My friends girlfriend got pregnant while they are still in school(university).Now the girl doesnt want to keep the child because that will mean dropping out of school and her parent wouldn't welcome that but my friend is too religious and insist she keeps the child..

Should i persuade him to allow the girl abort since it might affect her education and her family or should she keep the pregnancy..

She should face the concequences and keep the child....... You cant have your cake and not eat it....

Cutehector4u:
She should face the concequences and keep the child....... You cant have your cake and not eat it....

Case Closed.

She should "man up" and bear the consequences. It's her child of course...

People will not be religious to not have s*x outside marriage but religious not to abort
SMH!

alutacontinua:
People will not be religious to not have s*x outside marriage but religious not to abort
SMH!

Exactly what i wanted to say
He was not religious when he was committing fornication
Hypocrites

Dude u said tHey are in d university not secondary school. How will it affect her wen pregnant women go for lectures . Her education sud not be an excuse To terminate a young life. Speaking from experience.

Glowstone:
My friends girlfriend got pregnant while they are still in school(university).Now the girl doesnt want to keep the child because that will mean dropping out of school and her parent wouldn't welcome that but my friend is too religious and insist she keeps the child..

Should i persuade him to allow the girl abort since it might affect her education and her family or should she keep the pregnancy..

I think you should remove that part.
How could a religious man be fornicating?

And who says pregnancy stops education? It only delays it. She's just scared of facin ha parents. U beta not confuse ur friend o. Instead convince him dat he's on d right track. Wat if dis is d only child God is plannin 2 give to him?

What is your religious friend's definition of fornication? They should better not waste that human life or else....

She might just be aborting a child of destiny !!!

She should not temper with the pregnancy. She was enjoying when they did it and didn't remember her parents, the consequences and her education. It is now she is remembering what she would have considered at first. Stay till you are married no one want to hear that one. My people use to say "umaukop tap ayaduñgho and enyen owong ayem mfat Abasi ono nnam" God help us all though no one is righteous.

If he is so religious, y did he engage in premarital sex in the 1st instance? And unprotected at that? I don't actually support abortion but I want her to know this that insists on her dropping out of school to take care of the baby might end up not marrying her. She should just do what suits her

God bless u dear.... some pple sef smh.....

chiefinalowo:


I think you should remove that part.
How could a religious man be fornicating?

Does the university not have support for pregnant women? If the university doesn't kick out pregnant women then she can continue with it until she is due. If she has family(they will get over it if they see you are determined to finish) around she can finish her schooling without dropping out. Or she can defer and take time off if possible. There are many people who go to university whilst pregnant, you just need to have the support around you. It is not back in the day where falling pregnant means the end of your life.

She should weigh the pros and cons. If she wants to abort, it's up to her, it's her womb.

She might jst decide to keep the baby and end up a single mother! These days women give birth out of wedlock nd end up single mothers while the man ends up with another woman. To me, I'll suggest she she aborts it if she's not ready to face the pains of shame, she might jst end up destroying her destiny as a result of the pregnancy. She shldnt keep it, but I warn she shldnt be foolish for the second time!