A very good heart-to-heart talk with your wife is needed in resolving this issue. Which will go a long way in making you 'superman' at home.

Guy na for your mind... all you need to do is break the jinx. simple. Buy the original viagra form a reputable pharmacy, take it before the act, you might even decide to take your wife out for a few drinks first before coming home just to relax her too. by the time you start the show, because of the drug whether the p.rick likes it or not, it will stand. once you do it. you have broken the jinx. throwaway the remaining medicine, since in actual sense there is nothing wrong with you... it will be smooth sailing from then on... but also try exercising and reduce sugar it helps blood flows.

@Efemenaxy,

You see why some of us are against marrying men in their early 20's?they are not ready for marriage at all

You said earlier your wife doesn't like sex.

You need to restart your sex life with her. Learn each other again. Discuss this problem with her and tell her what I will say below.

The problem started with your wife constantly turning down your sex urges whenever your body needs it and her body does not need it.

With time your subconscious mind gets programmed that this particular woman would never give in to sex. You will discover that your hammer will rise while kissing or smooching her but at the point of ,"Enter the place", it will become flat like slippas.

The woman has made you lose all desire for her.

ITbomb: It is about time to reignite the drowning passion, make time to go to romantic places together, cinema, gardens, bar and clubs.
And stop those outside runz

Seconded!!

Stop doing it outside completely, as a first step.

Discuss your experience with her and seek her patience and understanding. And with time you will start to appreciate and enjoy "it" with her.

kreamidiva:


This one wey u no get anything to tell op.

Hmmmm....

The Yingrish nor let me understand o.
The bad grammar was too distracting.
I gave up!

Kanwulia:

The Yingrish nor let me understand o.
The bad grammar was too distracting.
I gave up!

Lol... u woman sef!

Me nor even get anything to tell the young man.

cantona2014: Good morning forumites, I do not know whether this is the right section to post this ,pardon me if however I'm posting on the wrong place. The is an issue of huge pertinence to me.

I am a young family man in my late 20s, I married a beautiful wife whose her age is 2yrs lesser than mine, we married 4yrs ago and have 2 beautiful kids between us now.
Initially we didn't leave together,because, my work made me a frequent traveller but I make sure I visit home every 2weeks, during this time ,true to be told, I have many girlfriends and sexually I am a very active man, (even she do complained of been too strong on bed)but not long ago, I decided to stop womanizing ,to which I drastically reduced ,but It didn't just reduced but with a price, I do self service most times ,(something I do regeret each time it's done), to stop all these, I resolve to bring my family closer, now we leave together, I must confess my wife dont really like sex, but she cherished maximum satisfaction each time we engaged in the act, but in a recent time , I discovered my body system don't really get arose each time she make a move towards me, after all the fore-plays, my JT would not even move an inch, Initially ,I tot it's not that a problem, thinking it might be my mood at that particular time, I work on my mood and make sure am in good state of mind before attempting again, but the problem persist,even if my JT Rise before, it will go down upon moving towards her, then I realized it's a problem , recently , I met an ex-girlfriend and make a move towards her, infact ,my performance was nothing short of excellence , I tried this thing thrice, and I did as normal than expected, as wrong as this might be or appear, I did it to confirm if I have problem concerning my sex life, to which I discorverd not having any,back to my wife , the problem keep persisting, she herself has not been helping the matter ,it's as if she's looking for my flop, eachtime she made a little pre-intimacy and I dont get moved, she will just start complaning that have done something outside,even when I don't do anything at all, she don't put any extra effort, she might even not talk to me through out the whole day, forumite, please help, what can I do? What could be going through her mind? I love my wife and can not afford to loose her, constructive advice please

You registered this Moniker today , to post about your family issue, why did you not post your issue with your original Moniker.

That shows insincerity on you part , we now give you advice with this Moniker while you go back to you original Moniker and cliam "Saint" on other People's Issues.

By Man enough to Posts this with your original Moniker.

Go to see a Psychologist Or a Medical Doctor for your Problem.

cantona2014: Good morning forumites, I do not know whether this is the right section to post this ,pardon me if however I'm posting on the wrong place. The is an issue of huge pertinence to me.

I am a young family man in my late 20s, I married a beautiful wife whose her age is 2yrs lesser than mine, we married 4yrs ago and have 2 beautiful kids between us now.
Initially we didn't leave together,because, my work made me a frequent traveller but I make sure I visit home every 2weeks, during this time ,true to be told, I have many girlfriends and sexually I am a very active man, (even she do complained of been too strong on bed)but not long ago, I decided to stop womanizing ,to which I drastically reduced ,but It didn't just reduced but with a price, I do self service most times ,(something I do regeret each time it's done), to stop all these, I resolve to bring my family closer, now we leave together, I must confess my wife dont really like sex, but she cherished maximum satisfaction each time we engaged in the act, but in a recent time , I discovered my body system don't really get arose each time she make a move towards me, after all the fore-plays, my JT would not even move an inch, Initially ,I tot it's not that a problem, thinking it might be my mood at that particular time, I work on my mood and make sure am in good state of mind before attempting again, but the problem persist,even if my JT Rise before, it will go down upon moving towards her, then I realized it's a problem , recently , I met an ex-girlfriend and make a move towards her, infact ,my performance was nothing short of excellence , I tried this thing thrice, and I did as normal than expected, as wrong as this might be or appear, I did it to confirm if I have problem concerning my sex life, to which I discorverd not having any,back to my wife , the problem keep persisting, she herself has not been helping the matter ,it's as if she's looking for my flop, eachtime she made a little pre-intimacy and I dont get moved, she will just start complaning that have done something outside,even when I don't do anything at all, she don't put any extra effort, she might even not talk to me through out the whole day, forumite, please help, what can I do? What could be going through her mind? I love my wife and can not afford to loose her, constructive advice please

You registered this Moniker today , to post about your family issue, why did you not post your issue with your original Moniker.

That shows insincerity on you part , we now give you advice with this Moniker while you go back to you original Moniker and cliam "Saint" on other People's Issues.

Be Man enough to Posts this with your original Moniker.

Go to see a Psychologist Or a Medical Doctor for your Problem.

kreamidiva:


Lol... u woman sef!

Me nor even get anything to tell the young man.

There are far greater problems than what he or she tried to post, but I think I will take the high road this time.
I am practicing "SELF-CONTROL" today!
Wish me luck!

Kanwulia:

There are far greater problems than what he or she tried to post, but I think I will take the high road this time.
I am practicing "SELF-CONTROL" today!
Wish me luck!

kanyi ñulia today that you are practicing "SELF-CONTROL"

Good luck as you "zip up".

kreamidiva:


kanyi ñulia today that you are practicing "SELF-CONTROL"

Good luck as you "zip up".

Amen ooooooooooh!!!!!

QuiverBox:

You registered this Moniker today , to post about your family issue, why did you not post your issue with your original Moniker.

That shows insincerity on you part , we now give you advice with this Moniker while you go back to you original Moniker and cliam "Saint" on other People's Issues.

Be Man enough to Posts this with your original Moniker.

Go to see a Psychologist Or a Medical Doctor for your Problem.

No pretence intended here, I use to visit nairaland but never has it occur to me to make a registration and now I did ,because the need arose

dytbabe: If u love ur wife like u love ur ex, u won't have any problem giving it to her like u give ur ex
Oniranu now wants to justify his reasons
Ashawo oloko kekere

Are u d wife in question?

ireneidiva:
Just listen to yourself. Your sins are chasing you. I'm sorry for your wife.

My Wife?? You gotta be kidding me. What makes you think I have a wife?

How can you say my sins are chasing me? Aren't you quick with your judgement? Do you know who I'm?

Ask some married guys what I just told you and hear from their own mouth

Kanwulia:

The Yingrish nor let me understand o.
The bad grammar was too distracting.
I gave up!

Miss/mrs elocutionist , your writting dexterity really show in your short words #lyche

let us pray. all demons of adultery and unattentiveness to husband duties in his phallus. I bind and cast to boko members. amen. try again this night likely there will be network for your downloading and uploading

cantona2014:

Miss/mrs elocutionist , your writting dexterity really show in your short words #lyche

Thank you!
*still practicing SELF-CONTROL today*

cantona2014:

You get it wrong here, who told you this issue is as a result of early marriage? As young as both of us are , we have fused together as one, we have never had rift from morning till night, I have never for once regret getting married this early, perharps I married an educated and very understanding wife, we couldnt have managed our affairs better if we are older than this, age is just a number my brother ,grow up!!!!

SMALL BOY!!!

Young man,it's psychological.Your mind has been put in a wrong shape by the thrills of other women and self-servicing.It's like having the mindset that I don't have to study hard for an exam when I can cheat.The 'options' you have is behind this.
First,you need to start working on your mind.Stop seeing other women and stop self-servicing.Tell your mind that your wife is the only option you have.
Secondly,discuss with your wife so you both can work on it together.She should be more receptive whenever you need her.She should also make herself sexy.Nice underwears,perfumes etc
Also you will need to change some things.Explore new styles that she is comfortable with.Try to change location sometimes.Familiarity can dampen some things.
I don't think you have erectile dysfunction so you don't need drugs.

cantona2014: Good morning forumites, I do not know whether this is the right section to post this ,pardon me if however I'm posting on the wrong place. The is an issue of huge pertinence to me.

I am a young family man in my late 20s, I married a beautiful wife whose her age is 2yrs lesser than mine, we married 4yrs ago and have 2 beautiful kids between us now.
Initially we didn't leave together,because, my work made me a frequent traveller but I make sure I visit home every 2weeks, during this time ,true to be told, I have many girlfriends and sexually I am a very active man, (even she do complained of been too strong on bed)but not long ago, I decided to stop womanizing ,to which I drastically reduced ,but It didn't just reduced but with a price, I do self service most times ,(something I do regeret each time it's done), to stop all these, I resolve to bring my family closer, now we leave together, I must confess my wife dont really like sex, but she cherished maximum satisfaction each time we engaged in the act, but in a recent time , I discovered my body system don't really get arose each time she make a move towards me, after all the fore-plays, my JT would not even move an inch, Initially ,I tot it's not that a problem, thinking it might be my mood at that particular time, I work on my mood and make sure am in good state of mind before attempting again, but the problem persist,even if my JT Rise before, it will go down upon moving towards her, then I realized it's a problem , recently , I met an ex-girlfriend and make a move towards her, infact ,my performance was nothing short of excellence , I tried this thing thrice, and I did as normal than expected, as wrong as this might be or appear, I did it to confirm if I have problem concerning my sex life, to which I discorverd not having any,back to my wife , the problem keep persisting, she herself has not been helping the matter ,it's as if she's looking for my flop, eachtime she made a little pre-intimacy and I dont get moved, she will just start complaning that have done something outside,even when I don't do anything at all, she don't put any extra effort, she might even not talk to me through out the whole day, forumite, please help, what can I do? What could be going through her mind? I love my wife and can not afford to loose her, constructive advice please

I won't ask your wife to repay you evil-for-evil by making you have a drink of your own medicine, even though your unrepentant a$$ deserves just that and more. However, I would advice her to:

~ Check herself into the nearest ssexual health clinic and undergo a thorough screening for STDs/STIs and any other nasties you've probably exposed her to. I mean, it's okay for you to kill yourself if that's your desire, but your kids don't deserve to be made orphans because of your philandering ways. At the very least, they need their mother healthy - and not a dead mother sent to an early grave because of your insatiable greed.

~ There is absolutely no trust in that joke of a relationship you call marriage - from your end. You are a chronic player and a sneakily dangerous one. Madam should therefore start keeping some money aside for a rainy day for her and the kids, because believe me, that day will approach sooner, rather than later. She should start putting plans in place to build her own house in her name, and stash away some cash for her & the kids. For all she knows, you probably have a hoard of illegitimate bbastards and mistresses waiting patiently to reap where they never sowed.

I'm sure you probably beat your wife too. If not yet, you're quite close to doing so...and in all probability, you do so verbally (verbal abuse).

You already have an excuse for your current dirty ways and you blame her 100% for it, whilst shying from taking responsibility for your ffuck-ups.

Of course sex therapists are non-existent in Naija and a totally alien concept to your ilk.


May holy ghost fire blaze anyone or anything that would make any of our daughters come across (& heaven forbid, marry) your kind.

Amen.

jennykadry: @Efemenaxy,

You see why some of us are against marrying men in their early 20's?they are not ready for marriage at all

Mtcheew.

Tell me about it sis. Arrant nonsense...

EfemenaXY:

I won't ask your wife to repay you evil-for-evil by making you have a drink of your own medicine, even though your unrepentant a$$ deserves just that and more. However, I would advice her to:

~ Check herself into the nearest ssexual health clinic and undergo a thorough screening for STDs/STIs and any other nasties you've probably exposed her to. I mean, it's okay for you to kill yourself if that's your desire, but your kids don't deserve to be made orphans because of your philandering ways. At the very least, they need their mother healthy - and not a dead mother sent to an early grave because of your insatiable greed.

~ There is absolutely no trust in that joke of a relationship you call marriage - from your end. You are a chronic player and a sneakily dangerous one. Madam should therefore start keeping some money aside for a rainy day for her and the kids, because believe me, that day will approach sooner, rather than later. She should start putting plans in place to build her own house in her name, and stash away some cash for her & the kids. For all she knows, you probably have a hoard of illegitimate bbastards and mistresses waiting patiently to reap where they never sowed.

I'm sure you probably beat your wife too. If not yet, you're quite close to doing so...and in all probability, you do so verbally (verbal abuse).

You already have an excuse for your current dirty ways and you blame her 100% for it, whilst shying from taking responsibility for your ffuck-ups.

Of course sex therapists are non-existent in Naija and a totally alien concept to your ilk.


May holy ghost fire blaze anyone or anything that would make any of our daughters come across (& heaven forbid, marry) your kind.

Amen.

Are you this stupid or you just make an extra effort today?

So what exactly is the reason for your affairs?

You have a pretty, good wife who has given you 2 beautiful children . . what else are you looking for?

Is it until you bring home an untreatable STD that your eyes will clear? when you knew that you were not ready for marriage, you should have waited until you had matured more rather than trying to mix marriage and singlehood together.

You cant sleep with your wife becasue your mind is not right with her and now you want to blame her. The problem is yours sir and no one elses.

I dont know if you have an understanding wife as not all women have deep minds.
If she is understading and will cover your shame . YES YOUR SHAME! (or is it not shameful that you can get your JT up for a dirty girl outside but cant do the same for your loving wife you made a vow to in front of all those people some years ago) . . .

. . . As I was saying, if she is the understanding type, then go to her and explain everything to her and ask her for her forgiveness support and help. Its only when you both work together that you can overcome this issue together.

. . and when you get fixed dont go back to your vomit; ive heard stories of mistesses outside killing the wives at home, so be very careful so your story does not become one of these stories we hear every now and again at gatherings and people shake their head and say oma she o!

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cantona2014:

Are you this stupid or you just make an extra effort today?

Shut ya Rabies infested mouth you dog.

so the woman is now getting the blame for not putting in extra effort to get the JT up? O ga o.

jennykadry:

Shut ya Rabies infested mouth you dog.

,my jenny never disappoints

cantona2014:

You get it wrong here, who told you this issue is as a result of early marriage? As young as both of us are , we have fused together as one, we have never had rift from morning till night, I have never for once regret getting married this early, perharps I married an educated and very understanding wife, we couldnt have managed our affairs better if we are older than this, age is just a number my brother ,grow up!!!!

Full of praises 4 ur wify, yet u cldnt hold it together in ur pants. When you exchanged your wedding vows , was infidelity part of the plan?

jennykadry:

Shut ya Rabies infested mouth you dog.

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