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Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by Nobody: 10:34am On Sep 15, 2014 |
braine: Contact should be reduced; calls, texting, visits; prolly having separate rooms for the married guys, etc. Basically to find ways for the couple to miss each other kinda. So the few times when there are calls, visits et al, there will be a lot to talk about ie quality moments and talks. What's this? 2 Likes |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by MizMyColi(f): 10:35am On Sep 15, 2014 |
temigracie: hehehehehehe... Dygeasy: MizMyColi, may I say something? sholasholala: softsparkyy: ideology: Thank You Guys Y'all are the reason I'm here 1 Like |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by Nobody: 11:07am On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: hmmmm..... Abeg you guys should just get married jare.... I wanna be a brides-maid...... 1 Like |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by MizMyColi(f): 11:09am On Sep 15, 2014 |
Hian! You know he's hooked na temigracie: |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by Nobody: 11:13am On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Hian!to who??... You guys are just dulling my spirit here... And its so unfair.....you guys simply dont wanna make me your brides-maid.. 1 Like |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by MizMyColi(f): 11:15am On Sep 15, 2014 |
You know every na Make we nuh derail the thread. temigracie: to who??... 1 Like |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by Nobody: 11:16am On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Oooh I don learn this new word ooo. Are you trying to pull a bukato on me? Temi, this is not a rozay. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by Nobody: 12:24pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Who are these kids roaming around on this thread? What so special about the copy and paste post that you guys are going gaga about? 5 Likes |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by Nobody: 1:56am On Sep 16, 2014 |
This phenomenon of 'see finish' is part of life itself, and it cannot be avoided. People eventually get bored and tired of what is too proximate/familiar/predictable/consumed/conquered/demystified/. . .owned. According to oyinbo people, "familiarity breeds contempt". . . .or as Friedrich Hegel put it, "no man is a hero to his valet". Many relationships crumble for this reason. People assume the grass is greener on the other side. Think about it, that supposedly hot girl or cute guy you're dreaming about is considered disgusting by someone somewhere who is tired of him or her. That voice that is music to your ears is grating to someone else's ears. . . . that picture that makes your heart melt makes someone else cringe. In other words, your ex is someone else's next, and vice versa. There is very little you can do to reinvent yourself when you've been "seen finish" by someone you've been in a close relationship with. If the 'I don see you finish' degenerates to 'I no wan see you again', then the only feasible solution is to seek new adventures elsewhere with new people who would consider you fresh and refreshing. 6 Likes |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by NobiGod: 6:58am On Sep 16, 2014 |
It only applies if you are not well off or your net worth declined drastically. If you married rich and remained rich then you got yourself a submissive and loving wife (even if she has to fake it). |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by kaboninc(m): 7:28pm On Sep 16, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Problem I have with this is that it tries to seek a one-sided protection for women. This idea has really shaped society so much that even laws are to back up such thoughts My point is a relationship can go south and it can be as a result of laxity from either the lady or guy or even both. When we begin and continue to place so much 'blame' and lay so much emphasis on the suppose 'fault' on the male folks and also nurturing such ideas on younger generation, the more raging our societal problems would be. I've always said this and will keep saying it. Strong, long lasting, beautiful and 'sustainable' relationship is built on a foundation built by the parties involved. Each party plays his or her own role. |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by Youngpo413: 10:10pm On Sep 16, 2014 |
AfricanApple: there is no how u will be in a long term relationship or marriage that attraction for your spouse will not reduce, it is natural. your signature has made my day,thanks a milli. |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by AfricanApple(f): 11:06pm On Sep 16, 2014 |
Youngpo413:lots of laugh, u are welcome and thanks for appreciating it 1 Like |
Re: Law Of See Finish In Marriage/relationships by LebenNG: 6:44pm On May 30, 2021 |
braine:hubby na military guy, so each time we see, am like a new bride to him, and he a new-found love. Would not have picked any other career for a spouse. So see-finish does not consign our league.Let the civil partners iron dat one out. 1 Like |
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