Love is a story people tell at times, yet it's imperfections is claimed to be perfect. Makes me hate love stories...

A broke guy asks a girl out and she refuses, only to accept him when he got rich so full of wealth- asking her, she claimed it was love whereas the guy thinks she's a LovePeddler who hops from bed to bed for money...
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How do people really work that thing 'Love' out at times? I know feelings come and go, what then remains?... For example, I know a guy who begged heavens to help him get one fine lady, who later became his wife. Not long in their marriage. he has learnt how to repair her face with punches after each argument...

Feelings- that thing that stirs up in you when you see someone you fancy for a particular thing... But how it pushes you to marry one person out of the millions in the world, I really don't kow how that works and I am not interested yet until I am licensed to cross that bridge.

My concern is- why the hate in a marriage built on a foundation of love??
Why do people get bored with their partner??
What changed? Who changed?? What caused the asunder? WHY and how did it happen?? How can it be avoided

Some wives make their husbands a topic of discussion with their friends and some husbands return the favour by killing their wives name in public especially in the bar ?? Why??
What makes divorce inevitable?? Is there no time that the boundary of marriage is crossed for one to religiously and peacefully quit without eternal consequence(s)??

A man is polygamous in nature and of cousrse nature has always sided men despite these women right issues prevailing... So what happens to the woman?? I bet she has 'Slut' attached to her name if she dares... Not supporting any though...

Ahem! Why is so much priority attached to sex that it can make people kill each other? break families! destroy relationships! I am actually talking about it's side effect or the negative aspect ...

I have been disturbed about this because everything about all this nonsense stems from the interaction between a man's centre and that of a woman. It's a big topic all over the world and people go crazy about it like it's the most important aspect of humanity! And to that I put up this question, what are we ( humans) here for?? Setting procreation aside (in the aspect of giving birth to fellow humans)!
Why is sex getting all that attention?
Who is a virgin here?? And you'll see all eyes rolling...
I think the more emphasis we put on it, the more people , the young( am not left out) especially are pushed to know it's fullness...

For example I went to collect keys from a friend and I waited as he was inside the hall being used for a programme, I was outside while the programme was going on, and the preacher made an altar call to all virgins in the house and asked them to come out! He said, if you have masturbated, you are not included and then he said God will bless the vrgins for keepng their virginity and said a lot of things, and made special prayers for them...

I wondered if God's going to purnish the rest... I wondered if God asked him to give special prayers to those who have not, or yet to or will later! What I observed was that all eyes were opened even while he- the preacher ordered that everyone should shut the doors to their eyes, lol... They were trying to see who was and who was not qualified for the blessing...

Don't get me wrong here, am still on the path dealing with the too much important placed on it that people forget about other important things about life... For example, someone can preach hell into the life of anther who fornicated while he- the preacher is an unrepentant liar...

Feelings come and go- you find out what remains especially when things grow cold. Only pray that your memorable past be not better than your present, but if in reality it is, fix it if you can, if you can't keep trying, you might get lucky...

Also, sex is not the most important part of the human life, keeping the mind busy can keep the young mind away from it and it's consequences. Idleness begets a lot of idle thing of which sex , pornography and other things like it are part of... Like it or not, it is always a topic, just get bsy and you'd think less of it.

Finally, I have come to understand that I really hate love stories , but no matter how resentful I am about it, I know I'd be glad not only to hear one true one, but to experience one that has a 'happily ever afer' ending.
Lest I forget, I am a product of one good one and am still telling my mama's story... Family pet ni, isn't that love lol,,, crazy me I know.

‪#‎Am‬ being honest

Much ado about nothing - William Shakespeare!

Beautiful piece.... I am a virgin tho:>