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If You Don't Pay Attention To These 5 Areas, Divorce Could Be Imminent by jchima14: 11:48am On Nov 18, 2014 |
"My husband told me that, if things don't change, he's thinking about a divorce." "We have nothing in common anymore." "She's not the same person I married. "We have so much going on, we simply don't hang out with one another." These are the common phrases I hear over and over when I work with couples in crisis. I expect to hear them. They are what I have prepared for. When I hear them coming from friends, however, it catches me off guard. It shouldn't, I know, but somehow I think that MY friends won't succumb to the pressures that lead to divorce. Yet, my friends are just as likely to divorce as are the people who come to see me. In my years of work, I have found several common denominators that everyone knows about, but it continually seems people don't pay attention to them. Not paying attention to these things inevitably leads to poor relationships and, many times, divorce. While there are any number of things that can lead to divorce, these five things are what I have found to be consistent among couples in conflict. 1. Busyness Kids in sports Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and every other Saturday. Mom and dad working late in the evening and then going to the gym when they can fit it in. This busyness kills relationships. Give up some things to make time for the important people in your life. You will never regret making relationships better. What you will regret is not making more time for loved ones..... Source: [url="http://e%reporter.com.ng/index.php/more-news/life-style-news/item/1451-if-you-don-t-pay-attention-to-these-5-areas-divorce-could-be-imminent"]e reporter news[/url] |
Re: If You Don't Pay Attention To These 5 Areas, Divorce Could Be Imminent by Kanwulia: 11:54am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, what is wrong with divorce? Is it not a part of life? Especially, in AFRICA. . ..where marriages are to escape POVERTY? Na all marriage be marriage? Mtcheeeeeeeeeew!!!!! 4 Likes |
Re: If You Don't Pay Attention To These 5 Areas, Divorce Could Be Imminent by mumazee: 9:24am On Nov 25, 2014 |
My dear everything is wrong with divorce. |
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