As I write this article at this time, I'm wide awake. I'm a student staying in a Female hostel. The girl that I share the bed with talks while sleeping, rolls over to my side and puts either her leg or hands on me. I feel very weak and tired evry nite and can't concentrate @ day time because I'd be exhausted already. For those who stay/stayed in hostels will understand what I'm saying; I mean the size of the bed with this kind of girl. Now, this girl and I knw each other very well as far back as early 2000 in church and most people in church know we stay together. She just gained admission this year and couldn't get bedspace so I had to accomodate her. And for the past 6 months this is what I face evry nite except when she's not around. I have spoken to her about it even my roomates knw about it and we all tell her to take caution but its worse. What's on my mind now is to tell her to start sleeping on the floor cos I can't take it anymore. I only wanted her to feel comfortable that's y I haven't given her that option. I don't really like the idea but seems I dnt have a choice. She's still beside me now doing weird things. What do you guys think?

Don't think this is much of an issue to solve. Why don't you gals arrange an extra mattress for her to place on the floor while you use the bunk. Discuss it maturely and confidentially...it shouldn't be a discus for the other roommates to "know about". She is new in school, don't let this trivial issue ruin her self-confidence and don't inconvenience yourself unnecessarily. All the best!

bumdish: Don't think this is much of an issue to solve. Why don't you gals arrange an extra mattress for her to place on the floor while you use the bunk. Discuss it maturely and confidentially...it shouldn't be a discus for the other roommates to "know about". She is new in school, don't let this trivial issue ruin her self-confidence and don't inconvenience yourself unnecessarily. All the best!

This thread is closed! Case solved!

conji..... she is a cuddler.. just like me..

please can she come spend d hols at my place?..
lemme pm u to get her details

Thought abt that but there's no xtra mattrass. The porters are not willing to give out because of past issues which puts their job @ risk. Even wanted to bribe severally but it was fruitless. I also Wanted to get a vitafoam mat but its too expensive and she can't even afford that for now. Thanx 4 ur contribution though. I'm still thinking.

Thought abt that but there's no xtra mattrass. The porters are not willing to give out because of past issues which puts their job @ risk. Even wanted to bribe severally but it was fruitless. I also Wanted to get a vitafoam mat but its too expensive and she can't even afford that for now. Spreading wrapper or blanket on the bare ground will jus give her backaches. I'm jus considering a lot here. Thanx 4 ur contribution though. I'm still thinking.

kilokeys: conji..... she is a cuddler.. just like me..

please can she come spend d hols at my place?..
lemme pm u to get her details

You just a joker!

Solange3:

You just a joker!

lol.. buh i am serious..

know this sha, she trusts u. she wouldn't be so lax if it were someone else.
and i had/have that issue too..
its usually cold at night..so her body parts migrates to any warm body around.

joke about it. but follow d advice of d last poster

Pinch or slap her whenever she tries that rubbish; she'll be way too asleep to realize what you've done; Continue doing so, until she stops.
Source: I did that to someone who snored.

You are lucky she doesn't bite nor scratch your body.