Gideon Banks wrote;

“Because it is in their DNA ” is one of the responses I got when I decided to post the question on Facebook. It may interest you to know that this shocking response was from a lady. There were other mind-boggling responses that got me wondering what informs our
perspective on the subject.

Women cheat as well. Yes, they do… with men. I’m not a woman and I don’t know why women cheat, but I have a feeling I might go crazy if I try to probe into that. So I’d just skip.

I have been asked by several ladies, “which of these three are you into; drinking, smoking or women?” If you dare pull a stunt and say something like “Oh no, I don’t do all that”, they
will instantly get animated and come up with sh!t like “Oh c’mon! Who are you trying to deceive? Are you not a man?” “We sabi as e dey go na”
I’m not a psychologist, but I’m a man. I’m not married, but I’ve been in relationships. To satisfy your curiously, yes, I have cheated on my
woman in the past. I know it is wrong and irresponsible and I’m not proud of it. But that is a topic for another day.
Below, I have attempted to answer the ancient question. Everybody does it. Unlike women,
men are not shy about sharing their extra-marital escapades with friends and partners in crime. They have a lot of fun gisting about that other girl
from last night. As a matter of fact, they flaunt it. Adding each new conquest as another feather to their jerky hats. If anyone of them present in the meeting has never cheated, temptation to do so increases by 90% (no statistical reference). He will just sit making up immoral plans that will
eventually hatch.
1. Love for stolen meats: That’s by far the most popular reason. Another interesting response I got on my Facebook wall is “Okay let’s just say
girls are like fruits in there variants, strawberries, bananas, oranges, cherries etc. and guys love
fruit salad” Others will claim, “men are hunters” and “women love to be chased”, so it’s like a game with thrilling adventures for all players.
Stolen meats are sweet.
2. To prove a point: As wack as this sounds, men cheat to prove a point. “Yes, I can”, “I am smart enough to cheat and not get caught”, or to simply
convince himself that he is a man too, after all. The simple logic will be; ‘All men cheat’, Mr. Dick is a man, Mr. Dick cheats!
3. Lack of good examples: A boy who grows up watching his father cheat on his mother will likely cheat. After all, dad cheats on mom and they are still married after 40 years. Cheating will in fact seem to him as a recipe for a ‘happy married life’.
4. Most women expect them to: That is the only logical explanation for a married woman who packs her husband’s bag for a trip and
conveniently adds condoms like it’s socks or boxers. After all, cheating is “in their DNA”. Come to think of it, no gentleman wants to disappoint his woman.
5. Some women want them to: A doctor friend of mine told me how that to his surprise, a married couple walked into the hospital to see him because the wife feared she might be pregnant.
The pretty young mother claimed the last two pregnancies almost claimed her life and wouldn’t want to go through such again, ever. “I even
brought a pretty girl home for him to have sex with any time he wants”, pointing to the husband who sat next to her smiling freakishly, “But no, he
won’t just let me be”. No, that isn’t a movie, but a real life story. I’m not even sure that could be classed as cheating.
6. The society lets them: Over 2000 years ago, two people were caught making out in Israel, and the woman was brought to Jesus to judge. Do you remember that story? One will wonder
where the man was. It takes two to f**k! Imagine how the story would have gone if it was Hilary who cheated on Bill Clinton. Now bring that home to Africa. Youp! your guess is as good as mine.

Other flimsy reasons will include, ending a relationship, because he was seduced, he doesn’t trust her and probably a billion other reasons.
Truth is, none of the reasons stated above is good enough for infidelity. Men and women face tempting situations that will compel them to
cheat at some point in their lives. Choosing to cheat is ultimately a personal decision. Whatever happened to discipline and self-control? The only valid reason why men cheat is because they choose to;
Here is a quick question for men; if you knew she was an HIV patient, will you go ahead and still cheat on your partner with her? If the answer is
“No”, then you can stop cheating. Simples

Thunder fire Gideon

Tallesty1:
Thunder fire Gideon

Amen!

Op, you wan kill percin, wetin? That write-up is unreadable

Lolz! Are U guys serious?

This trend has been frm time immemorial, from the time of Abraham, Jacob, David...(Op hope U have nt forgotten the story Of David and Bathsheba. Well if u have, go and read the book of Kings lol.) So u see we the descendants are carrying on that LEGACY

Waiting for the next female to ask this question.

Because sex feels so fvcking good!

Who do the guys cheat with?

Females from space?

From the time a man is born his dick gives him pleasurable sensations. He spends the first decade of his life feeling slight pleasure between his legs but not enough to cause too much commotion.

Suddenly at the age of 15(12 for some, 10 for borntofuck) his hormones skyrocket. His dick starts to grow to the adult size he will be proud/ashamed of for the rest of his life. He starts experiencing spontaneous erections- on wearing tight pants, walking to school, riding in a bus, talking to a girl, ugly or pretty. Each of this episodes is filled with extreme pleasure between the legs and an almost irresistible urge to have sex. For the first time in his life he has wet dreams which are dreams in which he sees himself having sex with women (even if he is still a virgin). His mind is screaming SEX every 15seconds (youth now magazine). His response depends on his moral upbringing. If he is a highly moral person he falls back to his religion. He becomes filled with guilt and remorse. He becomes more prayerful and tries to bind and cast the powers that be. He learns to suppress these urges, learns to divert his mind to other things.


If he has no moral compass whatsoever he becomes adventurous. He stares at his female classmate's brea.stss. They are a source of constant wonder to him and each time he stares a shot of pleasure goes down his legs. Same goes from when he catches a glimpse of their panties. He becomes obsessed with the female form and starts to draw it on toilet walls and under his bed and behind his notebook. The day he discovers his dick is supposed to enter a female vagina is an episode that alters the course of his life forever. Just thinking about an attractive woman can make a man hard and eventually orgasm.

Finally when he has his first sexual encounter his fate is sealed. The sex is so euphoric, so druglike, the feeling so GOOD, that he yearns for more with each passing day. And no woman is exactly the same (forget what all these relationship magazines try to tell you... No two vaginas are ever the same), no brea.stss tastes or feels exactly the same, no kiss is exactly the same. The world of sex is finally opened and it's a very very very heavy door to close.

. And you think some mushy romantic words on a contract are enough to keep him faithful to you?

5minsmadness:
From the time a man is born his dick gives him pleasurable sensations. He spends the first decade of his life feeling slight pleasure between his legs but not enough to cause too much commotion.

Suddenly at the age of 15(12 for some, 10 for borntofuck) his hormones skyrocket. His dick starts to grow to the adult size he will be proud/ashamed of for the rest of his life. He starts experiencing spontaneous erections- on wearing tight pants, walking to school, riding in a bus, talking to a girl, ugly or pretty. Each of this episodes is filled with extreme pleasure between the legs and an almost irresistible urge to have sex. For the first time in his life he has wet dreams which are dreams in which he sees himself having sex with women (even if he is still a virgin). His mind is screaming SEX every 15seconds (youth now magazine). His response depends on his moral upbringing. If he is a highly moral person he falls back to his religion. He becomes filled with guilt and remorse. He becomes more prayerful and tries to bind and cast the powers that be. He learns to suppress these urges, learns to divert his mind to other things.


If he has no moral compass whatsoever he becomes adventurous. He stares at his female classmate's brea.stss. They are a source of constant wonder to him and each time he stares a shot of pleasure goes down his legs. Same goes from when he catches a glimpse of their panties. He becomes obsessed with the female form and starts to draw it on toilet walls and under his bed and behind his notebook. The day he discovers his dick is supposed to enter a female vagina is an episode that alters the course of his life forever. Just thinking about an attractive woman can make a man hard and eventually orgasm.

Finally when he has his first sexual encounter his fate is sealed. The sex is so euphoric, so druglike, the feeling so GOOD, that he yearns for more with each passing day. And no woman is exactly the same (forget what all these relationship magazines try to tell you... No two vaginas are ever the same), no brea.stss tastes or feels exactly the same, no kiss is exactly the same. The world of sex is finally opened and it's a very very very heavy door to close.

. And you think some mushy romantic words on a contract are enough to keep him faithful to you?

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeez........ By d way. Na by force say person must marry? To avoid all these nuisances!

cococandy:
Who do the guys cheat with?

Females from space?

I can't cheat

cococandy:
Who do the guys cheat with?

Females from space?

Ask them o.

cococandy:
Who do the guys cheat with?

Females from space?

Don't mind them

The guys cheat with their "O" shaped left hand smeared with any friction remover/reducer fluid.

Cheating isn't the exclusive preserve of men. Women do it too.

A more appropriate title for this thread would have been: Why do people cheat?

cococandy:
Who do the guys cheat with?

Females from space?

Nne, I love this. So much. And if not for one thing ehn, I for say I love you join. But don't worry, next time.

Omalicha making some valid and honest points since 19...when were you born sef?

Oh, men cheat? Wow!

Just know this. It's a simple logic:
Whenever a man cheats, a woman (most probably) cheats too. If a man in a relationship/marriage cheats, he cheats with another woman who is most probably (not always the case, hence, "probably" ) in a relationship/marriage too.

It would be fair enough to say, "People cheat", and not this annoying and unnecessarily customary "Men cheat".

Dear ladies, the very moment you stop blaming the men over every damn thing that happens (to you - even your nature-given monthly menstrual periods), you'd start finding answers to your numerous problems. Enough of this stupid "blame the (other) man" mentality. It's stale already.

EfemenaXY:
Cheating isn't the exclusive preserve of men. Women do it too.

A more appropriate title for this thread would have been: Why do people cheat?

gbam.take 5 jare

Gbam

JoeCutie:
Oh, men cheat? Wow!

Just know this. It's a simple logic:
Whenever a man cheats, a woman (most probably) cheats too. If a man in a relationship/marriage cheats, he cheats with another woman who is most probably (not always the case, hence, "probably" ) in a relationship/marriage too.

It would be fair enough to say, "People cheat", and not this annoying and unnecessarily customary "Men cheat".

Dear ladies, the very moment you stop blaming the men over every damn thing that happens (to you - even your nature-given monthly menstrual periods), you'd start finding answers to your numerous problems. Enough of this stupid "blame the (other) man" mentality. It's stale already.

JoeCutie:
Nne, I love this. So much. And if not for one thing ehn, I for say I love you join. But don't worry, next time.

Omalicha making some valid and honest points since 19...where were you born sef?

Mr man you better carry your John Thomas go next bustop because I am happy to announce to you that she is HAPPILY MARRIED. If you are looking for who to cheat with, mgbeketoto is there



next

SAMBARRY:
Mr man you better carry your John Thomas go next bustop because I am happy to announce to you that she is HAPPILY MARRIED. If you are looking for who to cheat with, mgbeketoto is there



next

Hehehe. Bros how far you na?

I never even talk the "love" sef you don dey take paracetamol on top person headache. If I come finally talk am nko? Lekwanu m anya oh.

Btw, who's Mgbeketoto?

JoeCutie:
Hehehe. Bros how far you na?

I never even talk the "love" sef you don dey take paracetamol on top person headache. If I come finally talk am nko? Lekwanu m anya oh.

Btw, who's Mgbeketoto?

no even talk the loff finish because I already know where you are going meanwhile I have to drink panadol for her headache because she's my friend and I don't want all this small small Jim iyke looking boys near am and thirdly if you don't know mgbeketoto you don't know anybody. How can you be on nl and you don't know mgbeketoto


she's magret Thatcher of nl and oko awon nl guys

JoeCutie:
Oh, men cheat? Wow!

Just know this. It's a simple logic:
Whenever a man cheats, a woman (most probably) cheats too. If a man in a relationship/marriage cheats, he cheats with another woman who is most probably (not always the case, hence, "probably" ) in a relationship/marriage too.

It would be fair enough to say, "People cheat", and not this annoying and unnecessarily customary "Men cheat".

Dear ladies, the very moment you stop blaming the men over every damn thing that happens (to you - even your nature-given monthly menstrual periods), you'd start finding answers to your numerous problems. Enough of this stupid "blame the (other) man" mentality. It's stale already.

Spoken like a boss. Absolutely spot on.

SAMBARRY:
no even talk the loff finish because I already know where you are going meanwhile I have to drink panadol for her headache because she's my friend and I don't want all this small small Jim iyke looking boys near am and thirdly if you don't know mgbeketoto you don't know anybody. How can you be on nl and you don't know mgbeketoto


she's magret Thatcher of nl and oko awon nl guys

LMAO!
Now I see where you're coming from. I already see where you're going too, but I must advice you; take another route, there's no road there. There's traffic.

And umm... Are you a he or a she? Very important.

Please, this Margret Thatcher you speak of, is her moniker "Mgbeketoto"?

MissMakas:
Spoken like a boss. Absolutely spot on.

Thanks, ma'am.

JoeCutie:
LMAO!
Now I see where you're coming from. I already see where you're going too, but I must advice you; take another route, there's no road there. There's traffic.

And umm... Are you a he or a she? Very important.

Please, this Margret Thatcher you speak of, is her moniker "Mgbeketoto"?

any route wey I like na im I go follow and NOBAAAAAAARRRYYYY can do ANYTHING ABOUT it. As for my gender, I'm a man
and of course mgbeketoto is her Monica on nl .

SAMBARRY:
any route wey I like na im I go follow and NOBAAAAAAARRRYYYY can do ANYTHING ABOUT it. As for my gender, I'm a man
and of course mgbeketoto is her Monica on nl .

First off, lemme tell you something: SAMBAAARRRYYY can do something about it - me.

Secondly, you're a 'she'.

"Long-term-commitment-phobic" ??

People fall in love and cheat when they fall out of love ??

I honestly don't know why??

SAMBARRY:
no even talk the loff finish because I already know where you are going meanwhile I have to drink panadol for her headache because she's my friend and I don't want all this small small Jim iyke looking boys near am and thirdly if you don't know mgbeketoto you don't know anybody. How can you be on nl and you don't know mgbeketoto


she's magret Thatcher of nl and oko awon nl guys

Dead

Sambarry what's wrong with you?

^^ that time of the month!

yaskarahyelhope:


Jeeeeeeeeeeeeez........ By d way. Na by force say person must marry? To avoid all these nuisances!

You fit turn lesbian

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cococandy:


Dead

Sambarry what's wrong with you?

wake up o.no doe.nothing do you