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Ways To Teach Your Kids S*x Education/ Things Parents Ought To Know by jovialmum(f): 7:09am On Feb 17, 2015
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Sex education must begin in the early stage of child's development probably before or during puberty stage. sex education takes a "building blocks" approach that moves from easy skills to more advanced competencies that is teaching them according to their age and responding to their queries. Sexual activities exists so as to create babies, to nurture a mummy and daddy's love, and to point us back to the love of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. make sure that your daughter understands the importance of modesty in dressing It is quite unfortunate that a lot of girls dont understand the type of temptation they are getting themselves into when they dress in an unbecoming way revealing parts of their body which arouse false suggestions in boys' minds. Short skirts, dresses that reveal every curve, Tops that are too tight, sagging in boys, artificial breast/ pump sometimes inorder to attract men's attention.
A girl who resorts to them may cause great harm not only to boys but to herself. Many young girls with heavily make up and wears the most provocative styles in the name of fashion, cannot perceive that the reason why boys are solely interestedin them is only base on their physical attributes and not in her good moral or personality as a person.Her way of dressing advertises her to the world as one who seeks this kind of attention So that's why it's very important to teach her the basic fact she needs to know in order to avoid being raped
First, As a mother/ father, you have a personal duty to teach your own children about s*x. By God's command, you and you alone are the primary educators of your sons and daughters. The reason that sex education is primary / secondary duty is that you can give it better than anyone else. Not withstanding a poor tutor, you yourself think you are, only you know best needs of your children, their fears and their stage of development And how best to talk to them in the language they will understand.
Preparing your child for puberty. While it is usually not wise to wait until your child asks about sex before you volunteer information, you should take the initiative in preparing for puberty. At about the age of twelve, girls begin to menstruate. Unless they have been told what to expect, the first flow of blood may cause severe shock. You should make your daughter proud of these physical changes when they come, for she is taking an important step toward womanhood. Considerably before the first menstruation is expected, explain the exact significance of the process. She should know that God has planned her body so that blood is stored each month, ready to carry food to a baby if a new life should begin, and that the blood is discharged after a certain period if no baby has been conceived. Here, too, the emphasis should be on the Divine plan. It should be pointed out that God has forbidden the use of the organs to anyone who is not married.
know where she is, and know her friends and her activities. More unsupervised time with groups of peers and a member of the opposite sex is associated with sexual behavior. Do we really need studies to confirm that? Reduce your daughter’s opportunities for sexual encounters.
Secondly, Starting early with age-appropriate information about sex is a good idea Curiosity about s*x is a natural step from learning about the body. S*x education helps kids understand about the body and helps them feel positive about their own bodies. Young children are mostly interested in physiological conditions and babies, rather than the mechanics of s*x. In addition, Discussing s*x is also part of starting to open additional communication with your child. Early, honest, and open communication between parents and kids is extremely important, particularly when your kid becomes A teen. If their is free and open communication within the home, children are more likely to speak with parents about all the opposite trials of adolescence, such as depression, relationships, and the abuse of medicine and alcohol, as well as sexual issues. Beginning a conversation about sex early and continuing that conversation as the child grows is the best sex education strategy. It lets parents avoid giving one big, and likely uncomfortable talk when the child reaches adolescence (and will have already gotten information and misinformation from their friends). These conversations are easiest when they come out of a life experience, like seeing a pregnant woman or a baby. When parents talk with their children about sex, they can make sure that they are getting the right information. Parents should be a child’s first source of information about s*x. Understanding correct information can protect children from risky behaviour as they grow up. Instilling your family values Sex education also provides an opportunity to instill your family values in your kids. For example, if you come from a family that believes intercourse should be saved for marriage, this can be part of the discussions about sexuality. If the subject has never come up before, there is significant risk that your child, now a teenager, will not be receptive to this message. . If parents do not teach their children about sex, they will learn about it from somewhere else A child’s exposure to information about sex begins much earlier than many parents imagine basically at 8 to 10 years and should be taught based on the level of their understanding with no lies whatsoever.. Not speaking with children about sex means parents will have little control over what and how they learn about sex In their faculty, schoolyard, and in the media Such as Facebook etc.
Parents should not rely on the school system to teach sex education. Depending on where you live, sex education may not even be available. If your child is taught sex education at school, review it with your child. Ask them what they learned. What a child learns from friends and in the schoolyard will be incomplete and incorrect. It may also be demeaning or even dangerous. Although the media is full of sex and sexuality, it is mostly depicted in the most sensational and superficial sense. Realistic portrayals of relationships and sexuality are rare. More often, issues around sex and sexuality appear either without any context or without any emotional or relationship component. Moreover, the risks of sexual activity are often hyped beyond the point teens will believe. Sex education is safer than no sex education. Studies have shown that a lot of kids are exposed to sexual images in the media, the more likely it is they will engage in sexual excapades at a younger age. However, actual sex education does NOT lead to promiscuity. Children who receive sex education at home are actually less likely to engage in any unworthy sexual activities. So put off the tv and start the conversation with your kid. open communications with kids regarding sex and alternative matters is healthy and safer within the long haul, the earlier the better.This doesnt essentially mean it will be simple or without awkward moments. Teens are still very private people. However, speaking about sex early increases the chance that your child will approach you as his or her parent when tough or dangerous issues come up In their lives. thus get talking. Never regress nor shy away from your responsibility and be watchful of your kids. Good luck.
Re: Ways To Teach Your Kids S*x Education/ Things Parents Ought To Know by Nobody: 7:13am On Feb 17, 2015
Cool.....but I didn't read, so no comment.
Re: Ways To Teach Your Kids S*x Education/ Things Parents Ought To Know by DjAndroid: 7:13am On Feb 17, 2015
Bad formatting makes reading very boring.

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