Hello dearest readers, how’s your weekend
been? Today’s topic came about from a
conversation I had with some amazing friends a
couple of weeks ago. It was about whether sex
on a Monday morning is ideal/acceptable or not.
Most of us did not see anything wrong in it
while a couple others thought it was wrong and
as close to an abomination as one can get. The
argument against having sex on Mondays was
because it sets the wrong tone for the week and
also because it could signify joblessness or
thoughtlessness. The arguments for, disagreed.
We felt sex should have no time-tables
whatsoever but should be indulged in by
couples whenever the need arises, including
Monday mornings before heading out to work.
Bearing in mind that there are different strokes
(pun unintended) for different folks, in my own
opinion I think there shouldn’t be any
restrictions or barriers when it comes to sex
between adults. I think restraints (well, not
physical ones for those into that sort of thing)
suck out the fun of spontaneity that should
come with the act. I believe sex is a beautiful
thing that should be thoroughly enjoyed by both
parties engaging in it.
Imagine a scenario where you have laid rules
about the when and how of going at it, and one
half of a couple gets an itch before the set
time, what happens then? I could tell you a
number of things that could happen as a result,
but that’s not for this post. Thus, I think people
should indulge in sex without necessarily putting
barriers to it. I recall someone told me
something once and I found it very shocking and
bizarre. She had had a horrible experience
whilst bearing her first child and so in a bid not
to have a second child, she made a sex time-
table for her hubby. They had sex only a couple
of times, every three weeks!!! I tried to
educate her about contraceptives and even
counting her cycle so the “sex ban” would be
narrowed down to her unsafe period but she
wasn’t having none of it. I tried to make her see
how she might be unwillingly pushing her hubby
out into the arms of a willing female(s), but she
was beyond understanding at the time. I rested
my case, even though the thought still bothers
me every now and then.
When you consider how hectic Mondays are at
work and the traffic you have to plough through
to get there, I’d say one for the road on such a
morning will certainly keep you well relaxed and
prepared for the day ahead. Remember,
continuous communication, understanding and
compromise are keys to happier relationships.
I’m #TeamNoSexRestrictions, but of cause “ to
each man his own” .

Most people prey of sexual sins because their spouse deprived them of it.

MONDAY MORNING habamana

Good sex with one's spouse is therapeautic regardless of the time. Monday morning sex is a good way to start d week especially among those out of station spouses that would be heading back to station that morning.