Pregnancy loss is a sad thing for a woman to go through. The hopes shattered, the pain, regret, blame, fear of tomorrow; they all make a woman who loses her pregnancy depressed, lonely, and feeling like a failure.
The thing is, though you are going through a difficult phase of life, you are not alone. This thread is an avenue for women who have gone through this to share experiences, make themselves stronger, try to find a closure on why it happened and how to avoid such happening again, and share the good news of a new precious pregnancy that has come to stay. May God dry our tears and grant us unending joy in our lives, Amen.

Great thread and an oasis in critical time.

Losing pregnancy is not an easy experience to bear alone.

Sometimes we all need someone to lean on in difficult time.

absoluteSuccess:
Great thread and an oasis in critical time.

Losing pregnancy is not an easy experience to bear alone.

Sometimes we all need someone to lean on in difficult time.

Thank you absoluteSuccess.
I lost a sixteen week pregnancy last month, and it hasn't been easy. You start asking yourself, "did this actually happen to me?" Many people around you would give you all sorts of advice, sympathise with you, tell you it could have been worse than this; they are right most of the time, but it doesn't make it less difficult to think about. One needs to go through the grief, then stand up taller and stronger to try again. God has given us many things to be grateful for, and going through a pregnancy loss also makes you appreciate more the gift of life; the wonderful gift of being able to get pregnant, carry it to term, give birth to a beautiful, healthy live baby, and being alive to be joyful for this.

Hallie27:

Thank you absoluteSuccess.
I lost a sixteen week pregnancy last month, and it hasn't been easy. You start asking yourself, "did this actually happen to me?" Many people around you would give you all sorts of advice, sympathise with you, tell you it could have been worse than this; they are right most of the time, but it doesn't make it less difficult to think about. One needs to go through the grief, then stand up taller and stronger to try again. God has given us many things to be grateful for, and going through a pregnancy loss also makes you appreciate more the gift of life; the wonderful gift of being able to get pregnant, carry it to term, give birth to a beautiful, healthy live baby, and being alive to be joyful for this.

I'm so sorry for your loss sister,

But keep hope alive, we can't always have it our ways cos God knows better. A lot were even praying they have pregnancy and it terminate along the line just to have something close to motherhood, the joy of conception was denied them, not by their own making but only God knows.

well I have learn to live in the joy of what I have found and not in the sorrow of what I've lost. Time is the ultimate healer, and God will return to favour you many times over. Be happy for your life sister, all is for the best about to come.

I am feeling so so right now.just had a d n C today cos my 2+ months preg was anembryonic.I have hope that in a few months i will conceive again cos God will remember me.

aghaibiam:
I am feeling so so right now.just had a d n C today cos my 2+ months preg was anembryonic.I have hope that in a few months i will conceive again cos God will remember me.

So sorry for your loss aghaibiam. God will surely remember you soon. Ensure you ask the doctor about any questions pertaining to this that might be troubling you, use your drugs well, and keep on praying. It is said that a woman is more fertile few weeks after a miscarriage. Keep the hope up dear, God will bless you beyond your expectations.

Its been a year and two months since I lost my pregnancy and no pregnancy yet. Though, it could be quite depressing, I'm hopeful that Almighty God will do it soon. AbsoluteSuccess and Aghaibiam, how are you doing?