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Men Who Cook Well by orbis(m): 6:33pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Hi ladies, I have been itching to ask a wider audience of ladies this question. Would you prefer a man who knows his way around the kitchen and prepares lovely delicious dishes or would you prefer an indomie and tea guy. I am confused because my ex loved it when I cook but my new lady wouldn't want me 100 meters near the kitchen. |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Nobody: 6:35pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
I really like it when a man can cook. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by EmoBoy(m): 6:40pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Some african women don't like when their men cook because they believe it is their sole duty. Luckily you found yourself one |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by orbis(m): 6:42pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: I really like it when a man can cook.How about when he cooks way better than you. |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Nobody: 6:43pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
I'd prefer a man who knows his way around d house not only kitchen, cos if he can do huswork d easier for me. If he cooks today, I cook tmoro, I cook soup he pounds yam. Shikena. Not watching EPL while am killing myself 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Clone2020(m): 6:44pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious. www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/ |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Nobody: 6:44pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
orbis: It is very difficult to cook better than I do Then hopefully he enjoys cooking and cooks a lot 1 Like |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Nobody: 6:48pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Clone2020: There's a published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives Where can I find it? |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by orbis(m): 6:52pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Guess you just met your match. I can do better ...trust me |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by cococandy(f): 6:53pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
I enjoy cooking and I don't mind doing all the cooking. I love to feed everyone around me. As long as I have the time. Which I do. For now. I don't know what the future holds and how busy I might get. In that case,I'd prefer a man who's not totally useless in the kitchen area. Lucky I found one. He makes award-winning jollof rice 2 Likes |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Clone2020(m): 6:54pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Here u go ma'am www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/ |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Nobody: 6:55pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
orbis: I believe you. I think, it's really cool. |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Nobody: 6:55pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Clone2020: Thanks a lot. I am going to read it now. |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by orbis(m): 6:55pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Clone2020: There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious. Broseley that is for American men. Deny a Nigerian man his conjugal and see if he doesn't express his new found liberty to the limit....lol 1 Like |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by cococandy(f): 6:56pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Funny. How does cooking some of the time make a man less macho? It's romantic if you don't know. Especially if you've had a long day and you're surprised by a nice dinner he made. If he's not macho,he's not macho. Cooking won't make him less so. Being macho is mostly about looks and carriage Clone2020: There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by EmoBoy(m): 6:56pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Clone2020: There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious. So true Displays of masculinity may evoke feminine displays in women, which activates or intensifies sexual charge. Put the man on a rider mower, in other words, and boom—fireworks. Stand him at a sudsy sink, and it's a probable no go. @OP Hope you've seen this. They're indirectly calling you a mangina. . . If you know what that means |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by EmoBoy(m): 6:58pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
cococandy: Funny. How does cooking some of the time make a man less macho? Define romance objectively. |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Pataki: 7:00pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Of what use is a man if he cannot find his way around in the kitchen? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by cococandy(f): 7:04pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
EmoBoy:Honey it's relative. And even with a particular person,it varies. Mostly according to mood or circumstance If I'm home and less busy,him cooking and me laying around doing nothing MAY NOT appeal to me because frankly most of us nigerian women at the core are traditional. But imagine me pregnant,sick and coming back from work after spending a long day figthing traffic and all the stress to get home just to be surprised by his thoughtfulness in making something I like to eat Mmmmmm Romance in the air. See? there's no definition for romance. Just know your partner and blend with him/her 2 Likes |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Nobody: 7:06pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Clone2020: I read it and did some more research and found another article. Let me quote a paragraph. Of particular interest is a paper by Sharon Sassler of Cornell University debunking the widely publicized claim that men who do more housework “get” less sex. Research showing that couples had less sex when they split chores equally was “based on data gathered over a quarter of a century ago,” Sassler found, and “was focused on the sexual behaviors of married couples in the late 1980s, many of whom had met and married in the 1960s and 1970s.” http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2014/07/30/sex_and_housework_study_sharing_chores_doesn_t_make_couples_have_less_sex.html Are we smarter now? |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by EmoBoy(m): 7:09pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
cococandy: Thats the point - You see men who love cooking as romantic, many women don't. |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by cococandy(f): 7:11pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Well you can only speak for your woman and I can only speak for myself. But we can't speak for every woman. at least a few women on this thread have said they do which debunks the many-women 'fact'. EmoBoy: 2 Likes |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Tallesty1(m): 7:16pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
My madam no fit shakara for me when e comes to kitchen matter. |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by EmoBoy(m): 7:24pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
cococandy: Well you can only speak for your woman and I can only speak for myself. A real study proved otherwise. |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by cococandy(f): 7:33pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
And the people commenting on this thread are what? Not real? Wait. More are coming EmoBoy: 1 Like |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by aderonila18: 7:37pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
I find men who can cook very sexy, having a man who is useless is the kitchen is like having an extra child in the house. No thank you |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by pweedyuz(f): 7:45pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Tallesty1: My madam no fit shakara for me when e comes to kitchen matter.mtchew,,infact i love u!!! 4 dat statement |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by pweedyuz(f): 7:53pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
i love me men whu can cook im nt saying d burden of cooking will b bestowed on u but at least ........dose dose i will cum back tired nd weary .................................go overboard,,cook my unripe plantain pottage garnished with dry fish nd scent leaves,,set d table,,place d chilled andre or amarula beside...... *damn,,,,just realised im missing sumone* |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by EmoBoy(m): 7:56pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
cococandy: And the people commenting on this thread are what? Not real? Ok o. No wahala |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by nellyelitz(m): 8:11pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
I can cook for her any time but not as a duty... |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by cococandy(f): 8:19pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
Emoboy more are still coming |
Re: Men Who Cook Well by Nobody: 8:30pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
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