I recommend "men are from mars, women are from venus" by john gray. Has some wonderful insights to better understanding your spouse. How men and women see and feel things differently and how one can use this knowledge to create a stronger bond with your partner.

I stumbled upon the book when i felt my relationship was taking a nose dive. Even though i would agree i had a hand in that.. I also felt it wasn't entirely my fault. Reading the book has brought me some peace of mind that I'm surprised i have. Even tho i haven't given her the book..

I feel happier somewhat.. I react differently to things now.. I've learned that females are different from males and require different kind of loving. But i would be happiest if she reads the book too and is able to adjust accordingly..

Would be just perfect..(because everything i do would be in sync with her also and i feel we would be much happier both within our individual selves and with each other)

I'm not trying to sell the book.. Just trying to share an experience to those that might be interested. If anyone has other advice/experiences.. Feel free to share

Nigeria don't need dat

I bought d book while I was in SA. It is a nice buk. In d past, I used 2 be tempermental with my women. But now, I feel relaxed in dealing with them.

holatin:
Nigeria don't need dat

Why?

yorex2011:

Why?

We learn from elders experience and other people experience and misfortune

holatin:
We learn from elders experience and other people experience and misfortune

Thats why i said anyone can share experiences/advice