Married to an only son, no mama no papa,no brother no friends only his siblings which he has been taking care of them since his

This is pathetic. Lemme analyze first.

I'm not meaning to add to your pain but what about you? What are you doing? Aren't you working or something?



Ps: Just keep praying the right way , believing and confessing what you believe and things are going to change i know that.

Madam,take heart. There is always a way out,just encourage your husband to remain positive. The solution starts from the mind and I believe you can be of help in this regard. It's just temporary I assure you.

Really disheartening...

God will surprise your family in a miraculous way. Things would get back to normal.

In the mean time, i will suggest you start doing some buying and selling to support your hubby. Not necessarily some big stuff. A little 10,000 can get you stuffs (like ladies sandals and slippers) on the Island and you can earn a living on that.

God bless!

What do u need a child for especially now?

The darker the night, the brighter the day. Great challenges come with great testimonies. The same way you are typing these challanges, it's the same way you will type your testimonies in no distant time. Be very courageous at this trying time. Don't give up. God is faithful. I have you guys in my prayers.

I know it seems like there is no hope. But my dear you can still do something. Try to develop a skill so that without much capital you can make some money. Your husband will get another job soon and this phase will just be a memory.

it's well dear God is ur straight

Transport business is nt one dat u put all ur eggs in,from experience it can mess up at anytime,especially with no other source of income for maintenance,it makes much money,but sucks it up d same way,let ur husband check out other forms of employment,browse ICS recruiting services at obanikoro,even a good driving bank job could help u put money together for a better bus,or better biz. U can also get a teaching job from schools around u who pay relatively well till d family Is balanced,teaching jobs are easier to find ur husband can teach sci ence subjects too in some good secondary schools till u can save to get on ur feet again

dear i really hav no advice to give u. but i jus wanno tell u that weepn may endure for a while but joy comes in d morning. and i tell ya....ur morning wil soon come.
hold fast unto God. he wil mmake a way in d wilderness n rivers in ur deserts. shalom! its well.

Madam wat ve u done to help d situation rather than lamenting. Life is lik dt ups n down. All these while if u r a hardworking creative woman u would ve gotten 30k frm him n started a small scale biz to help out

My first advice is dt living in 300k houz per annum is too high wen u dnt ve steady source of income. Move to a cheaper house below 100k per annum. I feel sorry for ur hubby he is a hussler but married a probably lazy wife

I pity your husband . all this while what were you doing ? what have you contribute? why didn't you go learn a trade or do a combination of any of this: baking and cooking, sewing and bead making hair dressing and make up and many many more to make do with ? that is why women should stop acting like the man should do everything . I'm sure there were times things were good with the bus why didn't u ask that u start a business ? not late with God keep praying and also act. move to a cheaper house.

is not funny at all...
God will be ur strenght!!!


My fellow nairalanders: this shud be a lesson to u all.
Never u marry a house wife or a gold digger!!!

If this young lady should be like some monkeys we have on the street and our various homes, she would ve been going out wit oda men inorder to buy cloths & cosmetics.
My advise to u is....Go & find something worth doing & my question is...are ur own parents nt alive? If yes, they shud help.
I could remember wen my 1st sis & her husband wit her 3kids were financially down, my nuclear family had 2 help.
Cry to God now or die trying!!!

Thanks to all for all the candid advice... I just graduated from school, while in school I do a weekend job(gunniess promo) and most of the money I earn I put it into the new building thinking we will finish it and pack in. I'm not lazy and not a gold digger I love my husband so much and I'm
working hard, praying hard too... ALL I NEED IS A CANDID ADVISE NOT INSULT AND ABUSES.

Thanks to all for all the candid advice... I just graduated from school, while in school I do a weekend job(gunniess promo) and most of the money I earn I put it into the new building thinking we will finish it and pack in. I'm not lazy and not a gold digger I love my husband so much and I'm
working hard, praying hard too... ALL I NEED IS A CANDID ADVISE NOT INSULT AND ABUSES....

amtheone:
The darker the night, the brighter the day. Great challenges come with great testimonies. The same way you are typing these challanges, it's the same way you will type your testimonies in no distant time. Be very courageous at this trying time. Don't give up. God is faithful. I have you guys in my prayers.

Thanks and God bless you...

Holywizard:
is not funny at all...
God will be ur strenght!!!


My fellow nairalanders: this shud be a lesson to u all.
Never u marry a house wife or a gold digger!!!

If this young lady should be like some monkeys we have on the street and our various homes, she would ve been going out wit oda men inorder to buy cloths & cosmetics.
My advise to u is....Go & find something worth doing & my question is...are ur own parents nt alive? If yes, they shud help.
I could remember wen my 1st sis & her husband wit her 3kids were financially down, my nuclear family had 2 help.
Cry to God now or die trying!!!

Thanks.. As for my parents they are much alive and hubby and siblings does not want me to tell them either... I'm looking for job here but the salary is too poor considering t.fare and feeding and all expensives, I opted for the job but dh disagreed.

misfab:
dear i really hav no advice to give u. but i jus wanno tell u that weepn may endure for a while but joy comes in d morning. and i tell ya....ur morning wil soon come.
hold fast unto God. he wil mmake a way in d wilderness n rivers in ur deserts. shalom! its well.

Thanks dear, God bless you

ibizgirl:
I know it seems like there is no hope. But my dear you can still do something. Try to develop a skill so that without much capital you can make some money. Your husband will get another job soon and this phase will just be a memory.

Amen...God bless

[quote author=ogawisdom post=30884177]Madam wat ve u done to help d situation rather than lamenting. Life is lik dt ups n down. All these while if u r a hardworking creative woman u would ve gotten 30k frm him n started a small scale biz to help out

My first advice is dt living in 300k houz per annum is too high wen u dnt ve steady source of income. Move to a cheaper house below 100k per annum. I feel sorry for ur hubby he is a hussler but married a probably lazy wife[/quote proof read my story a beg and dnt judge blindly... My hubby went from one room to two bedroom den was planing to leave the two bedroom to his own house but wahala come bust...

prettmum:

Thanks.. As for my parents they are much alive and hubby and siblings does not want me to tell them either... I'm looking for job here but the salary is too poor considering t.fare and feeding and all expensives, I opted for the job but dh disagreed.

God blesd u.

u must be in Owerri via ur Profile.

How i wish am already working i wud ve helped u just because of ur kids.
I ve an advise/questions 4 u but wud nt like 2 ask frm here....if u dnt mind; whatsapp me via 08063829559

Did u do anythin in the past that u think u need to pray to GOD for forgiveness, like abortion, or lied against somebody, or did ur husband involve himself with any bad thing in the past? U guys need to confess and pray fo GOD'S forgiveness.

lrguru:
Did u do anythin in the past that u think u need to pray to GOD for forgiveness, like abortion, or lied against somebody, or did ur husband involve himself with any bad thing in the past? U guys need to confess and pray fo GOD'S forgiveness.

No dear

prettmum:



No dear

good. Then keep prayin and keep encouragin ur hubby before he starts takin solace in liquor due to frustration. Times like this comes up at times but it takes only GOD to see one thru.

That 300k, u paid ur landlord, y not use it instead to complete ur house/ fix some parts(the downstairs like u said) and move in. Or if it won't be enough, it can arrange a 2bdroom BQ, Cos u are just wasting it. I swore I'd never live in anybodys house as a tenant or pay any rent to no man, and that was how I built my own house even though I'm just a little over 30, and by GOD'S grace, I hope to buy a bigger and better one this year, Amen.

Yes @iguru dats what we are doing now , I was the one that force him to set up two bedroom so we can park in ..... While doing that we are stuck up in the middle of the ocean. Thanks n God bless