It's often said that Women are known for nagging. It's even supported in the bible that it's better to live on top of a roof than with a nagging woman.

But these days, some men have got the knack for nagging the hell out of their wives/women.
I have a cousin who got married couple of months back.

She's been complaining of late to her mum that her hubby nags almost about everything- from her hairstyle, type of dish to be prepared, how she dresses the bed, how the CD rack is always scattered. In short, the hubby nags about everything; he's a perfectionist.

My question is, how can a wife tame such a hell of a nagging husband? I'll like some married Nairaland women and men to proffer practical solutions. Thanks in anticipation.

sori man, seems u tried all possibilities n if failed. Y not try rat poison, u'll be glad.
#eod

d best thing is to ignore him. it will only resulr in chao if u nag back.

when my hubby nags me l simply tell him- why are u behaving like a woman? l should be d one doing that

that use to shut him up fast

sapien:
It's often said that Women are known for nagging. It's even supported in the bible that it's better to live on top of a roof than with a nagging woman.

But these days, some men have got the knack for nagging the hell out of their wives/women.
I have a cousin who got married couple of months back.

She's been complaining of late to her mum that her hubby nags almost about everything- from her hairstyle, type of dish to be prepared, how she dresses the bed, how the CD rack is always scattered. In short, the hubby nags about everything; he's a perfectionist.

My question is, how can a wife tame such a hell of a nagging husband? I'll like some married Nairaland women and men to proffer practical solutions. Thanks in anticipation.

You a man...
You heard gist of a woman reporting to your aunt n next thing is to come online....

Why don't u tell her to communicate with HER OWN HUSBAND or wait for it...do things as her hubby says

Tell her to stop involving third party in her marriage

There are major signs that this 'husband' is suffering from 'OCD'!
Genetic!
No treatment! But self-awareness/therapy!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wEU-165NRY


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AR6k2h9PRzc

kolinz:
sori man, seems u tried all possibilities n if failed. Y not try rat poison, u'll be glad.
#eod

What's this one saying?

pickabeau1:



You a man...
You heard gist of a woman reporting to your aunt n next thing is to come online....

Why don't u tell her to communicate with HER OWN HUSBAND or wait for it...do things as her hubby says

Tell her to stop involving third party in her marriage

You mean she should do everything her "Perfectionist" hubby says? It's called a marriage for a reason, Bruv. Marriage is the union of two imperfect persons.

sapien:
You mean she should do everything her "Perfectionist" hubby says? It's called a marriage for a reason, Bruv. Marriage is the union of two imperfect persons.

Dude... Read what I said again

Odilafta:
The holy spirit just ministered to me that you are the nagging man in question
Let her Ignore you twice in public and watch you stop nagging like a woman

Do not make such jokes of the Holy Spirit Odi. Not cool.

Three7Ty9:


Do not make such jokes of the Holy Spirit Odi. Not cool.

Done

this kind of a thing get as e be o

Odilafta:

Done

The "gods" are not sacred?

sapien:
The "gods" are not sacred?

Worry about that,I'm not an idol worshipper.

Odilafta:

Worry about that,I'm not an idol worshipper.

Logic, huh?

gede7744:
d best thing is to ignore him. it will only resulr in chao if u nag back.

when my hubby nags me l simply tell him- why are u behaving like a woman? l should be d one doing that

that use to shut him up fast

Personally I will consider it an insult.

kolinz:
sori man, seems u tried all possibilities n if failed. Y not try rat poison, u'll be glad.
#eod

o Lord. Una no go kill person for this nairaland

Kawulia you always seem to have a ready made solution and answer to every problem

Kanwulia:
There are major signs that this 'husband' is suffering from 'OCD'!
Genetic!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wEU-165NRY

Kirinwa:




Personally I will consider it an insult.

then don't nag!

everyone to its own. we know woman are naturally d nagging one so when a man takes over that roll it is unbecoming

like l said l shld be d one doing that not him

Simply don't reply him.Keep quiet and shortly he will stop blabbing.
It makes him more stewpid when he does the nagging and his wife just watches on.
In no time no one will tell him to shut up.

Kirinwa:




Personally I will consider it an insult.

And you'll descend on her silly, right?

I hate nagging men
They are somewhat dramatic

sexybash:
I hate nagging men
They are somewhat dramatic

Dramatic as in they can resort to physical assault and battery in the long run!

sexybash:
I hate nagging men
They are somewhat dramatic

Dramatic as in they can resort to physical assault and battery in the long run?

There are many ways to look at this issue, some are:-
1. The husband is overbearing.
2. The husband is not good at communicating, perhaps he could learn to pass his message across in other ways.
3. Your cousin is not only lazy and untidy, she also does not know how to cook good food.
4. Your cousin is not willing to learn to the good home maker.
5. Mr. Husband is tired of putting up with bvllshit.
6. Your cousin is tired of pvtting up with bullshit.
7. One wonders how you heard of this matter, it does not augur well for the marriage.
8. People like you need to keep your distance from the marriage, you cant help.
9. Etc

sapien:
You mean she should do everything her "Perfectionist" hubby says? It's called a marriage for a reason, Bruv. Marriage is the union of two imperfect persons.

Does marriage mean she shouldnt do everything her husband says?

freshdude2:
There are many ways to look at this issue, some are:-
1. The husband is overbearing.
2. The husband is not good at communicating, perhaps he could learn to pass his message across in other ways.
3. Your cousin is not only lazy and untidy, she also does not know how to cook good food.
4. Your cousin is not willing to learn to the good home maker.
5. Mr. Husband is tired of putting up with bvllshit.
6. Your cousin is tired of pvtting up with bullshit.
7. One wonders how you heard of this matter, it does not augur well for the marriage.
8. People like you need to keep your distance from the marriage, you cant help.
9. Etc
Does marriage mean she shouldnt do everything her husband says?

If her husband says she should commit murder, she should gladly oblige him because he(hubby) is the Lord of Lords?

sapien:
If her husband says she should commit murder, she should gladly oblige him because he(hubby) is the Lord of Lords?

Again, i ask, "Does marriage mean she shouldnt do everything her husband says?"

freshdude2:
Again, i ask, "Does marriage mean she shouldnt do everything her husband says?"

I have qualms with that word, "Everything."

freshdude2:
There are many ways to look at this issue, some are:-
1. The husband is overbearing.
2. The husband is not good at communicating, perhaps he could learn to pass his message across in other ways.
3. Your cousin is not only lazy and untidy, she also does not know how to cook good food.
4. Your cousin is not willing to learn to the good home maker.
5. Mr. Husband is tired of putting up with bvllshit.
6. Your cousin is tired of pvtting up with bullshit.
7. One wonders how you heard of this matter, it does not augur well for the marriage.
8. People like you need to keep your distance from the marriage, you cant help.
9. Etc
Does marriage mean she shouldnt do everything her husband says?

how old are you?
What kind of household did you grow up in?

Mondisweets:
how old are you?
What kind of household did you grow up in?

Mondi, abeg, help me ask him. The guy's post lacks basic logic and common sense.

Your statement above just confirms you need to stay the hell out of that marriage

Your maturity is in doubt