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3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by TCUBE(m): 10:31pm On Nov 09, 2014
In a bombshell interview with a DNA Expert, it has been revealed that three out of ten Nigerian men are not the biological fathers of their childrenwww.naijagists.com

Interview excerpts below

Is paternity testing becoming an issue in Nigeria?

We have seen that there is serious need for it because in many homes things are happening that are scary both to the lives of children and their parents. And for the general statistics that is now available, it is found that three out of every ten men are not the fathers of their babies. Similarly, three out of every ten children are not fathered by men they have seen as their biological fathers. What we have found out is that, anytime we take ten men, at least three of them eventually found that they are not the fathers of the children they call their own. And these men would have taken care of the children for all their lives.
Now, the global statistics is 100, 000 out of every 300, 000 men. But what we have found that is that the situation is higher in Nigeria than other places. For example in our laboratory here, 50 per cent of the cases comes out negative. And we also realised that majority of the first-borns are affected. You only need to be here to see big men cry like little kids and watch children weep in agony. It has been that bad. And I dare say it is becoming something every home must do and you may be quite surprised at the level of dastard revelation.

About thirty per cent of fathers are unknowingly bringing up children who are not biologically theirs. And it is suspected that this percentage may be on the increase due to sexual recklessness. According to recent trends in sexual health, especially in Nigeria, it was suggested that unprotected sex and multiple partners are comparatively common occurrences with a large proportion of conceptions still unplanned. So, more than half, that is, 50 per cent of all paternity tests carried out by our lab comes out negative and the most affected are first-borns, except in a few cases.

Do these cases happen mostly in matrimonial settings or in casual relationships?

In both matrimony and casual affiliations! I tell you, we have had series of married men come here and go back home devastated. In one instance, a man came here with his wife. Out of the five children he thought were his own, he discovered that only two belonged to him. And they are both duly married, living together as husband and wife. You see, the major problem we have in our country is that most of these cases are not duly documented. So, people don’t know we have such issues among us. In fact, some even don’t know where to go for the test to determine their child or children’s paternity. And I tell you, if you go to ten homes as we speak, you will be amazed to find that in almost all of them the children there do not belong to the men. It is that rampant.

If it is that rampant, how would you describe the three years since you started testing men?

Now, the general statistics by the American Association of Blood Banks is that globally, 100, 000 out of 300, 000 men are not the actual fathers of their presumed children. And like I said earlier, the Nigerian situation is even alarming. Also, Duess International, the condom manufacturers, once noted that Nigeria has the most reckless sexual life. So, you can then imagine what the outcome would be like if we say okay, let’s start taking statistics one-by-one.

How many families do you attend to each week?

We test about 15 to 20 families. People come here as a result of various types of controversies over the paternity of certain children. You know, families have come to us with claims that a child neither takes after the mother nor the father in looks and character. So, the man of the house would be curious to ascertain facts. And when they come here with such children, the fears of the fathers have often been affirmed. Fathers usually have the doubts; maybe he has been hearing some rumours, and you know, men are often the last to hear such things about themselves. Until many of them come here to take the test, they have nurtured other men’s children before realising it.

What does it take to do a paternity test?

Technology has made it so easy. It is just like any other deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA) test. In less than two seconds, we take the sample from the man. We use the Helix Swabs like a “big cotton buds” to extract some cells from the man’s mouth. We rub the ‘Swab’ up-and-down the mouth to get some epithelial cells from around the cheek bone. In the nucleus of every cell, there is DNA. Once we collect that, we purify, extract and then multiply it and get the genetic profile which we then send to DNA laboratory abroad for testing.

What happens in situations where DNA samples do not match as we saw with some DANA victims?

So many reasons could be responsible for that. We have had a case in which a boy went to an hospital to claim the body of his deceased dad and on testing him, it was found that he was not fathered by the dead man. The genetic profile of the boy does not match with that of the man he claimed to be his father. And DNAs don’t lie. The medical experts conducting these tests have nothing personal against the people that come to them for testing. Every human being take half of the genetic profile from either parent. Therefore, it is a matter of case closed if the genetic profile of the living does not match with that of the dead man. He is simply not that father.

(credit: DailyPost Newspaper)
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Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by rockbase360: 10:34pm On Nov 09, 2014
I use to work at KAMORA's hospital years back. That's the hospital the united state embassy used for DNA testing for people filing for their spouses and children to come join them in america. I have to agree with this post. A lot of women have been exposed during my time working at KAMORA's .I am not shocked at all. I know nigerians like to be in denial. WE just use religion cover head.

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Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by olu77(m): 10:36pm On Nov 09, 2014
DNA test is like HIV test. Who desires a life sentence?
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by rockbase360: 10:41pm On Nov 09, 2014
olu77:
DNA test is like HIV test. Who desires a life sentence?

I disagree. Unlike the HIV test, you shouldn't be scared of taking a DNA test to prove the paternity of your children if you havn't done anything wrong. So you can;t really compare both
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by TCUBE(m): 10:43pm On Nov 09, 2014
rockbase360:
I use to work at KAMORA's hospital years back. That's the hospital the united state embassy used for DNA testing for people filing for their spouses and children to come join them in america. I have to agree with this post. A lot of women have been exposed during my time working at KAMORA's .I am not shocked at all. I know nigerians like to be in denial. WE just use religion cover head.

I remember taking a DNA test at KAMORAS hospital over 10 years ago. It was requirement by the united state embassy. I was surprised reading your reply to the post. It is sad. Very sad.
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by rockbase360: 10:44pm On Nov 09, 2014
So are you suggesting that nigerian women are sluts?
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by TCUBE(m): 10:47pm On Nov 09, 2014
olu77:
DNA test is like HIV test. Who desires a life sentence?

comparing apple and oranges my friend. NOt the same
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by Mutuwa(m): 10:49pm On Nov 09, 2014
rockbase360:
I use to work at KAMORA's hospital years back. That's the hospital the united state embassy used for DNA testing for people filing for their spouses and children to come join them in america. I have to agree with this post. A lot of women have been exposed during my time working at KAMORA's .I am not shocked at all. I know nigerians like to be in denial. WE just use religion cover head.

True.
A Dr friend of mine down at National Hospital Abuja told me same,men its horrible how infidelity saturates.And in his own findings its mostly d women dt indulge in such hideous act n usually its either d second or third child dt comes out of wedlock.
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by olu77(m): 11:01pm On Nov 09, 2014
TCUBE:


comparing apple and oranges my friend. NOt the same

Suppose you are in your 60s or 70s and you have laboured all your life to cater for children who are not yours biologically, the heatbreak can cut one's life short.
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by olu77(m): 11:09pm On Nov 09, 2014
rockbase360:


I disagree. Unlike the HIV test, you shouldn't be scared of taking a DNA test to prove the paternity of your children if you havn't done anything wrong. So you can;t really compare both

I feel better with HIV test than doing DNA considering the consequence of wasted years. Meanwhile there is also stigmatization when people are aware the children you've been nurturing belong to either your steward or your driver.
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by olas24u(f): 11:18pm On Nov 09, 2014
grin
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by olas24u(f): 11:19pm On Nov 09, 2014
grin shocked
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by dre11(m): 11:23pm On Nov 09, 2014
rockbase360:
I use to work at KAMORA's hospital years back. That's the hospital the united state embassy used for DNA testing for people filing for their spouses and children to come join them in america. I have to agree with this post. A lot of women have been exposed during my time working at KAMORA's .I am not shocked at all. I know nigerians like to be in denial. WE just use religion cover head.

This is serious
So.. ..... Who is now the cheat in marriage now
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by lanxlot(m): 11:47pm On Nov 09, 2014
TCUBE:
In a bombshell interview with a DNA Expert, it has been revealed that three out of ten Nigerian men are not the biological fathers of their childrenwww.naijagists.com

Interview excerpts below

Is paternity testing becoming an issue in Nigeria?

We have seen that there is serious need for it because in many homes things are happening that are scary both to the lives of children and their parents. And for the general statistics that is now available, it is found that three out of every ten men are not the fathers of their babies. Similarly, three out of every ten children are not fathered by men they have seen as their biological fathers. What we have found out is that, anytime we take ten men, at least three of them eventually found that they are not the fathers of the children they call their own. And these men would have taken care of the children for all their lives.
Now, the global statistics is 100, 000 out of every 300, 000 men. But what we have found that is that the situation is higher in Nigeria than other places. For example in our laboratory here, 50 per cent of the cases comes out negative. And we also realised that majority of the first-borns are affected. You only need to be here to see big men cry like little kids and watch children weep in agony. It has been that bad. And I dare say it is becoming something every home must do and you may be quite surprised at the level of dastard revelation.

About thirty per cent of fathers are unknowingly bringing up children who are not biologically theirs. And it is suspected that this percentage may be on the increase due to sexual recklessness. According to recent trends in sexual health, especially in Nigeria, it was suggested that unprotected sex and multiple partners are comparatively common occurrences with a large proportion of conceptions still unplanned. So, more than half, that is, 50 per cent of all paternity tests carried out by our lab comes out negative and the most affected are first-borns, except in a few cases.

Do these cases happen mostly in matrimonial settings or in casual relationships?

In both matrimony and casual affiliations! I tell you, we have had series of married men come here and go back home devastated. In one instance, a man came here with his wife. Out of the five children he thought were his own, he discovered that only two belonged to him. And they are both duly married, living together as husband and wife. You see, the major problem we have in our country is that most of these cases are not duly documented. So, people don’t know we have such issues among us. In fact, some even don’t know where to go for the test to determine their child or children’s paternity. And I tell you, if you go to ten homes as we speak, you will be amazed to find that in almost all of them the children there do not belong to the men. It is that rampant.

If it is that rampant, how would you describe the three years since you started testing men?

Now, the general statistics by the American Association of Blood Banks is that globally, 100, 000 out of 300, 000 men are not the actual fathers of their presumed children. And like I said earlier, the Nigerian situation is even alarming. Also, Duess International, the condom manufacturers, once noted that Nigeria has the most reckless sexual life. So, you can then imagine what the outcome would be like if we say okay, let’s start taking statistics one-by-one.

How many families do you attend to each week?

We test about 15 to 20 families. People come here as a result of various types of controversies over the paternity of certain children. You know, families have come to us with claims that a child neither takes after the mother nor the father in looks and character. So, the man of the house would be curious to ascertain facts. And when they come here with such children, the fears of the fathers have often been affirmed. Fathers usually have the doubts; maybe he has been hearing some rumours, and you know, men are often the last to hear such things about themselves. Until many of them come here to take the test, they have nurtured other men’s children before realising it.

What does it take to do a paternity test?

Technology has made it so easy. It is just like any other deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA) test. In less than two seconds, we take the sample from the man. We use the Helix Swabs like a “big cotton buds” to extract some cells from the man’s mouth. We rub the ‘Swab’ up-and-down the mouth to get some epithelial cells from around the cheek bone. In the nucleus of every cell, there is DNA. Once we collect that, we purify, extract and then multiply it and get the genetic profile which we then send to DNA laboratory abroad for testing.

What happens in situations where DNA samples do not match as we saw with some DANA victims?

So many reasons could be responsible for that. We have had a case in which a boy went to an hospital to claim the body of his deceased dad and on testing him, it was found that he was not fathered by the dead man. The genetic profile of the boy does not match with that of the man he claimed to be his father. And DNAs don’t lie. The medical experts conducting these tests have nothing personal against the people that come to them for testing. Every human being take half of the genetic profile from either parent. Therefore, it is a matter of case closed if the genetic profile of the living does not match with that of the dead man. He is simply not that father.

(credit: DailyPost Newspaper)
http://247nigerianewsupdate.co/3-out-of-every-10-nigerian-men-are-not-the-biological-fathers-of-their-children-dna-expert/#comment-521802

Invariably, 3 out of 10 Nigerian women are akunas is that it? Well, dem no survey my area sha.

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Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by Olypeppy(f): 9:45am On Nov 10, 2014
That moment when u realise your child isn't yours....God help us.
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by cheruv: 12:11pm On Nov 10, 2014
too sad I must say undecided
but seriously as a guy when you go and marry a butterfly, you can't expect it to stay on place na grin grin grin when it has wings

in medicine there's what we calling history taking..when you see that babe you wanna settle with, first
1]clerk her(this has to be discreet)
2]do your examination(simply observe her and listen around.. Ladies that are for worse for go are noticed here.no need for percussion and palpation)
3]investigations (its here you make your mind up whether she's worth it or not. the investigations include
-personanalysis
-blood/gene/family analysis
-any other necessary details you need
this is good for compatibility studies and when you're through, still keep an eye on her esp if her libido is high kos I know ladies that go to collect last ocho on their wedding eve..
anyway that's pathetic of us Nigerians undecided

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Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by Nobody: 6:17am On Nov 11, 2014
And people still think men are better cheats.......this is the worst thing that can happen to any man....
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by Nobody: 9:50pm On Nov 11, 2014
Point of correction: Akwunas not akunas

lanxlot:
Invariably, 3 out of 10 Nigerian women are AKUNAS is that it? Well, dem no survey my area sha.
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by christopher123(m): 2:52pm On Nov 12, 2014
My daughter is my carbon copy my family resemble each other...i resemble my granny like die

Bleep dna test

I will use d money buy beer
Re: 3 Out Of Every 10 Nigerian Men Are Not The Biological Fathers Of Their Children by tpia6: 4:29pm On Nov 12, 2014
i dont think nlers can relate with that.

ie people resembling their family members.

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