my husband put his elder brother despite having a son in the university who is almost 19years. Some men can be funny and if the woman decides to do the same thing fighting will start God will help women o amen.

AfricanApple:
..... most of them have the notion that when they die, the wife marries another man and maybe spend the money for the new family. imagine!!!

Its not just a NOTION.. We've seen this happen several times. Body no be firewood. I expect a man/woman to get married ( couple of years or more) n keep on living after the death of a spouse. If the woman ends up getting re-married to a wrong guy what do u think would happen to the late husband kids and siblings


That's Y the next of kin should always be the "Mum"..

ebosse:



Thank u joor..




These are the kinds of thread that make guys scared of marriage.. An ambitious lady wouldn't care about next of kin or properties.. U realize how much this things don't matter when you're independent!!...

I agree with u but have u forgotten that
1. some men tells their wife not to work (don't most of u want submissive woman?)
2. no matter how independent u are, a workload of two people dat has become that of one person will be tedious to handle

What a question?No subject of debate....the wife.When a man marries his wife they are joined as one.She is the next of kin,anything other than that is WITCHCRAFT.CONSPIRACY FROM THE PIT OF HELL.

No sane father uses his siblings as next of kin as the expense of his kids

AfricanApple:
I agree with u but have u forgotten that
1. some men tells their wife not to work (don't most of u want submissive woman?)
2. no matter how independent u are, a workload of two people dat has become that of one person will be tedious to handle

1. Forget all these "submissive" internet talks..trust me, No1 wants a zombie for a wife...

2. You're right. But the problem is most of them don't even try to make an effort towards being independent no more. Hence , the saying "I don't need a good result I'll marry a rich man"... In fact, when u really look closely u will see its not the men actually holding the women back these days its the women who just want to sit in a saloon all day.

SAMBARRY:
Ok maybe my oyinbo is to big for you that you don't understand



let me reduce the hinglish




expantiate more

No word called expantiate. It is expatiate! You worry about not being next of kin...those men last. If you die before him nko? Anything to inherit to help the kids with?

50calibre:


Yeah that's right but a next of kin can make life & death decision which is a pretty big thing.

A next of kin is the first person they call.

In Nigeria... it is a money matter as u are expected to die first. nonsense pple!

rhames:
my wife is my next of kin

off tattered trousers?

AfricanApple:
I know a couple of people who have gone to radio stations because of issues like this, I have seen some around me who have also suffered the same faith





indeed Nl can be so different from reality, most people here are saying their wives meanwhile the naija people in reality that I know are not doing that. most of them have the notion that when they die, the wife marries another man and maybe spend the money for the new family. imagine!!!

faith? chai.

AfricanApple:
most of our naija men are fond of putting their siblings as their next of kin thereby leaving the wife to suffer if he dies before her, not even when she has been very submissive like most of you are obsessed with. they also forgets that they have children that the wife would now be left with the burden of taking care of them alone

why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PLS BEQUEATH ALL TO YOUR WIFE AND CHILDREN,.......

SAMBARRY:
Oya let me reduce the hingrish.expantiate means explain more. If after this hingrish I explain and you don't understand then you be olodo

Lol...

Na expatiate


Anyhow I dey ok

Is expantiate jare .you no know book

pickabeau1:



Lol...

Na expatiate


Anyhow I dey ok

ferdimako:

No word called expantiate. It is expatiate! You worry about not being next of kin...those men last. If you die before him nko? Anything to inherit to help the kids with?

common go and register for spelling bee jare

BCJAY:
my husband put his elder brother despite having a son in the university who is almost 19years. Some men can be funny and if the woman decides to do the same thing fighting will start God will help women o amen.

Your husband must be from a certain part of the country.It's the siblings first in such case.Sorry.

k

SAMBARRY:
Is expantiate jare .you no know book

If the wife is true wife and mother but if she is a jaguda wife then your children and tag age at which they can have full access to the assets.

pickabeau1:
k

hawa you

SAMBARRY:
hawa you

im fine.. tx.. how are things with yu

is toni braxton now your mentor and no more kim k

pickabeau1:

im fine.. tx.. how are things with yu

is toni braxton now your mentor and no more kim k

both

SAMBARRY:
both

when are u going to pose with a champagne glass on your bumbum

pickabeau1:


when are u going to pose with a champagne glass on your bumbum

wos your business. Anyway maybe when you do this

SAMBARRY:
wos your business. Anyway maybe when you do this

is that all...?

nothing spoil

so wen are u doing this.......



in your birthday suit like kim k.. your mentor

Perv





early Friday morning at 8.15am you want to see champagne on top of ya grandma's bom bom.o baje.oni respect

pickabeau1:


is that all...?

nothing spoil

so wen are u doing this.......



in your birthday suit like kim k.. your mentor

Fi resket le joor

Show me the goodie bag...

That one na for early momo...

SAMBARRY:
Perv
early Friday morning at 8.15am you want to see champagne on top of ya grandma's bom bom.o baje.oni respect

Abeg clearat of my front jare abi you want me to call kanwulia so she can show you hers?

pickabeau1:
Fi resket le joor

Show me the goodie bag...

That one na for early momo...

SAMBARRY:
Abeg clearat of my front jare abi you want me to call so she can show you hers?

wetin concern me concern that one.. na your own we dey talk
we can take it offline

pickabeau1:



wetin concern me concern that one.. na your own we dey talk
we can take it offline

ok since you want to see.oyaa get ready






















boom

SAMBARRY:
ok since you want to see.oyaa get ready
boom

shuo... you sef be hermaphrodite
which kain pisure be dis

pickabeau1:


shuo... you sef be hermaphrodite
which kain pisure be dis

ya grandma pinshore.shebi you say you no wan see kanwulia pwn, ehen then make do with that in case you wan use am wanc



like your homo mates

SAMBARRY:
[s] ya grandma pinshore.shebi you say you no wan see pwn, ehen then make do with that in case you wan use am wanc

like your homo mates :[/s]P

homo ko
Super blue OMO ni

na u dey make kim k your mentor.. do what she did naa

pickabeau1:


homo ko
Super blue OMO ni

na u dey make kim k your mentor.. do what she did naa

yimu.so because she's my mentor I must follow her blindly. I must do everything she does . lol . I'm too old for you to be emotionally blackmailing me . try a she-diot that doesn't know anything