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| His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Doveheart: 6:22pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
This man has been enduring this for long. His wife is not always interested in having intimacy with her husband owing to unresolves issues in the family which the husband has tried every possible means to solve but to no avail. what can he do? |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by cococandy(f): 6:39pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
I guess they are in a business relationship. If his wife stops intimacy, he will stop providing for the family  Unu well done. Why not find out why she's not into sex anymore? It may not be to spite you. 1 Like |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by delishpot: 6:40pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Hmnn, what did he do to her? There are some things a spouse will do that will make the other lose interest in sex even though they have forgiven the sin. for example, a cheating spOuse. The other may forgive but find it hard to sleep with the partner that went astray. If you have been selfish in bed. Some times spouses are selfish, they only do sex when they want and once they are satusfied they dont do much more for their partners own satisfaction. After a while, sex becomes like a routine and the enduring partner finds it boring and inconvinient to keep doing it. So, what was the problems you had with her? Maybe that is the cause of her withdrawn attitude. |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by bukatyne(f): 6:44pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Funny topic The husband sees his money as payment for her se.x  LMAO |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Cheat on her 3 Likes |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by crackhaus: 7:09pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Cutehector4u:Exactly! He should get a side-chick, or just stop spending on her broke as.s until she gets a job and realizes nothing is for free  |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 7:20pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
crackhaus:she is definitely a wiitch |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by slimyem: 7:23pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Why is the man enduring ? Why has the unresolved issues remain so? the husband's concern sounds like that of a boyfriend who doesn't want to be "mugued" than that of someone who wants a real solution to issues plaguing his marriage.. Do they both even understand what it is to be married or why they are married to each other? 4 Likes |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by crackhaus: 7:29pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Cutehector4u:LOL |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by xynerise: 7:33pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Cutehector4u:Harsh but accurate |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Lol |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by xynerise: 7:43pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
alutacontinua:Alutacontinuation |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
xynerise:in dis case two rongs must make a right |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by xynerise: 8:04pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Cutehector4u:Certainly |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Divorce her ! |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by xynerise: 8:53pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by mutter(f): 10:13pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
That is a ground for divorce in a court of law. Depends on how long it has been going on. It depends on the reason. If I think my husband has been sleeping around and could infect me, then I am justified in denying him intimacy. However if there is no genuine reason--- many fishes in the sea. 2 Likes |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by sandiyke(f): 10:23pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
That woman's heart is heavy. He (the man) should resolve whatever issue is on ground so love can return to that union. |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 1:25am On Feb 05, 2015 |
xynerise: Laelae! I registered my name since his birth, remember? No girl should mess with me oo   |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by KanwuliaJara: 5:27am On Feb 05, 2015 |
Men and sex sha!  The soonest they learn to phock themselves, the better for the world. Off to go and baff, wash my nyansh and masttturbate with the end of my BIGGEST amala spoon! Shior! Time for some 'po-rn'!  1 Like |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by NickiRoman: 8:08am On Feb 05, 2015 |
mutter:You probably won't give this same advice to your fellow woman. 2 Likes |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Nobody: 8:20am On Feb 05, 2015 |
Maybe she is mad at that husband,so she is holding the sex card to her chest? Or maybe there are other reasons, I am not sure. Whatever it is, it's necessary they both work on the issues first - so that they can have their sex life back on track. No one likes to go "celibate" in a marriage. This is enough reason to irk a nigga...lols 1 Like |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Doveheart: 8:35am On Feb 05, 2015 |
mutter: Y[b]our comments sound professional. Geuss you a lawyer. if so can i have your number? The husband does not cheat it is even the wife that is a suspect according to him[/b] |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by 5minsmadness: 9:11am On Feb 05, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: 1 Like
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| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Emaprince: 9:34am On Feb 05, 2015 |
Which one be wife spending his money?..is she not his wife?..abi na girlfriend? But for real,the woman no like sex ni?..abi na only the man like sex?..to me she's a pretender and the man need to wake up and help himself because another nigga maybe doing his job on the wife already and she'll be pretending as if she don't want sex..pfft! |
| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by Nutase: 11:11am On Feb 05, 2015 |
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| Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by ArewaSweetheart(f): 12:58pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Doveheart: Are you tryna say that the money is in exchange for the intimacy, hence, since the intimacy has ceased then the money should cease too right?  The husband should talk it out with his spouse and remind her (in case she has forgotten) that denying him intimacy is tantamount to outrightly compelling him to find succour in the hands of other women outside. I believe just saying this will make her resume her bed duty sharpa-lly |
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