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Reasons Most Nigerian Women dont Get Married by Nobody: 7:47am On Oct 08, 2014
Reasons Most Nigerian Women
Dont get married
1. Many African ladies will end up
singles for life because of media
exposure- it is so disheartening
how a lady will glue her eyes on
a mobile phone from morning to
night, only to raise it up to focus
on television to watch another
celebrity entertainment channel.
Tell me, what else will dominate
this lady’s mindset aside how to
live a fake celebrity life being
promoted on television
channels?
2. Many African ladies now dislike
cooking and home chores just
because they had been totally
brainwashed by movies
showcasing men playing the role
of women in a family, and due to
excessive exposure to modern
media that promotes gender-
equality in a destructive way
that’s aimed at destroying the
unique African family setting that
made our previous African
marriages everlasting and
envious to the westerns. Now,
with this attitude, how do you
expect a African man to desire to
marry when he knows he is only
buying more headache and
trouble than helper for himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most
decent and serious-minded men
off- if you have observed, you will
discover that most men dislike
excessive makeup, and more
don’t even like it at all; reason
they often times discourage their
true loved ones to do away with
it cos it speaks ill of a lady even
though so many men will
applaud and complement you for
looking like an Egyptian mummy.
A slight makeup is okay; but if
you are out for marriage, try
always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men,
decent and serious-minded,
except you are still living in your
high school life and not thinking
towards marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out
To Every Joystick & Harry! No man
would want to propose marriage
to a lady whose phone is always
talking and laughing with un
serious calls. You may not be a
playgirl, but he would judge you
as one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or
disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into
The Life Of Men You Date or Are
Dating- because your best friend
married without contributing
anything to the man that finally
married her, doesn’t mean it will
work for you that way. Think,
work towards equipping
yourself so that you can be a
value and also add value to his
life to convince him that you are
worth committing to. Adding
value to his life isn’t by giving
him money, or material gifts,
nope….good counsels, being his
best friend, helping him attain
his goals in life, lending him
moral, mental and spiritual
support, and by not just being a
liability that only bring requests
and problems to be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life-
how do you expect to find a
husband when you still allow
your clique of friends to be
dictating which man you meet is
worthy of your love and which is
not? When will you wake up and
face the fact that those your best
friends even though they cherish
you, wouldn’t want you to marry
before them or to marry the best
man?
7. You Give Everything Out During
Dating- As a single lady who has
not been taken to the altar, you
need to reserve some things for
your husband to be, especially
your body, respect it and
preserve it at all cost. In the past,
men rushed to marry to get
certain things or privileges they
had been constantly denied
while being single. Such
privileges include and not limited
to: constant s*x and
companionship, good food and
tidied home, etc. But today, a
single man gets even the best
and of course more of constant
s*x, good food and excellent
home-keeping more than his
married counterparts, so tell me
how the hell you want him to
desire to marry you when you
have given him virtually
everything he desires from a
wife while being his girlfriend?
And the most painful part of it all
is that he knows that you are
prepared to cut down on s*x
supply, cooking, home-keeping,
etc once he marries you, so why
would he not want you to
remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly-
in your attempt to look sexy,
adorable and maybe appealing to
guys, you have derailed from
appealing to appalling. In fact
you look more whorish than
modest; more unattractive than
attractive, and more disgusting
than adorable. Your dressing
style determines who gets
attracted to you most times. If
you dress high school, only high
school-thinking guys will be
attracted to you, and if you dress
excessively sexy and provocative,
only randy men will come to you
for urgent satisfaction of their
immediate s*x urge, so don’t be
fooled by media hyping of
certain kinds of dressing, they
are meant for certain set of
ladies you wouldn’t like to be
associated with, be careful.
Remember, not all clothes that
look sexy are good for a
seriously searching for a soul
mate single lady.
9. You Lack Manners, Character,
Wisdom and Good Home
Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot
girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks
will win you so many men; both
the good, and the bad, but your
inner beauty, your character and
manner are the things that will
determine whether any of those
men would stay or run after
accomplishing their evil missions.
In order words, do away with
nagging, being possessive,
challenging with men in negative
ways, the mentality of ‘what a
man can do a woman can do
better’, a lie devil has used to
deceive and destroy so many
ladies today, please do away with
it.
Re: Reasons Most Nigerian Women dont Get Married by erutoria: 8:03am On Oct 08, 2014
Not always true
Re: Reasons Most Nigerian Women dont Get Married by Sanguine77(m): 8:10am On Oct 08, 2014
I did not read everything but I must let you know that not all women will get a husband no matter how hard they package themselves cos some of them, their husbands are in jail, are Boko Haram members, have died or have no interest in marriage.
Re: Reasons Most Nigerian Women dont Get Married by AfricanApple(f): 9:13am On Oct 08, 2014
most? yet there always wedding event everyday. dem no dey even allow my friend rest for as he I
op I think u are d one dat has been brainwashed by media

I didn't even bother to read cos I know its same old boring list

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