Fellow Nigerians, i have a serious question which i strongly believe that the answer to it will save alot of marriages, which is.

Looking at how things have gone badly in our societies today and the countless divorce cases we witness each passing day and wil stil witness, is it then wise and advisable for a young man who wants to have peaceful married life to marry a girl that loves him or the one that he loves?

Marry two of them

it is only logical for me to think u r myopic nd s**k

Kbdon:
it is only logical for me to think u r myopic nd s**k

Piss off mountain cow

How do you intend having a long lasting relationship, a peaceful marriage when u don't have any feeling for the lady? .....its not possible man. No matter how much the girl is in love if you don't love her, then it's nothing , na just to they bleep her

The feelings should be mutual.

Or you'll be in deep sh*it.

If a lady loves you and she meets your standard as a marriage material; marry her. Not too many men meet ladies that truly love them. In fact, if you see one that loves you, I dare say: you are LUCKY.

However, she must be awesome in xter and in look. Mi o le shomo tio fine o. If an ugly lady thinks she loves me, sorry for her. I didn't choose my mum but I must be wise, while choosing my son's mum.

Watching the trend closely, we'll discover that guys go out of their ways to impress a lady who will turn out to be a bit.ch after marriage.

In summary, marry your friend whom you don't love but loves and understand you. Love will fade, but when you understand you'll keep knowing more. I hate love at time, it's a bloody facade.

Have you proposed to any of the ladies? Why don't you love the one that loves you? And why do you love the one that doesn't love you?

Are 2 people EVER EQUALLY IN LOVE?

KingsJohnson:
Fellow Nigerians, i have a serious question which i strongly believe that the answer to it will save alot of marriages, which is.

Looking at how things have gone badly in our societies today and the countless divorce cases we witness each passing day and wil stil witness, is it then wise and advisable for a young man who wants to have peaceful married life to marry a girl that loves him or the one that he loves?

Love is a two hedged sword .... If a girl loves you and you don't love her .... You will hurt someone's feeling by faking everything !!

If you love a girl but she doesn't love you , you might get hurt in the longrun !!

The best is MUTUAL LOVE where such doesn't exist marry a girl that you love (atleast, love may blind you enough not to see her misdeeds) !!