Please, how many times exactly in nigeria OR in your opinion should a husband beats up his wife before the wife leaves him Or what level of beating/abuse? Especially when a little child(ren) is involved? Cos some people nowadays (especially the older ones) seem to think abuse is not enough for a woman to run away from her home OR the man would stop, it's just a phase? OR think about your child, do you want her/him to grow up without a family? OR marriage is for better for worse, till DEATH do us part lol.... What if it so happens that the man has beaten away every single feeling you ever had for him? How dem dey handle that kind thing?