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Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by MizMyColi(f): 5:17pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
UjSizzle: cc: Bellong |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by crackhaus: 5:18pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
UjSizzle:Coke ke, haven't you heard diabetes is fast becoming a predominant ailment with Nigerians? |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by MizMyColi(f): 5:18pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by UjSizzle(f): 5:24pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
crackhaus:I meant Coke Zero 1 Like |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by MizMyColi(f): 5:25pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
"We CANNOT become what we need by remaining what we are" ^^^It is simple like that. |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by crackhaus: 5:28pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
MizMyColi:But at the end of the day, it is her choice whether or not she was led into a tight spot/position. I know that sounds insensitive, pardon me... |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by bellong: 5:28pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
MizMyColi: You are about the only person who doesn't know I am a certified and complete MALE... And quite candidly, I'm putting myself in the shoes of the average nigerian girl. I understand you because it is what most ladies are good at doing. They do fail to do a critical assessment of issues to understand their fault so as to correct it to prevent re-occurrence. No, they wouldn't do it but find an excuse why they are the victim. You come off as a tad bit insensitive. The truth and reality most times sound insensitive. I am sensitive to their plight but the truth must be said. When the truth is not spoken, they will keep wallowing in misery. My conclusion is this. Babes be going thru some shiii in their relationships because they do not know better. Most actually know better but are tied down because of "fringe benefits"... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by MizMyColi(f): 5:51pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
bellong: You are about the only person who doesn't know I am a certified and complete MALE... I'm new here I understand you because it is what most ladies are good at doing. They do fail to do a critical assessment of issues to understand their fault so as to correct it to prevent re-occurrence. No, they wouldn't do it but find an excuse why they are the victim. The reddened, so true. While some of us have perfected the practice of blaming ourselves/self pity for relationship woes...........it becomes sickening. We forget that it takes two to tango The truth and reality most times sound insensitive. I am sensitive to their plight but the truth must be said. When the truth is not spoken, they will keep wallowing in misery. You haven't heard me speak truth . I know how to speak truth without coming off as insensitive/unfeeling. Women are naturally feeling creatures. Most actually know better but are tied down because of "fringe benefits"... That's the worst kind of SelingFish-Ness imo, of course. Selfishness to self. Everyone deserves better joor, especially the ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by MizMyColi(f): 5:54pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
lol You do have a point. For some of us, we will never realize this until we've taken some time off to have an intro/retrospective look at things. crackhaus: |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by crackhaus: 6:46pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
MizMyColi:That's it. The victim mentality needs to be shaken off so one can move on and grow. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by zeb04(f): 6:54pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
Pity party no time for that in life.if you don't like what's coming to you,change it. |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by divalindiway(f): 2:50pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Mizmycoli...pls i need to have a chat wit u..i like ur personality. i tried to PM u but i dont tink dat worked. So pls is dere anyway i can reach u? email or somtin? plz do reply.. |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by Nobody: 3:18pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
I pity the one that will marry a certified slut. |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by MizMyColi(f): 7:58am On Dec 17, 2014 |
divalindiway: Hello Dear So sorry. I'd meant to reply this mention, but I got distracted. I went through your posts.....you're an (f) Okay, please when you can, just drop your digits and mention me, I'll reach out ASAP on watsapp. |
Re: Why Devalue And Belittle Yourself? by divalindiway(f): 10:06am On Dec 17, 2014 |
MizMyColi: |
I Need Advice From Married People / Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage / Is This Morally And Culturally Right
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