YoungLadies!
Where do you see yourself in
5yrs?
Where do you see your future
going? Whether you see yourself
married or single with a career,
what you do now will determine
how comfortable you'll be.
A woman must have goals, she
must see herself more than a
wife, you are a soul that came to
earth for a reason, your life also
has a purpose..
A woman must be independent,
you must learn to stand on your
own two feet, not for oppression
or for competition with a man,
but for survival....
A woman that have no dreams
will become, her friends errand's
girl, you will be that one friend
amongst them that everyone calls
whenever they need a (Òmò
òdò)someone to send back and
forth, while they are at work or in
their business places....because
they know you are always
available, you have no life, no
future, always available......a
nuisance!
A married woman that totally
depend on her hubby for
everything is building resentment,
a man will respect you when you
have something you can bring to
the table.....even if he is well to do,
his respect for you will multiply,
not because he want your money,
but because you are representing
him/yourself/family well in
public......
In these days and age, no man
want a liability for a wife, they
want an independent woman,
they want your support, they
want a mate that they can
borrow her mind/brain in making
decisions.....
You are inviting abuse,
resentment if you wait on a man
for your total wellbeing, if he's
feeding, clothing and doing it
all.....eventually he will want to
control you, matter of fact he
owns your, you are his property,
because if he says no! no is no,
you will have no opinion, if you
disagree, you will not get what
you want/need from him.....if he
says sit you must sit or no money,
no food, no clothing.....for your
self respect, have your own, for
your dignity, have your own....you
will have a say in your own
home....
Eventually you will start to resent
him, more importantly, you will
start to resent and hate
yourself....you will lose respect of
people....
So once again where do you see
yourself in 5yrs? start to look at
what you can do today to better
your tomorrow....do you need to
go back to school, it's never too
late, what do you need to do to
make that happen? do you prefer
to learn a trade? How will you
make it happen?
Your future and the future of
your children depend on it......you
hubby may decide to leave or God
forbids he dies, where would you
be?
Wake up, think on this....yes you
are a woman, but your purpose
here is not to be a bystander.....y
ou are also capable of leading........
There's nothing wrong if you
lend or even give your hubby
money to start a business....
NOTHING!
Those days of them saying female
children are worthless are
over.......
OVER!

Hmmm.

very interesting! five yrs from now/?? I Shld be among the Gs in the five leading bank and a cute family ***wink*** So help me God!

very interesting! five yrs from now/?? I Shld be among the Gs in the five leading banks and a cute family ***wink*** So help me God!