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Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by tobechi20(m): 2:53pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
A man is a potential rapist if… *.He has ever sexually engaged with any woman while she was underage, drunk, high, physically restrained, unconscious, or subjected to psychological, physical, economic, or emotional coercion. *.He has blamed a woman for “putting herself in a situation” where she “could be” attacked. *. *.He threatens to patronise prostitutes when patner says no to his sex appeal defends . Defends men accused for rape in court even with glaring evidence *.He watches pornography in which women are depicted. *.He watches any pornography in which sexual acts are depicted as a struggle for power or domination, regardless of whether women are present. *.He characterizes the self-sexualizing behavior of some women, such as wearing make-up or high heels, as evidence of women’s desire to “get” a man. *.He tells or laughs at jokes involving women being attacked, sexually “hoodwinked,” or sexually harassed. *.He expresses enjoyment of movies/musicals/TV shows/plays in which women are sexually demeaned or presented as sexual objects *.He mocks women who complain about sexual attacks, sexual harassment, street cat-calls, media depictions of women, or other forms of sexual objectification. For every penny he gives you, he indirectly expects girl to pay back in kind *.He states or implies that women who do not want to have sex with men are “inhibited,” “prudes,” “stuck-up,” “man-haters,” or psychologically ill. *.He argues that certain male behaviors towards women are “cultural” and therefore not legitimate subjects of feminist attention. *.He ever subordinates the interests of women in a given population to the interests of the men in that population, or proceeds in discussions as if the interests of the women are the same as the interests of the men. *.He promotes religious or philosophical views in which a woman’s physical/psychological/emotional/sexual well-being is subordinated to a man’s. *.He describes female anatomy in terms of penetration, or uses terms referencing the supposed “emptiness” of female anatomy when describing women.e.g calling girls holes. *.He defends the sexualization or sexual abuse of minor females on the grounds of “consent” or “willingness.” *.He promotes the idea that women as a class are happier or more fulfilled if they have man, or that they “should” have man. *.He argues that people (or just “men”) have sexual “needs.” *.He discusses the “types” of women he finds sexually appealing and/or attempts to demean women by telling them he does not find them sexually appealing. *.He defends these actions by saying that some women also engage in rape. Are you guilty of any of these? Www.tobechispeaks./2014/11/21/identifying-potential-rapist-by-their-words 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by adanduka: 3:42pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Are you studying Molestology? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 3:58pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Op is very correct. Especially on how such a man sees women generally as S*e*x objects only, is addicted to P0rn and refers all women as wh0res. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 4:09pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
He openly discusses sexually related acts, irrespective of the age group and people present Fear them very-very well. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 4:17pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
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Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by cococandy(f): 4:36pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
True. These characters raise red flag for any seasoned women who knows how to identify a man that seems off from the get go. Although unfortunately,a guy can seem cool and exhibit non of those traits up there but turn out to be the worst of all despite his saintly outward disposition. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by cococandy(f): 4:37pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
And as usual the enemies of the truth are already getting buttt hurt. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 4:58pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
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Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:00pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: Huh? Are you a molester? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by cococandy(f): 5:04pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Nonso23:mmhmmm. Yet you opened the thread,read and found the time to comment on it. What's annoying you about the thread? Did it say anywhere that only guys molest? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:04pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
cococandy: I dnt even understand why anyone would be against the Op. The Op has stated nothing but the truth. seems the Op has revealed some hidden 'demons' in whomever disagrees with it. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:07pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
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Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Pavore9: 5:10pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Any molester irrespective of gender is a risk to the community and should not be ignored but taken up. |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:11pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Many potential molesters on NL then 1 Like |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:12pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
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Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:17pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: Why do you have a problem with the Op? Its telling ladies how to identify potential molesters. What is your problem with it? why are you being defensive? Oh, are you addicted to p0rn? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:19pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
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Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:33pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: Dnt worry about me getting night food. Food has nothing to do with molestation. I already know your answers to my questions. |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:35pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:39pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: Hehehehe. The Op revealed a lot of things about you right? Issorait. we dey carry go ooo. |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:40pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
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Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by cococandy(f): 5:54pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Nonso23:the op is about male molesters. But in no way said only males molest. You can help your fellow men to avoid being molested by female molesters if only you complete the op's job by bringing the other half I.e tips in how to identify female molesters. If like you said,you don't care about molesters be they of any gender,then kindly leave those who care about them to worry about how to avoid them. |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 5:57pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by cococandy(f): 5:59pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Nonso23:good boy. |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Nobody: 6:00pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Amhappy(f): 7:35pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Nice tips. Molestation is simply taking advantage,a crime of power. Anyone who always take advantage of his/her position,gift etc to demand se,x hmmm avoid am ooo 1 Like |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by UjSizzle(f): 8:15pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
So if any guy is guilty of at least ONE charge, then he's a potential molester? And this: For every penny he gives you, he indirectly expects girl to pay back in kind |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by Missmossy(f): 8:40pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
This sounds scary may God help us. |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by cococandy(f): 9:00pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
UjSizzle:I wouldn't really say so. Although many or most of those points should make one be wary of how they associate with such a person. |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by coogar: 9:08pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: the OP must be infinitely stüpid! there's no iota of truth in all the heresies he printed up there. matter of fact, 90% of rapë victims know their attackers. they willingly opened the door for him, or they willingly went to his house just before the attack. all those pointers up there would just guide the ever-gullible women to the true räpists. men mostly involved in sëxual violence don't even talk about it - you don't see them coming. he's quiet, he keeps to himself until he cops the red mist & target his prey. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by bennyrazz: 9:14pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
coogar:I really don't know why tobechi20 decided to post this topic here. Why not post it in the romance section, by the way it seems all the women affirming to what the OP posted have all been molested/gang raped e.tc |
Re: Ladies ; How To Identify A Potential Molester by italo: 9:17pm On Nov 21, 2014 |
I don't necessarily agree with the OP on all his conclusions... But what will a typical woman do if she sees one of those signs in her lover? Leave him? |
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