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He Wants Sex Every Night. / NYSC Member Arraigned For Abandoning 14-day-old Baby / My Husband Won't Accept Our Son's Disability (2) (3) (4)
Re: .. by Kanwulia: 9:44pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Waka Pass Je Je! 1 Like |
Re: .. by Kunbee: 10:23pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
^^^that picture tho, lmao |
Re: .. by Kanwulia: 10:33pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Kunbee: Sometimes. . . only pictures can express what you are thinking. No words necessary for this kain 'drama' series! *na my 'tonto dike' siddon-look mode be dat o*! 1 Like |
Re: .. by Nmeri17: 10:42pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Kanwulia: ogini di?? mgbeketoto in 3D!! haaa this one u gree show face last last werrin happen oo?? |
Re: .. by Kanwulia: 10:50pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Nmeri17: Are you for real? Like. . . .SERIOUSLY? |
Re: .. by Nobody: 11:05pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Chisos! Kanwulia,imakatakwa mma gi na chi gi See eyes! No wonder my bros no gree waka pass (I wish i get this kain liver to share my pickinshure online) Fine babe, no pimples U go marry me? |
Re: .. by Kanwulia: 11:10pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=agJQxJtKrmM Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. . . I nor see any pissssssssssshure oooooooo. . . . Abi una dey dream ni? *chai!!! time for work already* |
Re: .. by Godmother(f): 2:28am On Nov 02, 2014 |
What your ex did to you was truly wicked. Imagine being pregnant with no member of your family knowing and then he abandoning you. I can't begin to imagine the level of pain, betrayal andconfusion you must have felt. You are one strong woman to have pulled through all that and come out sane. To the present, right now you have to understand that its not just about you anymore. There's a child involved. What the guy did was wrong, yes. But for the sake of your baby forgive him so your child can have the opportunity of having a healthy, balanced relationship with both parents. As to your taking him back, my candid advice to you will be to banish that though completely from your body, soul and spirit. That guy never loved you and if the chance comes may still treat you bad later on. Forget him and truly move on.Men are not devils, most of them are just selfish and will look out for themselves alone if they don't love you. But there are still some good guys out there. Open your heart once again to love, but this time love gently and involve your head as well. All will be well. 3 Likes |
Re: .. by Nmeri17: 1:10pm On Nov 02, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Wait wtf did u take the pishures down this woman sef. I thought u had even moved yo ministry from YouTube vids to selfies. nawa o. BTW change yo camera settings. the pictures are hazy, misty and a bit SANDY |
Re: .. by malaria(f): 5:20pm On Nov 02, 2014 |
DBestDoc:. The guy no follow abeg, if he dint give financial assistance, what about emotional and moral support. 1 Like |
Re: .. by malaria(f): 5:24pm On Nov 02, 2014 |
BigBizzy:. May be you are the one, if he acts like one, then he is qualified to be. Simpulu 1 Like |
Re: .. by BigBizzy(m): 7:47pm On Nov 02, 2014 |
malaria: ...and you're? malaria?? hahahahaha |
Re: .. by jewel4Hiscrown: 1:22am On Nov 03, 2014 |
OP: Like many others, I wondered which Nollywood script this post was taken from. But I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. I'd say proceed with caution. First things first, please forgive him. It's more for your sake than for his. And not forgiving him causes you to shut out all men - I'm sure you've heard that if you close your eyes so that you don't see bad people, you will not recognize the good people when they come your way. You don't want to shut him out if he's truly repentant and ready to come in and support you and his son. I've seen instances where men do crazy things to women in their youth, then grow up, come to their senses and try to right their wrongs. A man in his 20s is not as mature than a woman at the same age (men: no offense/all due respect) so maybe he just needed to take some time to grow up. But you don't want to walk into another heartbreak if he's playing games or has harmful/malicious intentions. Guard your heart with all diligence.. the prudent [wo]man sees evil/danger far away and hides [her]self, but the simple/foolish pass on and are punished. Also, please don't punish every single man for the mistakes of this one man. It's not wise. Your son will grow up and find his own soulmate. Even now, as much as he loves you, he cannot provide the companionship that a husband can. I know that it's not popular these days for women to admit that they need companionship, but I'd caution against viewing men through the lens of one man's actions. Even if you do not get married, it's just generally not healthy for a person of one gender to have no trust for the entire opposite gender. God bless you & all the best. 2 Likes |
Re: .. by DBestDoc(f): 5:46am On Nov 03, 2014 |
malaria: My dear fear sef dey grip me...what bothers me most is the heart behind the action, not necessarily the action itself. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: .. by cherryice(f): 1:21pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Truckpusher: Oh I remember you, soory you felt that way but it wasn't cos of my hatred for guys I unfoolowed you, was something else.I follow guys on here so you see. Its not really that |
Re: .. by cherryice(f): 1:23pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Godmother:thank you and thanks to everyone else who contributed meaningfully. I appreciate |
Re: .. by malaria(f): 2:16pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
[i][/i] BigBizzy:I know!, wetin u wan make I yarn nah |
Re: .. by BigBizzy(m): 4:16pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
malaria: he he he nothing does you |
Re: .. by malaria(f): 6:21pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Bigbizzzy, your uche gi di ya wella, 3 gbozza |
Re: .. by WebSurfer(m): 9:55am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Re: .. by cherryice(f): 10:01am On Jan 27, 2015 |
WebSurfer: are you stalking or what |
Re: .. by mutter(f): 10:42am On Jan 27, 2015 |
The truth is that he is not better or worse than most other men. The fact that he went to the states shows that he needed to get himself on his feet. He knew that you would not have agreed then to him doing this. Do you know how difficult it is for a man to face up to responsibilities when they don`t have the financial means? To go and face a girl`s parents and tell them that he got her pregnant and wants to marry her! WITH WHAT! Many men would rather die in silence than expose themselves as not being capable. B Do you still love him? Then hear him out and give him a chance. The chance you are going to give him is not a jump into bed chance. No he now has the chance to go meet your parents first on his son and then on marriage. One does not have anything to do with the other so don`t muddle them up. If he wants only his son to be legitimized then allow him go for the necessary things. If he wants to marry you, accept if you still love him. If you loved him once you might love him again. It is very difficult taking children into a marriage, so if you can avoid it. Besides consider yourself lucky. There are many girls out there just waiting and hoping that the fathers will come back for their abandoned babies. Even girls that had the kid`s out of marriage and the men absconded. @Kanwulia. My bulletproof vest is already on 2 Likes |
Re: .. by WebSurfer(m): 3:35pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
cherryice:Lol.... i guess ID/Comments Prompted that |
Re: .. by WebSurfer(m): 3:38pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
mutter:999 likes |
Re: .. by bukatyne(f): 4:40pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
cherryice: OP sorry you wen through this Men are not all wicked What is the update? |
Re: .. by cherryice(f): 5:21pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
WebSurfer:Okies |
Re: .. by cherryice(f): 5:30pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
bukatyne: thankz for the concern. Hes takinf responsibility of our kid. But we not together |
Re: .. by bukatyne(f): 5:31pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
cherryice: Good to hear Do you have someone else? God be with you |
Re: .. by cherryice(f): 5:32pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
bukatyne: Thanks alot |
Re: .. by bukatyne(f): 5:33pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
cherryice: You are welcome 1 Like |
Re: .. by cherryice(f): 5:34pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
bukatyne: None that am serious with |
Re: .. by bukatyne(f): 5:38pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
cherryice: OK then I am reading you have someone but you guys are not serious. I hope I'm wrong. The guy you are going to keep must be willing to accept you and your son And there is no opportunity for undefined relationships anymore Take care 2 Likes |
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