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It’s hard enough trying to move on from a man without the man in question refusing to move on and let you be.

You’re trying to start ‘once upon a time’ with a really good guy but your ex won’t let you. He keeps popping up at events, the movies, on your TV screen and it is really hard to avoid the memories.

It is really easy to sit in your homes and judge me and share your 2 cents on what you think I should do but then have you really been in this position? Have you had to detach yourself from someone you thought was going to be the father to your kids, someone you grew with, someone who was your first, someone who you actually ‘almost’ had a kid with? After you find out 6 years later that he is not all you thought he was.

Have you ever been with someone that pretends to love you for that long? Someone that made you so weak and ruined your self-esteem. Then God shines his light on you and sends you an angel like He sent me Jide Babatedo. Your pot of love is perfect, but the sour aftertaste of the past won’t leave. He keeps coming back… what do you do?

I am sitting in my car, parked outside Lulu’s gate.

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