A set. Of twins : a mother gave birth tO a two males. She had the first twin n was fine, buh later in 5hrs she couldn't give birth to d second boy normally so she was operated buh she died after d second was born.d father hated d second n blamed his 2nd boy for d death of his wife thereby ignoring him a. nd showing love to d first . Many yrs later, d love n hatred defined d personality of them. D 2nd become inferior because he felt he wasn't gud to b loved thereby affecting his life Perspectives.
2. Siblings: som parent like. Comparing their children, especially if one is more brilliant, focused or nice. Dey use it to spite other of their kids. Beware, if u do this because u might b digging hatred amg ur children,n so when u are gone .dey might not b comfortable and free among demselves.
So, dear nairalanders, as parent or parent to be. Children will never v d same behaviour. So kip it to ursef wat ufeel and pray 4 dem. so dt in d future ur attention won't affects der attitudes and perssonality.
Also, feel free to share ur experience abt favourism...how it has affect u if u had the experience from ur parent ..and if, u as a parent do it, y do u do it?

I believe there's a rule on nairaland to spell words correctly?

Says who? If u can get d msg. N der isn't error in grammer.. Wat else?...its freedom of writing! I no write 4 newspaper!
Comot face der

ideyhere: I believe there's a rule on nairaland to spell words correctly?

Exactly my thoughts. It just makes reading the post difficult and uninteresting as you have to spend time trying to recognize the words.

ATSOMEH:

Exactly my thoughts. It just makes reading the post difficult and uninteresting as you have to spend time trying to recognize the words.

post modified!. hope all is good now...lol

is it the grammer u r here for or the wisdom in the post? ....@ op, aside enemity between siblings it could cause low-esteem in the less favoured sibling.

ATSOMEH:
Exactly my thoughts. It just makes reading the post difficult and uninteresting as you have to spend time trying to recognize the words.

ATSOMEH:
Exactly my thoughts. It just makes reading the post difficult and uninteresting as you have to spend time trying to recognize the words.

ideyhere: I believe there's a rule on nairaland to spell words correctly?

benELOHIM7: is it the grammer u r here for or the wisdom in the post? ....@ op, aside enemity between siblings it could cause low-esteem in the less favoured sibling.

The wisdom...but you have to understand something first to be able to utilize it...

there is no way a parent can love all the kids equally because they are all different human beings. No matter what, there must be one favourable child u love above others

lofty900: there is no way a parent can love all the kids equally because they are all different human beings. No matter what, there must be one favourable child u love above others

Yes, one cannever love d kids equally but der should be limits to how the parent shows it so that there won't b problem or unnecessary competition for parent's love among the kids.

cutiesoglam:
Yes, one cannever love d kids equally but der should be limits to how the parent shows it so that there won't b problem or unnecessary competition for parent's love among the kids.

ur rite but most parents find it difficult to hide their love 4 a particular child thereby causing envy among the other children