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Advice Every Guy In A Long Distance Relationship Needs by lolu007(m): 12:49pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Learn to Love Your Alone Time There’s no two ways about it: Being in a relationship is time- consuming. However, for the man who has a sweetheart who is hundreds or even thousands of miles away, there’s less time being consumed. Sure, you still have to put time into the relationship to nurture and sustain it. However, you also have a lot of time that guys in more local relationships would kill for. Take classes, read books, learn new skills, meet new people out on your own. Do all the things that your guy friends with local girlfriends wish they had time for. Not only is it going to make you a better man, it’s going to strengthen your relationship. Always Plan for the Next Time If you don’t have some plan to see each other again when you part, it’s going to drive both of you nuts. So before the two of you split ways, you need to have some kind of a plan — no matter how vague or tenuous — to see each other again. It’s also good to have some kind of a rule in place for how long the two of you can go without seeing one another. Whether it’s a week or four months, having this in place can make the time that the two of you are apart a lot easier to deal with. Put Your Jealousy in Check When the two of you live very far apart it’s easy to succumb to the natural tendency to get jealous. However, if you let that eat at your or if you express it too much or in inappropriate and passive-aggressive ways that’s not going to bring the two of you closer. On the contrary, it’s going to drive the two of you apart. Understand that she’s going to have a life when she’s away from you, just as you have one away from here. There’s little point in being in a relationship with someone if you’re not going to stay true to them — especially if they live so far away that you’d never see them otherwise. The Most Important Long-Distance Relationship Advice: Make Time For Her You might think that this particular piece of long-distance relationship advice is in conflict with the first piece. However, nothing could be further from the truth. When it comes to being in any kind of relationship, you need to put energy into it to get stuff out of it. So make time for her. Try to make a little bit of time for her every day. As with any relationship, it’s mostly the thought that counts; She wants to know that she’s important to you and there are a thousand different ways you can do that every day the two of you are apart |
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