Hi ladies, I have been itching to ask a wider audience of ladies this question. Would you prefer a man who knows his way around the kitchen and prepares lovely delicious dishes or would you prefer an indomie and tea guy. I am confused because my ex loved it when I cook but my new lady wouldn't want me 100 meters near the kitchen.

I really like it when a man can cook.

Some african women don't like when their men cook because they believe it is their sole duty. Luckily you found yourself one

carefreewannabe: I really like it when a man can cook.

How about when he cooks way better than you.

I'd prefer a man who knows his way around d house not only kitchen, cos if he can do huswork d easier for me. If he cooks today, I cook tmoro, I cook soup he pounds yam. Shikena. Not watching EPL while am killing myself

There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious.
www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/

orbis:
How about when he cooks way better than you.

It is very difficult to cook better than I do

Then hopefully he enjoys cooking and cooks a lot

Clone2020: There's a published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives

Where can I find it?

carefreewannabe:

It is very difficult to cook better than I do

Then hopefully he enjoys cooking and cooks a lot

Guess you just met your match. I can do better ...trust me

I enjoy cooking and I don't mind doing all the cooking.
I love to feed everyone around me.

As long as I have the time. Which I do.
For now.

I don't know what the future holds and how busy I might get.

In that case,I'd prefer a man who's not totally useless in the kitchen area.

Lucky I found one.

He makes award-winning jollof rice

carefreewannabe:

Where can I find it?

Here u go ma'am
www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/

orbis:

Guess you just met your match. I can do better ...trust me

I believe you. I think, it's really cool.

Clone2020:

Here u go ma'am
www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/

Thanks a lot. I am going to read it now.

Clone2020: There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious.
www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/

Broseley that is for American men. Deny a Nigerian man his conjugal and see if he doesn't express his new found liberty to the limit....lol

Funny. How does cooking some of the time make a man less macho?

It's romantic if you don't know.
Especially if you've had a long day and you're surprised by a nice dinner he made.

If he's not macho,he's not macho. Cooking won't make him less so.

Being macho is mostly about looks and carriage

Clone2020: There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious.
www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/

Clone2020: There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious.
www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/

So true

Displays of masculinity may evoke feminine displays in women, which activates or intensifies sexual charge. Put the man on a rider mower, in other words, and boom—fireworks. Stand him at a sudsy sink, and it's a probable no go.

@OP
Hope you've seen this. They're indirectly calling you a mangina. . . If you know what that means

cococandy: Funny. How does cooking some of the time make a man less macho?

It's romantic if you don't know.
Especially if you've had a long day and you're surprised by a nice dinner he made.

If he's not macho,he's not macho. Cooking won't make him less so.

Being macho is mostly about looks.quote author=Clone2020]There's a recently published study that shows that men who cook and do chores at home are denied sex by their wives. Subconsciously, women expect men to maintain a macho stance, a man who's always cooking, washing plates and sweeping the house is viewed as a weakling.... Keep in mind this is all subconscious.
www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/

Define romance objectively.

Of what use is a man if he cannot find his way around in the kitchen?

EmoBoy:

Define romance objectively.

Honey it's relative.
And even with a particular person,it varies.
Mostly according to mood or circumstance

If I'm home and less busy,him cooking and me laying around doing nothing MAY NOT appeal to me because frankly most of us nigerian women at the core are traditional.

But imagine me pregnant,sick and coming back from work after spending a long day figthing traffic and all the stress to get home just to be surprised by his thoughtfulness in making something I like to eat
Mmmmmm
Romance in the air.

See? there's no definition for romance. Just know your partner and blend with him/her

Clone2020:

Here u go ma'am
www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-who-do-housework-have-less-sex/

I read it and did some more research and found another article.

Let me quote a paragraph.

Of particular interest is a paper by Sharon Sassler of Cornell University debunking the widely publicized claim that men who do more housework “get” less sex. Research showing that couples had less sex when they split chores equally was “based on data gathered over a quarter of a century ago,” Sassler found, and “was focused on the sexual behaviors of married couples in the late 1980s, many of whom had met and married in the 1960s and 1970s.”

When Sassler and her colleagues turned to newer data from 2006—data that examined married and cohabiting couples that formed in the '90s or later—they found much different results. “Couples who shared domestic labor had sex at least as often, and were at least as satisfied with the frequency and quality of their sex, as couples where the woman did the bulk of the housework,” Sassler writes. So good news for people who like fairness, cleanliness, and sex.

http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2014/07/30/sex_and_housework_study_sharing_chores_doesn_t_make_couples_have_less_sex.html

Are we smarter now?

cococandy:
Honey it's relative.
And even with a particular person,it varies.
Mostly according to mood or circumstance

If I'm home and less busy,him cooking and me laying around doing nothing may not appeal to me because frankly most of us nigerian women at the core are traditional.

But imagine me pregnant,sick and coming back from work after spending a long day figthing traffic and all the stress to get home just to be surprised by his thoughtfulness in making something I like to eat
Mmmmmm
Romance in the air.

See,there's no definition of romance. Just know your partner and blend with him/her

Thats the point - You see men who love cooking as romantic, many women don't.

Well you can only speak for your woman and I can only speak for myself.
But we can't speak for every woman. at least a few women on this thread have said they do which debunks the many-women 'fact'.

EmoBoy:

Thats the point - You see men who love cooking as romantic, many women don't.

My madam no fit shakara for me when e comes to kitchen matter.

cococandy: Well you can only speak for your woman and I can only speak for myself.
But we can't speak for every woman. at least a few women on this thread have said they do which debunks the many-women 'fact'.

A real study proved otherwise.

And the people commenting on this thread are what? Not real?
Wait. More are coming

EmoBoy:

A real study proved otherwise.

I find men who can cook very sexy, having a man who is useless is the kitchen is like having an extra child in the house. No thank you

Tallesty1: My madam no fit shakara for me when e comes to kitchen matter.

mtchew,,infact i love u!!!










4 dat statement

i love me men whu can cook

im nt saying d burden of cooking will b bestowed on u
but at least ........dose dose i will cum back tired nd weary .................................go overboard,,cook my unripe plantain pottage garnished with dry fish nd scent leaves,,set d table,,place d chilled andre or amarula beside......


*damn,,,,just realised im missing sumone*

cococandy: And the people commenting on this thread are what? Not real?
Wait. More are coming

Ok o. No wahala

I can cook for her any time but not as a duty...

Emoboy more are still coming