following some reports and horror stories, where maids or helpers have suffocated
babies to death, stuffed them in fridges, injected
them with HIV/Aids, sexually molested infants
and attempted suicide due to psychological
problems and mental fits.
it is safe to hire a nanny for your child of children?

I think day nannies are better. I once used a day nanny. Shes never came to my house. She meets me at the office n closes at d close of work. She either stays in the lounge or with me in my office or sits somewhere in the corridor with my baby. Whenever I had to go out, we go together. I did that till my baby was old enough to start school. So my baby was always around me.

Pampers:
I think day nannies are better. I once used a day nanny. Shes never came to my house. She meets me at the office n closes at d close of work. She either stays in the lounge or with me in my office or sits somewhere in the corridor with my baby. Whenever I had to go out, we go together. I did that till my baby was old enough to start school. So my baby was always around me.

Great Idea but not everyone can do that at their working place. In Nigeria I had a daycare opposite my work, I even sent for my baby to breast feed but not everyone has that luxury. I prefer my kids in a day care. That way I can walk in at irregular toimes and control. However the baby has to be a certain age.

I was abused by a female nanny as a child on several occassions so I know too well what can happen. My parents felt I was safe with her but it was a nightmare because I was even too scared to tell my parents, I thought they would beat the hell out of me. Because it was such a terrible thing that she did, I could not understand that I was not to blame.