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Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jan 29, 2015
That is always the case be a movie or reality. What could be the reason of friends becoming sudden enemies? Could it be that the person has been your enemy all along and you didn't notice or what?
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by immortalvoices(m): 12:32pm On Jan 29, 2015
One major reason is the fight over women/men then money might be secondary

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Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by olexjay(m): 12:34pm On Jan 29, 2015
The fact is that make use of the word "Best_Friend" wrongly.

Your best friend is that person who you can predict where he/she was at a particular moment, what he/she is doing and lot whereas ur prediction are right or very close.

The bible back it up saying "show me ur friend and I'm gonna tell u who u are" .

Friends turns enemies cos of JEALOUSY, when one is growing the other start feeling uncomfortable and that might make them end up splitting...... #MyOwnView!

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Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by jejemanito: 12:41pm On Jan 29, 2015
Because it's all about 'expectation' and there is shock that emanates whenever those expectations are broken and the pain that comes with it is very very bitter

same thing happens when someone you think hates you end up genuinely helping you in one way or the other eg sacrifising his or her comfort to help you You will be so shocked to the point that the hatred you had for him or her will be transformed to love and respect
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Rapmoney(m): 12:41pm On Jan 29, 2015
Nor be everybody wey greet u 'good morning' and smile na e be ur friend o! Op, the fact is that when u start climbing the ladder of success, u will end up having some friends-turned-enemies! True talk!
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Justeenaleo(f): 12:42pm On Jan 29, 2015
Cos they been enemies all along
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by delishpot: 12:47pm On Jan 29, 2015
Outside padi who becomes jealouse of their closeness sometimes break friendships.
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by jejemanito: 12:57pm On Jan 29, 2015
Also a wise man once told me that you cant have a friend whom you aren't on the same level with cause it wont just work
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by jnrbayano(m): 12:58pm On Jan 29, 2015
rokiatu:
That is always the case be a movie or reality. What could be the reason of friends becoming sudden enemies? Could it be that the person has been your enemy all along and you didn't notice or what?

The line between love (best friend) and hate (enemy) is incredibly thin.

Your best friend by default knows you inside out. That knowledge also by default is key to performing well in a friendship.

However, when such knowledge is used negatively, an enemic friendship is born.

A common cause of best friend turned enemy is betrayal of trust.
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Jan 29, 2015
True friends never becomes enemies.... No matter what happens between them, they will always sort it out e.g mirexxx and I
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by MzLaurel(f): 1:03pm On Jan 29, 2015
Best friends becomes worst enemies because, they weren't ur frnds before they were only pretending to be.
U see them as ur friend while they see u as their enemy.

Sometimes....'money nd Jealousy' may turn ur best friend to ur worst enemy.

'Stewpid ego or lemme say pride' may also lead to misunderstanding/hatred between u two......when no one is willing to apologize or accept d blame during a quarrel...malice nd enmity appears.

Rivalry over some certain things can transform ur best friend to ur worst enemy in a jiffy.


Note that : if he/she was destined to be ur frnd he/she won't end up being ur enemy.

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Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Rapmoney(m): 1:14pm On Jan 29, 2015
zick19:
True friends never becomes enemies.... No matter what happens between them, they will always sort it out e.g mirexxx and I

Someone opened a very reasonable thread for discussion and you are using it to seek the attention of a lady! You see your life? grin
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by mirexxx(f): 1:21pm On Jan 29, 2015
Rapmoney:


Someone opened a very reasonable thread for discussion and you are using it to seek the attention of a lady! You see your life? grin
I tire o

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Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jan 29, 2015
Human beings are bound to change.
A little misunderstanding that could have been overlooked , has the tendency to turn best friends to isreal and Pakistan.
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by andyanders: 1:59pm On Jan 29, 2015
rokiatu:
That is always the case be a movie or reality. What could be the reason of friends becoming sudden enemies? Could it be that the person has been your enemy all along and you didn't notice or what?

Roky, friends could turn to be enemies as a result of gossip, envy and greed. Take for an example whereby you as a lady having a very good loving guy you are dating and maybe your friend noticing the way the guy pampers and taking care of you could make the lady develop love for same guy and maybe start looking for ways to date same guy secretly and by the time you get to know, that relationship is ruined for life.

Also avoid having to ask borrowing money from friends as your refusal to keep to the terms of the agreement could turn to destroy your relationship. Rather offer to assist to render an assistance to them than having to borrow money to them.Any failure to keep to the terms of repayment could destroy the trust you EVER had with same friend.

Most at times, ladies should avoid telling her close friends how her guy makes love to her or how too nice her guy is as the lady could turn to try to woe same guy lustfully.

For guys too, they exhibit same attitude whereby you see your close friend start lusting for your best female friend and that could turn to destroy same friendship they have tried to build through childhood as a result of envy, gossip and attitude issue.


I believe that relationships do get sour as a result of attitude issue.
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jan 29, 2015
The reason is becos God is the only true friend we have.
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jan 29, 2015
God is d only true friend we have.
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jan 29, 2015
Wow so many great advice. Thanks ya all.
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by jejemanito: 6:00pm On Jan 29, 2015
mirexxx:
I tire o
no dey tire anything jor angry when you don pose mouth so tey kiss come dey hungry zick19

you triggered it so don't blame him
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by mirexxx(f): 6:02pm On Jan 29, 2015
jejemanito:
no dey tire anything jor angry when you don pose mouth so tey kiss come dey hungry zick19

you triggered it so don't blame him
undecided
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Karleb(m): 7:03pm On Jan 29, 2015
Because they both refused to say I'm sorry.

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Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Geenickel(m): 8:24pm On Jan 29, 2015
unlike faces of a magnet tend to come close,wen force is applied(wen we fail to ascertain d real stuffs pple we see as friends are made of)...
but those unlike poles would definitely repel each other,like they never came close(when dt person wrongs us and owing to the fact that we were never compatible, no sermon can bring back unity in that relationship).......

Lesson: COMPATIBILITY IS INDISPENSABLE WHEN IT COMES TO MATTERS PERTAINING FRNDSHP AND RELATIONSHIP.
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Nobody: 11:08am On Jan 30, 2015
Karleb:
Because they both refused to say I'm sorry.
hahahaha
Re: Why Do Best Friends Become Enemies? by Nobody: 6:45am On Feb 05, 2015
Because the "bestfriend" knew way too much about you, and still messed up. You hate because you trusted vice versa - more or less. cheesy

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