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Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 8:31pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
BuddhaPalm: Are you a woman? |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: Well said, and it goes both ways. So many out there with their hidden scars, and baggage. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by mutter(f): 9:01pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
freecocoa: Loads of women out there that have alot more self esteem than any of us are sharing their husbands. You can rebel all you like it wouldn`t change the reality. Better save your energy for making sure you don`t get into that situation. Besides I wonder why so many women bark at polygamy. Is it not the same women comming in as second and third wife. How can a man marry a second wife if no woman agrees to marry him? Many of these second wife`s are pretty emancipated 3 Likes |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 9:12pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: I wish I could be a counsellor but I am too emotional sometimes I don't know if I can handle women crying in front of me as a routine. 1 Like |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
mutter: Au contraire. Nah, it's not the "same women". Some women are simply fine with it, and that's ok. They have their own reasons. And people should understand that "love" isn't necessarily involved all the time, and that there are people out there with a different outlook. 2 Likes |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: You're a very good-natured person. To me, crying is just plain annoying and uncomfortable. As for myself, I could never live down having someone see me cry for any reason. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 9:26pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: He he he, because of you I will start and you will be my first. Bare your soul (enlightened as it may be) LoL |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by HFOG(f): 9:27pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed:Hmm. I've gotten your medicine. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: Lolll I honestly can't complain. You already know about biggest atrocity of my short life, and that was only 'natural'. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:35pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 9:37pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
HFOG: LoL! |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 9:39pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: Not sure I do, did you mention it on this thread? |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: Perhaps you won't make such a great counselor after all |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by Alephilomath: 9:44pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
mutter: You never answered my earlier question on this thread. I really would like to know your answer. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 9:50pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
BuddhaPalm: Are you a woman or transgender? |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 9:53pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: Actually I'll make a good one. The question was a leading one I wanted to eliminate all other possibilities. I have it now. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:59pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: Aha, transgender sire. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by Nobody: 10:00pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: Prove it, counselor. I've already mentally striped you of your credentials |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 10:08pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: Here... |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 10:10pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
BuddhaPalm: Ah, no wonder. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: There's hope for you yet. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:15pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: I think you're sexy. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by HFOG(f): 10:22pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
BuddhaPalm:Plsss shut up! Please! And get thee behind my brother o (satan). |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by freecocoa(f): 10:24pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
mutter:No my dear, it's not the same women, one group believe their lives depends on men who don't even feel the same way, the other group knows that they are the best and deserve to be treated as such, anything less is not acceptable, and because love treasures you above all, they are sensible enough to love themselves thereby showing others how to love them, have some self worth and be smart enough to know a man responsible and mature enough to love you, a man who isn't selfish, a man who takes you as himself, yes, such men exist and such a man won't marry another woman, it's even better he asks for divorce than boldly bring in a woman into my home, do you know that if a man loves you, he won't want to do something to hurt you? He won't want to see you in pain mutter, please tell me, how would you honestly feel if your hubby decides to marry another? 5 Likes |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 10:26pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
HFOG: Chei! See defense! LoL 1 Like |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 10:28pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: LoL. Told ya |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:30pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by HFOG(f): 10:31pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed:We never settle polygamy/polyandry/celibacy matter this one wan add homosexuality. From where na? Abegi |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: I was worried for a sec there! I have an irrational fear of death, and it's not even on my own behalf. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by LordReed(m): 10:53pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul: Yeah death can be a scary prospect but I am glad you recognize it as an irrational fear. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by Nobody: 11:47pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
LordReed: I was involved in an auto accident. I survived w/ scratches so superficial, they're no longer on my person. But I lost someone I loved dearly, and suffered from crippling devastation and survivor's guilt. I eventually finished grieving, but I still get anxiety. And its weird, but knowing it's irrational doesn't keep the anxiety/fear from manifesting. It's so much better now, but it's still there and it's been almost 4 years. Now it's like I transfer my fear of loss onto others, like my aging folks, or my fiancé who does some extreme sporting etc, or anyone I know anytime they want to do anything even slightly 'reckless'. I just temper through it. I've turned into such a wuss, it's pathetic. |
Re: Polygamy + Polyandry = Monogamy ? by AfricanApple(f): 11:54pm On Dec 08, 2014 |
EnlightenedSoul:seriously? I thought this is subjected to men alone, sis why that |
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