Meet a 34 year old hard working and very focussed banker, while his wife whom
he met at the university works as a secretary in travelling agency. They are both Christians and have been married for close to three
years, but he would rather not take his vibrator problems to his pastor for personal reasons.

He has tried to work things out with hi wife when he notice she was not interested in having sex with him but it has not yielded any positive result as his not convinced about the situation. he feel too
ashamed to discuss the problem with his pastor and even worse with his mother because he know that will only escalate things. Trust me, he know his mother and mothers generally. As for his friends, he was afraid they might turn around to use it against him and make him the butt of their jokes

His problem started last December, over the festive period to be precise. He caught his wife on their matrimonial bed having sex with a
vibrator. He almost collapsed because he was shocked beyond what words can describe. he found himself shaking from head to toe, unable to even say anything. He felt so disgusted and sick that he had to rush to the bathroom to splash water over his face to avoid vomiting.
She must have been so engrossed in what she was doing that she did not even know when he entered their apartment and walked into the room to find her in that position. It was his movement that brought her back to reality. What he found most disturbing at that moment was why she could not wait for him if she was so in need of sex, since he’d called her earlier on
that he was on his way home. And though she got up immediately and started pleading with him that it was the devil, he did not bring himself to talk to her until very early in the morning of the next day.

She told him a friend in her office had given it to her to try out and it was her first time of using it. And that she would have told him about it but wanted to try it out first. She mentioned somebody’s name which she said he have never met and pleaded that she would return it and never use it again. She managed to convince him that it was an innocent one-off-thing which he did not need to bother himself about
and he accepted.
But it was difficult for him to forget as he kept seeing the picture of her in that position in his head and wondering if it was right for a married, Christian woman to be doing such a thing. To him, it is something made by the Satan for his children.

Later that week, she told him she had returned it and things went back to normal between them but he was surprised to find the instrument again in her underwear drawer by accident. She was not at home, so he took it out and laid it on her side of the bed. As soon as she came home and saw it, she went on her knees again and began to beg him She said she did not know how to return the thing since it was a gift
and would not want to upset her colleague at the office, nor embarrass herself. She insisted she was not using it and was also scouting for
whom she too can give it to.

Since he did not catch her using it, he had no choice but to let it go. However, he was not comfortable and began suspecting her. he later
hatched a plan to catch her and before long, it worked. What he saw that evening was worse than the previous one and still haunts him till
today.
He’d never seen his wife look that way before even when we are doing it. he was transfixed that he had to hide quietly behind the door way to allow her finish before he opened the door. Immediately his wife went on her knees, begging that it was the devil again.

He refused to talk to her and walked out of the apartment. he just walked round and round the neighbourhood because he felt lost and didn’t know where to go or who to talk to.he felt thoroughly betrayed. he had never looked at another woman in his life, before and even after he met her. he’d never looked at porn magazines or movie, not to talk of having a girlfriend, and worse still, owning a intimacy gadget.
he could only manage to keep his anger for two days as she kept crying and asking for forgiveness, promising never to use it again. he could not bear to see her that way too, so, he insisted she had to tell him the truth. She then told him that since the matter was no longer a secret, it was better she confessed everything to me. She said the vibrator was hers and she had been using it even before she became a born again Christian, as she was introduced to it while in Secondary school. (A girls only school) he didn’t understand the logic, but she said it was a way to show that they did not need male company? Were they Lesbians?

She insisted they were not. When she became “born again” in the university, she stopped, she said. This was where we met and started
first as friends, then he got the message that she was his wife and eventually got married two years after our service year. She said she was forced to go and buy another vibrator after a discussion with some ladies in her office about how much they enjoyed their sex life
and she missed the fun she used to have. She also told him that she does not get satisfaction from what we do together but did not want to hurt his feelings by telling him and begged him to allow her to continue using the thing and that it will not affect what they have together, after all, I never would have guessed it, if I had not caught her using it.

His problem now is that, though he have not caught her again in almost two months, his still not happy because he know she is doing it and its disgusting to him. Though she says it will not affect them, it is already affecting him because anytime I want to have sex with her, that picture comes to my mind and spoils my mood. I will have to just force myself because I have nowhere else to relieve myself.
work schedule is very tight as he works in the bank and have to leave home very early in the morning and most times, don’t return home
until around 10pm or even later.

also taking some professional courses, so, that also takes away most of his weekends. But his wife work is not demanding, so she has more than enough time on her hands to do all she wants before I return. Before you ask what he have done to make their love life better, he have tried to do everything she tells him, and though she says she is now enjoying it, his not convinced. he doesn't see that look on her face. And it is making him feel inadequate as a husband. they have been married for three years and we are yet to conceive a child and he sometimes wonder if this is her priority.
she know what he's facing with his mother and family on that issue alone, not to now add this one to it. Have he not bitten more than he can chew with this girl? His wife is unfaithful to him with a vibrator and his powerless to do anything about it.

A friend said
To be candid with you, I will better allow my wife to used it, than to
go out and be sleeping with everyone on street, you know that you
are busy to give her what he want, and how can you have a child
when you are to busy to do your duty, all you have to do is to let
her be using it, if you don't want her to bring HIV home for you,
what you dint know is that she's adictted to it and she enjoy it
more than when someone is on her, I think she's happy having sexy
with toys, to me I will say look for a time, go to doctor check on
yourslef and check her up too, to see what is causing the delay for
the baby, after that encourage her to be using the toys. I ant you to
believe this it will get to a stage that she will be tired of the toys,
and when she's pregnant she will reduce it, and toys will give you
more rellief if you don't like sexy, thanks God that your wife dont
know how to sleep with other man, all you need is to encourage
her to be using it, I travel a lot and I don't mind getting one for my
wife, because she's a human too. Thanks
hahaha funny