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To All Lady Dreaming Big by Nobody: 12:11pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
YoungLadies! Where do you see yourself in 5yrs? Where do you see your future going? Whether you see yourself married or single with a career, what you do now will determine how comfortable you'll be. A woman must have goals, she must see herself more than a wife, you are a soul that came to earth for a reason, your life also has a purpose.. A woman must be independent, you must learn to stand on your own two feet, not for oppression or for competition with a man, but for survival.... A woman that have no dreams will become, her friends errand's girl, you will be that one friend amongst them that everyone calls whenever they need a (Òmò òdò)someone to send back and forth, while they are at work or in their business places....because they know you are always available, you have no life, no future, always available......a nuisance! A married woman that totally depend on her hubby for everything is building resentment, a man will respect you when you have something you can bring to the table.....even if he is well to do, his respect for you will multiply, not because he want your money, but because you are representing him/yourself/family well in public...... In these days and age, no man want a liability for a wife, they want an independent woman, they want your support, they want a mate that they can borrow her mind/brain in making decisions..... You are inviting abuse, resentment if you wait on a man for your total wellbeing, if he's feeding, clothing and doing it all.....eventually he will want to control you, matter of fact he owns your, you are his property, because if he says no! no is no, you will have no opinion, if you disagree, you will not get what you want/need from him.....if he says sit you must sit or no money, no food, no clothing.....for your self respect, have your own, for your dignity, have your own....you will have a say in your own home.... Eventually you will start to resent him, more importantly, you will start to resent and hate yourself....you will lose respect of people.... So once again where do you see yourself in 5yrs? start to look at what you can do today to better your tomorrow....do you need to go back to school, it's never too late, what do you need to do to make that happen? do you prefer to learn a trade? How will you make it happen? Your future and the future of your children depend on it......you hubby may decide to leave or God forbids he dies, where would you be? Wake up, think on this....yes you are a woman, but your purpose here is not to be a bystander.....y ou are also capable of leading........ There's nothing wrong if you lend or even give your hubby money to start a business.... NOTHING! Those days of them saying female children are worthless are over....... OVER! 1 Like |
Re: To All Lady Dreaming Big by Nobody: 12:45pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Hmmm. |
Re: To All Lady Dreaming Big by liliangmail(f): 3:18pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
very interesting! five yrs from now/?? I Shld be among the Gs in the five leading bank and a cute family ***wink*** So help me God! 1 Like |
Re: To All Lady Dreaming Big by liliangmail(f): 3:19pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
very interesting! five yrs from now/?? I Shld be among the Gs in the five leading banks and a cute family ***wink*** So help me God! |
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