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Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by Nobody: 8:48pm On Oct 22, 2014
pickabeau1:


I see so many of these cats...

They snag one white man or some green card fellow and suddenly its like they never were born in this country and they were born abroad also.

Lol

*sigh* wetin dem for do. It's a terrible situation in the country , I see daily what girls have to go through just to acquire basic needs , just like you said - the struggle is real.
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by ceo003: 8:48pm On Oct 22, 2014
Chillisauce:


You never see anything. Dem go chop am finish, use lacasara wash am down cheesy

Come here follow us type tufiakwa
grin grin ha ha ha ur 2 funny
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by Nobody: 8:51pm On Oct 22, 2014
50calibre:


Loool you reason like a peasant. What the fuc*k is 300k? It's not even enough to get you a two weeks stay in a lagos 5 star hotel.

But since you're the intelligent one, tell me whàt business you can startup with 300k
Its u dat reasons lyk a peasant if at the mention of 300k all u can think of is a stay in a 5 star hotel. People who worked for their money know how to invest it. U dnt expect me 2 teach u wat 2 do wif 300k, if u earned that money u'll know what to do with it. The owner of house of tara started off with about 4k, shez now big.

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Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by pickabeau1: 8:52pm On Oct 22, 2014
neoapocalypse:


*sigh* wetin dem for do. It's a terrible situation in the country , I see daily what girls have to go through just to acquire basic needs , just like you said - the struggle is real.

It is real....

I don't need to rain on anyone parade

Its just the fact that these people now behave like they don't fart.
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by JayJustus(m): 9:00pm On Oct 22, 2014
Pasca07:
when has travelling to USA becomes short cut?so u want all the naija youths to start selling gala and chips on the highway? Chai

try to understand what I'm pointing out there...fraudulent marriage just to get to the US is the shortcut I'm talking about...and I'm not saying everyone should sell snacks on the streets but it is better to do that legitimate job than using fraud- guided means to make wealth...
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by 50calibre(m): 9:02pm On Oct 22, 2014
JayJustus:
the mentality that making it outside the shores of Nigeria is just crazyyyyyyy... sit yo ass and think of what you can do to make money...even in the US you don't pick money on the floor tho...it's just laziness on the part of our youths... dangote didn't leave Nigeria yet he bosses foreigners. .....well decision is individualistic and if for a blue passport you start banging your grand mother, issorait...not far anymore the US passport will be worthless it has started... most countries have removed their foreign reserves from US dollars into Yuan (renminbi), yen, swiss franc etc...with a US passport wherever you work on earth you'd be taxed back by the US government so your money is not safe wherever you are... imagine getting taxed from the country you work then getting taxed back home again...mehhh...your life like PS2...press X to deduct..I've seen many US citizens that ran away to China, Brazil, even Cambodia and Vietnam cos of extradition laws...THINK BEFORE YOU ACT...the blue passport isnt a jail free card its welcome to jail card ...nonetheless there are hardworking youths out there selling gala and chips on the street who wanna make it without shortcut and that's where the blessing lies ...You go to Queens NY you get shot in the damn head when grandmas grandson discovers she married her age mate...

Holy shi*t what the fuc*k is this? Seun has to do something fast, lots of lunatics are now running amok on NL. This guy is freakish insane.

First!! You're not Dangote, most people are not and will not be Dangote, do a little research into his background and you will understand.

Second!! You said most countries have moved their foreign reserves away from the dollar,... Care to give me a list of these countries?

Third!! Only a criminal worries about extradition, so are you encouraging criminality?

Lastly!! So selling gala and crisps is a blessing? Meaning you're encouraging the youth to sell gala & crisp..

Dude you're feeling insane!! You need help

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Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by JayJustus(m): 9:03pm On Oct 22, 2014
pansophist:


SHUT UP!!!

you butt hurt my nigga?? *have a Pepsi*
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by JayJustus(m): 9:10pm On Oct 22, 2014
50calibre:


Holy shi*t what the fuc*k is this? Seun has to do something fast, lots of lunatics are now running amok on NL. This guy is freakish insane.

First!! You're not Dangote, most people are not and will not be Dangote, do a little research into his background and you will understand.

Second!! You said most countries have moved their foreign reserves away from the dollar,... Care to give me a list of these countries?

Third!! Only a criminal worries about extradition, so are you encouraging criminality?

Lastly!! So selling gala and crisps is a blessing? Meaning you're encouraging the youth to sell gala & crisp..

Dude you're feeling insane!! You need help


Firstly, Dangote is an example I used of someone that didn't wanna use shortcut by doing fraud to make wealth

secondly... China, Korea are examples of countries that have removed their reserves from the USD...


thirdly: Im not supporting crime but only stating the worst scenario where someone might need help...not everyone charged for a crime is guilty of that crime...so extradition law can be wrongly affecting an innocent person...

lastly: selling snacks on the street is better than fraudulent marriage just to get an LPR...read through the lines and digest before attacking baselessly.
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by Nobody: 9:12pm On Oct 22, 2014
pansophist:


You actually cant comprehend my post, what I wrote is basically understandable.

You said only desperate folks want to travel abroad, and I debunk that. What else do you want? Can you also tell me how you arrived at the conclusion that majority are doing menail jobs abroad? Even if majority are doing menial job, they still have a better life than majority of you folks in naija.
Read well before u comment, don't use sentiments as a basis for making judgements. Look at the picture well, look at the red arrow. Cos I knw derz no better way 4 u to get this other dan illustrating my previous post to u so u see it clearly. I made mention of "most(desperates)" and not most asin all the people gunning of green cards as a whole.

Also my first post was made to show why its a bad idea to rush for green card without having anything worthwhile doing. Then u came telling a different story dat had no inclination to my post sayn its because of decent lifestyle people choose to get green card. So tell me how a person who doesn't have a reasonable job in nigeria will have a decent lifestyle once he gets In2 anoda country?
U also failed to realise that I was refering to people who will do anything just to get a green card. U just wanted 2 show off the perks bout having a green card. I dnt need to be told that somfin I know. My post hinges on the fact that its a bad idea for people who don't av jobs to be clamouring for greencard simple. If u can't understand dat, don't tell me ow sweet it is 2 av a green card cos dats wat u bn repeating over n over without getting my point.

Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by bakandow11: 9:13pm On Oct 22, 2014
hugelyendowed:
I don't care, if marrying a white woman old, granny or young, would earn me a green card, why not? I would gladly accept d offer abeg.
In nigeria or developing nations in broad sense, the distance between the rich and the poor isn't that much but the gap is so wide, so for you to move up the food chain you have to build a bridge. many nigerians have done this, the stroy is always like BROTHER left for U.S and after 5years is back well loaded.
Comparing this act with rituals,money laudering, kidnapping and even embezzlement of public funds i think the 2yrs is worth the wait to have the chance to even liberate other family member from abject poverty.
In conclusion life is all about risk, to cross to d next level u will have to take one ( ask Dangote).
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by ELLYsian: 9:19pm On Oct 22, 2014
JayJustus:



Firstly, Dangote is an example I used of someone that didn't wanna use shortcut by doing fraud to make wealth

secondly... China, Korea are examples of countries that have removed their reserves from the USD...


thirdly: Im not supporting crime but only stating the worst scenario where someone might need help...not everyone charged for a crime is guilty of that crime...so extradition law can be wrongly affecting an innocent person...

lastly: selling snacks on the street is better than fraudulent marriage just to get an LPR... read through the lines and digest before attacking baselessly.

@bold
I wish more people had such an attitude.


Comme il faut.
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by JayJustus(m): 9:24pm On Oct 22, 2014
ELLYsian:


@bold
I wish more people had such an attitude.


Comme il faut.

Dieu tu benisse mon frere
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by ELLYsian: 9:27pm On Oct 22, 2014
JayJustus:


Dieu tu benisse mon frere

Merci beaucoup cheesy
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by donodion(m): 9:40pm On Oct 22, 2014
lalasticlala:
Despite many socio-cultural problems and even an economic depression few years back, the United States of America remains the ultimate destination for many people from across the world, especially developing countries. Seen as the land of opportunity and freedom, immigrants employ several means to get permanent residence status, one of which is marrying for the green card. But in the end is it a good idea committing marriage fraud for a green card?


GREEN CARD

In the US, the green card is an identification card attesting to the permanent resident status of an alien or a person who is not an original citizen of the country. Formerly known as the Alien Registration Card or Alien Registration Receipt Card, the document is informally referred to as the green card because it had been green in color from 1946 until 1964 and since May 2010, has reverted to that color. Thus obtaining a green card refers to the process of becoming a Lawful Permanent Resident or LPR in the US. Once a person has acquired a green card, it means he/she has been officially granted immigration benefits which include permission to reside and undertake employment in the USA. The US Citizenship and Immigration Services or USCIS has the authority to grant green cards to applicants. However even after obtaining one, the holder must maintain permanent resident status and can be removed from the United States if certain conditions of this status are not met.

HOW DOES IT WORK?

The green card wedding racket works by arranging a wedding between a regular US citizen and an alien who has come to US from a foreign country and is either staying on a temporary visa or is an illegal immigrant. The US citizen usually agrees to the wedding in return for a fat fee while the agents, touts and other middlemen get their own cut in the monetary transaction. The entire financial burden in this marriage fraud is borne by the alien who wants a green card at any cost. Once someone is legally wedded to a US citizen, he/she begins the wait for the coveted green card. The American citizen or LPR filesan I-130 petition form with USCIS if they live in the United States or, if they live abroad, at an American embassy or consulate1. Approval of the petition signifies that a consular officer or USCIS adjudicator has verified that a valid, qualifying relationship exists between an American petitioner and foreign applicant. Among the documents that the couple are required to produce while applying for the green card are typically the petition itself, marriage and birth certificates, passports, and supporting documents and photos meant to prove the validity of the relationship. Typically, couples must remain legally married for two years before the conditional status on the immigrant spouse’s green card is removed. At the interview which decides whether the conditional status should be removed, the couple is supposed to produce documentary evidence that they still live together like joint tax returns and bank accounts. Once the immigrant’s conditional status has been removed - usually after two years – the couple is free to divorce with no repercussions. And three years after removing the conditional status on the green card, the immigrant is eligible for American citizenship and after that can petition to bring his/her relatives to the United States. In this way an immigrant who had no way of becoming an American citizen on the basis of his/her professional skills or other legal grounds, is able to acquire the green card or permanent residency status.


MARRIAGE FRAUD


The primary reason which makes marrying someone for a green card a bad idea is that it entails marriage fraud. This is a federal crime and the punishment of trying to cheat immigration officials can be severe. An alien accused by authorities of marriage fraud can be deported and barred from ever obtaining a green card. And a US citizen who knowingly marries to evade immigration laws can face five years in jail2. Indeed in recent years, United States has come down hard on fraudulent marriages which promise green card in return for money. In the fall of 2005 a group of 30 conspirators was busted by immigration officials near Miami for arranging or participating in a long-running marriage-for-money scheme. The arrests were the culmination of a two-year probe, dubbed Operation Honeymooners that immigration officers say involved more than 100 fraudulent marriages. More recently the federal government agents have cracked fake marriage scams in South Florida, Chicago, Des Moines and Seattle where ring leaders were believed to have paid U.S. citizens to marry aliens so that the aliens could earn permanent residency. Despite the romanticized implications of marriage for green card as depicted in Hollywood movies like the Green Card and The Proposal, federal officials take marriage frauds very seriously. For them it is much more than a cat and mouse chase – it is a matter of national security and the offenders are likely to be punished accordingly when convicted.

Apart from the very real legal dangers of marrying for green card, it is hardly a good idea even if one is able to get past immigration officials. This is because any relationship which is based on fraud and lies is bound to flounder in the end. And even if the spouses of such a fraudulent marriage have no intention of living with each other, still the uncertainty and the anxiety during the three year waiting period can cause both to feel really uncomfortable and miserable. It can definitely harm the quality of their lives – after all how can you be happy if you are constantly looking over your shoulder in anticipation of the law coming knocking on your doorstep? For the immigrant especially, living under the shadow of deceit and crime is no way to start a new life in the land of promise.


Source: http://www.futurescopes.com/getting-married/8196/reasons-why-marrying-someone-green-card-bad-idea-fraught-risk

lala........maka why?
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by temitemi1(m): 9:43pm On Oct 22, 2014
America no gEt young ladies again ni Bt watever it take I must enter dat country ooooo!
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by 50calibre(m): 9:47pm On Oct 22, 2014
[quote author=JayJustus post=27367823]


Firstly, Dangote is an example I used of someone that didn't wanna use shortcut by doing fraud to make wealth

What does this mean? I don't think you know anything about Dangote. If you think Dangote's wealth is a reflection of his hardwork, then your poverty shall be in abundance.

secondly... China, Korea are examples of countries that have removed their reserves from the USD...

What!!! Where did you get this from? Ok!! Indulge me, what currency has china & Korea moved their reserves to?


thirdly: Im not supporting crime but only stating the worst scenario where someone might need help...not everyone charged for a crime is guilty of that crime...so extradition law can be wrongly affecting an innocent person...

Looool so you think not holding an American passport will save you from extradition?? Don't delude yourself, it doesn't matter whether or not you're an American, any country with an Extradition pact with the US (which is most countries) will extradite you, no questions asked!!

Nigeria I know, will extradite you quicker than you can blink if need be.

lastly: selling snacks on the street is better than fraudulent marriage just to get an LPR...read through the lines and digest before attacking baselessly.

Hahahahahahaha are you serious?? Selling snacks on the street is better in your world right?? Your wretched mentality will keep you in poverty.

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Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by 50calibre(m): 9:55pm On Oct 22, 2014
prettyboi1989:

Its u dat reasons lyk a peasant if at the mention of 300k all u can think of is a stay in a 5 star hotel. People who worked for their money know how to invest it. U dnt expect me 2 teach u wat 2 do wif 300k, if u earned that money u'll know what to do with it. The owner of house of tara started off with about 4k, shez now big.

Words of a peasant.

I used a five star hotel to explain how little & insignificant 300k is.

Since House of Tara started with 4k, I'm guessing you should have started yours? Start a business with 50k lets see what happens..
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by Nobody: 9:57pm On Oct 22, 2014
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Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by DaBullIT(m): 10:04pm On Oct 22, 2014
As long as I marry oyinbo woman. Even when there's love. People would still say you married for green card. So what the heckk

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Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by Pamcrest(f): 10:12pm On Oct 22, 2014
It's not only d men that are guilty. I know a true story narrated by a friend at d American embassy of a young American who brought his nigerian "wife" to d embassy for a visa. He had completed the forms and submitted the necessary papers for her but when she appeared in person, the consular officer's jaw dropped in amazement.....the woman was so much older, wrinkled up and poorly dressed! Worse, she could not even speak passable English. It was inconceivable that such a young man, an expatriate with an oil firm, would date such a woman n even marry her. Needless to say, the visa request was turned dow and d man was sent for psychiatric evaluation! My friend n I concluded that clearly juju was at work in this case. grin
My humble submission
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by lockupman(m): 10:17pm On Oct 22, 2014
What you don't know is bigger than you. Learn to see the big picture. Its not about getting rich, it's about turning your generation from a cursed nation with blessings of abundant resources. Nigeria is cursed by God, the face of God has turned completely from it. A nation that has incurred God's wrath, u say I shouldn't run. Can you stands God's anger?


prettyboi1989:
Loads of silly excuses here for getting a green card. Its nt dat after u get d green card u'll become a millionaire so y d rush and haste to get a green card? They complain "nigeria isn't good, too much suffering in nigeria" alright if you are intelligent why don't you use the 300k ticket fee plus the money you'll use to get visa for usa to start a business in nigeria and make your life better? There are great profitable businesses you can start for less. Its a pity people are gunning for overnight success which only remains a figment of their imaginations.
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by Nobody: 10:17pm On Oct 22, 2014
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Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by Homguy(m): 10:17pm On Oct 22, 2014
Phema:


Not just America. Any country other than Nigeria will do. grin
lol. Some countries are worse than Nigeria. You mind spending some months in Sudan? Or CAR?
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by Aewesomz: 10:26pm On Oct 22, 2014
Dat's a typical hustling things
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by pansophist(m): 10:29pm On Oct 22, 2014
xTerses:
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This rubbish is one of the reasons why you should leave Nigeria. grin
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by lalasticlala(m): 10:30pm On Oct 22, 2014
Nickijoy:
because she fit be the guy wife..


lol. abii?
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by Nickijoy(f): 10:42pm On Oct 22, 2014
lalasticlala:



lol. abii?
yes. Witness one last year the guy wife na even organize the wedding take their children do Lil bride and flower girls.. The woman dey cruise jeep now..
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by lalasticlala(m): 10:47pm On Oct 22, 2014
Nickijoy:
yes. Witness one last year the guy wife na even organize the wedding take their children do Lil bride and flower girls.. The woman dey cruise jeep now..


hahahahahahaha
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by itstpia1: 10:49pm On Oct 22, 2014
pickabeau1:

It is real....
I don't need to rain on anyone parade
Its just the fact that these people now behave like they don't fart.


bro, this matter dey pain you too much, take it easy,
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by itstpia1: 10:52pm On Oct 22, 2014
pansophist:


How do you know they are the majority? undecided



I dont see other nationalities and races rushing green card marriages so desperately like the nigerians do.

just an observation.

Feel free to correct me if wrong.
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by summerflame(m): 10:55pm On Oct 22, 2014
By THUNDER by FIRE, I must enter that God blessed country.
Re: Reasons Why Marrying Someone For A Green Card Is A Bad Idea Fraught With Risk by Edusouls(m): 11:07pm On Oct 22, 2014
All in the name to get green card and stay in america, so all those that have permanent stay in america have they all become rich? This is just madness, upon all this red-eye struggle, the poverty increases day by day, we should know that riches re destined to some few, no be gara gara, if na so, many huzzlers go don become millionaire..

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