Question for the married ones (men n women), has there eva bin a time u felt life wud av bin better if u had marry any of ur Ex instead of ur husband/ wife? How did u deal wit it wen dos tots surmount?

P.s m not married but I hear n see men n women sulk over their ex n it beats my imagination mostly if the ex is doing very well (mostly financially).

Hell no

Hell to the freaking NO!
I don't do regrets

sexyedjutto:
Hell no

alutacontinua:
Hell to the freaking NO!
I don't do regrets

Since u ar sayin definite NO, does it mean it doesn't happen? Btw both of u ar men were ar d ladies??

HELLLLLLLLLLLLL NO!
None of them!

Anytime i remember, i give thanks to God. If we had gotten married, we would have been sooooooooo divorced now. God i thank You o!!!

*singing R-Kelly's You saved me*

kendraloops:
Anytime i remember, i give thanks to God. If we had gotten married, we would have been sooooooooo divorced now. God i thank You o!!!
*singing R-Kelly's You saved me*

KanwuliaJara:
HELLLLLLLLLLLLL NO!
None of them!

KanwuliaJara:
HELLLLLLLLLLLLL NO!
None of them!

Ladies ar speakin now.

In as much as I don't do regrets, every time I look back, I still believe there are loads of things I should have done differently. So, it is possible to always look back sometimes, if ya ex was great but things didn't pan out.

In life, you just live and learn. And that is the beauty of growth and experience. All my exes still ride for me, and they are like my coolest friends - but the differences are irreconcilable lol.

Anyway, if you are married, just leave the old one alone - and focus on the space you are right now.

Shout outs to all of my exes tho.

When one is married the focus should be on the spouse and make the best out of it. Some exes are dodged bullet!

I can't regret not marrying my ex, becos I always carefully go for what's better than what I left. Whatever was d weakness of my previous relationship must ve strength in my new relationship. One thing is sure, my ex remains my close friend till he decides to close my page.

pappyrose:
I can't regret not marrying my ex, becos I always carefully go for what's better than what I left. Whatever was d weakness of my previous relationship must ve strength in my new relationship. One thing is sure, my ex remains my close friend till he decides to close my page.

Wat if he takes advantage of dat closeness n start manipulatin ur mind? Wat if he is gud in certain areas ur husband isn't gud n he start remindin u of how he was always gud at dos tins? Won't u start havin/ harboring certain regrets n resentment?

always use the search function when opening threads!


https://www.nairaland.com/1839768/ex-memes-special-picture-thread

don't be asking nlers questions that they've already answered!

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Henrypraise:


Wat if he takes advantage of dat closeness n start manipulatin ur mind? Wat if he is gud in certain areas ur husband isn't gud n he start remindin u of how he was always gud at dos tins? Won't u start havin/ harboring certain regrets n resentment?

What I will just say is, I always think it through before I give up on a relationship, and when I finally make up my mind to put it behind me, it stays there even if I still decide to maintain d friendship.

Wanna know What?some times I do jare![dont even dare ask me how or Why]

Well not after marriage, I now have more important things to think of than daydream about one ex.