She has a well furnished house....you live in a rented apartment.

You guys get married...

Would you move in with her or insist on paying rent in someone else's house?

Tough one.

tough q......lemme hear other pple's point

If it's going to be temporary for a STRONG reason it's not bad. But it's traditionally wrong to make it permanent.

It ain't right

a gud rizin to double ur hustle.....every9 u spend count. women dnt av d long throat for words, if she vex u will 8 urself for d rest of ur life.
Dnt do it!!!, somebdy shouted here.

striktlymi:
She has a well furnished house....you live in a rented apartment.

You guys get married...

Would you move in with her or insist on paying rent in someone else's house?

Why not? Isn't she my wife?

What I have belong to my wife and vice-versa.

What happened to your own house?

Are you African?

striktlymi:
She has a well furnished house....you live in a rented apartment.

You guys get married...

Would you move in with her or insist on paying rent in someone else's house?

sure but not forever

Yes I can.

I am not controlled by my ego.

waleadex:
If it's going to be temporary for a STRONG reason it's not bad. But it's traditionally wrong to make it permanent.

What if there was no tradition?

My ego is something I respect so much, so It won't lemme do








My religion and personal beliefs forbids it

Mynd44:
Yes I can.

I am not controlled by my ego.

Thumbs up!

TrishaP:

What if there was no tradition?

Then personal discretion should come to play...

I guess the question is for guys but I see nothing wrong in it. Like someone said tho, it should be temporary till you erect your own structure...

waleadex:

Then personal discretion should come to play...

Sometimes u just forget tradition and do what you want.

To me tho, I don't see anything wrong there, it's just understanding, trust and love that they need in their marriage and every other thing doesnt count.

TrishaP:

Sometimes u just forget tradition and do what you want.

To me tho, I don't see anything wrong there, it's just understanding, trust and love that should hover around their marriage and every other thing won't count.

Remember they're not into this alone. Family pressure must be considered too.

waleadex:

Remember they're not into this alone. Family pressure must be considered too.

I know quite all right. But we are know most families abides with tradition, then what about you, what if you don't want such traditions.

There are many things to consider in this,.. I don't want to say much.

Mtsswww

In western countries, it is often the man that moves in with his wife, unless in some cases.

So if where the woman is living is better and more secured, why not?
At least, until they secure their own apartment as a married couple.
To me, I see nothing wrong in it.

Itz very wrong

Are both of you not one, huh?

Some men will be suffering and smiling because of their ego, big ego.

We go sell her house go find another

jmoore:
Are both of you not one, huh?

Some men will be suffering and smiling because of their ego, big ego.

Abi. Help me ask them.

As long as the house is comfortable and she's not driven by childish pride and is not prudish to remind you that she owns it every second of your life. I have no issues with it.

Ain't it to sleep and wake up and live life?

When I married her it was with both declared assets and undeclared liability.

So ama move into my new apartment feeling like a boss.

Jesus I will neva do dt besides who is marrying who

D man is d provider so he shld provide shelter n d woman is d helper

Any man dt does move into a woman's houz after marriage lacks self respect n may ve been a neva do well n such a man can't b a husband as he lacks d capability

Anyway there is a man in d houz and a man of d houz

D worst dt shld happen is for d couple to put resources together n rent a new apartment if d man is really poor to save his face

ogawisdom:
Jesus I will neva do dt besides who is marrying who

Tell me please, who is marrying who?

I can't see anything wrong with this with time a man of vision will build his own house.

ogawisdom:
Jesus I will neva do dt besides who is marrying who

D man is d provider so he shld provide shelter n d woman is d helper

Any man dt does move into a woman's houz after marriage lacks self respect n may ve been a neva do well n such a man can't b a husband as he lacks d capability

Anyway there is a man in d houz and a man of d houz

D worst dt shld happen is for d couple to put resources together n rent a new apartment if d man is really poor to save his face

i been think say na woman dey marry manuoo ya knw therefore shall a man leave him papa and mama to cleave unto him wife.
Anyway,i dont see d big deal o.Our house docs are in my mum's name: She bought d land,dad built and she's never mentioned it in an argument.It all depends on d couple

kelechiMarie:
i been think say na woman dey marry manuoo ya knw therefore shall a man leave him papa and mama to cleave unto him wife.
Anyway,i dont see d big deal o.Our house docs are in my mum's name: She bought d land,dad built and she's never mentioned it in an argument.It all depends on d couple

It is an abomination for a man to move into a woman's house after marriage. Ur parents may ve been d exception to d rule sha

ogawisdom:


It is an abomination for a man to move into a woman's house after marriage. Ur parents may ve been d exception to d rule sha

abomination kwanuit's a thing of the mind brah.We lived in a rented house before and trust me you wouldn't know my mum owns
I was snooping around dats how.
We make life so damn complicated for ourselves