duty to take responsibility for how we allow others
to treat us.
We need to be able to tell people when they act in
ways that are not acceptable to us; to either shape
up or you trash them. Yes, like dorty .
Setting boundaries is not about manipulation or
wanting to be a control freak. Mbanu! It is
impossible to have a healthy relationship with
someone who has no boundaries, someone who
cannot communicate directly and honestly. It’s like
playing football without a goal post on a pitch that
has no demarcation.
Learning to set boundaries is a necessary step in
learning to befriend ourselves first.
It is one's responsibility to take care of oneself,
and this is not possible if we don't first of all, own
ourselves.
Boundaries define limits; they make clear
separations between different turfs.
One of the most correct perceptions about the
CharlyBoy brand is that he won't take bullcrap from
anyone and he will speak his mind at all times on
matters/issues without fear or favour. After all, him
send anybody?
Going forward, we need to start becoming aware of
what healthy behavior and acceptable interaction
dynamics are, before we can start practicing them
ourselves and before we start demanding the
proper treatment from others, abi? We need to
start learning how to be emotionally honest with
ourselves, to start owning our feelings, and to
communicate in a direct and honest manner.
It is important to say our feelings out loud; by so
doing, we are affirming that we have a right to
feelings. Emotions do not define us, they are a form
of internal communication that help us to
understand ourselves and a vital part of our being,
as a component of the whole.
It is vital to own your own voice, to own your right
to speak up for yourself. There is no time to be
weak and not live. Find your own method to tell
people shut the Bleep up and they would.Shey you
dey hear?
Mark your boundaries, don't let people shit all over
you or use you as door mart.
Enough of the nonsense, people taking advantage
of people, fire burn dem.

@op
U be him gateman?

How come you take pics for day and night?