There is dis trend in christendom that always got me laughing .... The wooing styles of the so-called christendom blivers to capture themselves in marriage , dey will say : " sister theresa or brother feliz, The Lord showed it to me that you are my better half" !!! Lolz, when that one hears the lord, he/she go wan gree even though he or she neva likes him/her!! As a matter of scriptures God didnt show Eve to Adam in any kind of dream .... Infact none of those who got married in the Bible see their specific wife in dreams or vision !!!since dy av fallen in love, they are only fantasizin of such persons in their dreams, now counting it as statement from God ...have u noticed that tactic too ? What Do You Think ??

they didn't have the Holy Spirit then to show them I fink.... I'm not disputing d fact dat some 'brothers' dont use dis tactics to woo ladies just to appear spiritual...... but God deals wit us differently, He culd decyd to show u or direct u...... whicheva way,u dont nid to come out dat way,therez nofin wrong in expresin ur love for her d normal way ...u put off some ladies by doing dat.... u take away dat sweeet feelin of bin wooed

Varagous:
they didn't have the Holy Spirit then to show them I fink.... I'm not disputing d fact dat some 'brothers' dont use dis tactics to woo ladies just to appear spiritual...... but God deals wit us differently, He culd decyd to show u or direct u...... whicheva way,u dont nid to come out dat way,therez nofin wrong in expresin ur love for her d normal way ...u put off some ladies by doing dat.... u take away dat sweeet feelin of bin wooed

It may interest you to know that the OP is a jehovah's witness. He doesn't believe in God still speak to people today. And besides they don't marry outside their religion.

CANTICLES:
There is dis trend in christendom that always got me laughing .... The wooing styles of the so-called christendom blivers to capture themselves in marriage , dey will say : " sister theresa or brother feliz, The Lord showed it to me that you are my better half" !!! Lolz, when that one hears the lord, he/she go wan gree even though he or she neva likes him/her!! As a matter of scriptures God didnt show Eve to Adam in any kind of dream .... Infact none of those who got married in the Bible see their specific wife in dreams or vision !!!since dy av fallen in love, they are only fantasizin of such persons in their dreams, now counting it as statement from God ...have u noticed that tactic too ? What Do You Think ??

What do have to say about the way Isaac met Rebekah in Genesis 24?
As a matter of fact this was what Isaac said.
Genesis 24:48

”And I bowed my head and worshiped the Lord, and blessed the Lord God of my master Abraham, who had led me in the way of truth to atake the daughter of my master’s brother for his son“.

Don't take this the wrong way, but I think you should not be too quick to criticize other christian groups doctrine. Instead ask them respectfuly to explain to you why they do the things they do.

Varagous:
they didn't have the Holy Spirit then to show them I fink.... I'm not disputing d fact dat some 'brothers' dont use dis tactics to woo ladies just to appear spiritual...... but God deals wit us differently, He culd decyd to show u or direct u...... whicheva way,u dont nid to come out dat way,therez nofin wrong in expresin ur love for her d normal way ...u put off some ladies by doing dat.... u take away dat sweeet feelin of bin wooed

Nice Comment Bro .... I also believe in prayerfully considering whom to marry and rely on God guidance Without all dis tactical formation dat has no Backing Of the Almighty !!!

CANTICLES:
Nice Comment Bro .... I also believe in prayerfully considering whom to marry and rely on God guidance Without all dis tactical formation dat has no Backing Of the Almighty !!!

yeah..... but am actually a sis.

Varagous:

Yeah..... But am actually a sis.

actually a sis!! .... Am sorry, pls forgive me for making dat mistake