kristina1:
I think it should be the husband.
most women tends to change once they are richer than their hubby

Unibenstudent:

I think its mother because I say so.

kristina1:

Really?
i dnt think so

Unibenstudent:
hmmm my papa na stingy person and my mama na giver hence if she is richer that is flexing.

kristina1:

My popsi sef no dey joke with money o,he read econs,,,you know what that means.

k4kenny:
Doesn't matter who is richer as along as the richer one doesn't use the wealth to oppress the other. I must say women like your aunt, tho few, should be commended for not letting the wealth ruin their homes.

Reminds me of one day in my office, my boss was telling me that I'm lucky o, cos I'm collecting money from 2 ends ; my salary and allowance from my husband. I just smiled cos I know he's not used to a situation where a wife contributes to the upkeep of the family as his wife is constantly demanding even for the most trivial things.

Like I said it doesn't matter who's richer as long as no one is getting oppressed and they both decide how the money can be used for d betterment if the family.

snazzy5050:

just had to say dat sha, she's ma mum. and am proud of her but I just think its not right sometimes

aisha2:


Since you believe its not " right" what do you suggest she does? Take all her money and throw into the benin river?
I can't even find the words to type.

cococandy:


Me too
@topic
Girls Una don hear o.
*Make sure you don't ever work harder than your man.
* If you get promoted and that could lead to a bigger earning,tell your boss NO.
* If you come across any opportunity that will make you money and it seems like the money will surpass that of your guy run from such an opportunity.
*in fact don't study at all,because studying could improve your earning potential and you know that's not right.

aisha2:


Sadly some girls will take this seriously and end up beggars with vagin-as whose parents will demand house painting as part of her brideprice and she will join her family in sucking her husband dry of resources because it is not " right" for a woman to be rich

cococandy:
and this OP created this thread with all seriousness. I wonder what kind of people are on this forum. Weird posts everywhere
It is like all the archaic and outlandish POVs flourish here.
The kind of people that encourage husbands stopping their wives from working because she will make money and 'her wings will grow'

Phew

jmoore:
The kids.


Thank you.

Sophyrocks:
So Op, as we have moved over to 2015, you are still behind asking this kind of question when we have a woman who has overthrown Oprah as the richest woman in the world. So if this woman is richer than her husband, the husband should kill himself ba? So all the men that have richer wives should commit suicide? Are you saying God only blesses men with riches but not women? women are meant to be poor ba?

snazzy5050:
have been wanting to ask this question ma aunt is a very rich woman she even placed her husband as the director in are firm, but i feel its not right, that she's richer....... so nairalanders which do u think is much better... the husband or the wife should be more richer

snazzy5050:

ok I get it,its not as If am telling her to transfer the riches..... but u coco candy & aisha u wait till Ur brother marries a richer woman and u should come and give us your own experience before u come here and spill rubbish

zeb04:
Hah! These is 2015 leave these silly mentality in the past.

2CatWoman:
OP, what does yur dad think about the situation?

snazzy5050:

feels great about everything.. am just saying dis cus of the environment and family members, u should know wat they would talk about..and am kinda bordered wen I reason everything

aisha2:


As you grow older you will learn to drown the noise and do what works for you. Those talking why can't they use their energy to invest in your dad and make him richer? How much does their talk put in his bank account?

k4kenny:
Doesn't matter who is richer as along as the richer one doesn't use the wealth to oppress the other. I must say women like your aunt, tho few, should be commended for not letting the wealth ruin their homes.

Reminds me of one day in my office, my boss was telling me that I'm lucky o, cos I'm collecting money from 2 ends ; my salary and allowance from my husband. I just smiled cos I know he's not used to a situation where a wife contributes to the upkeep of the family as his wife is constantly demanding even for the most trivial things.

Like I said it doesn't matter who's richer as long as no one is getting oppressed and they both decide how the money can be used for d betterment if the family.