My past relationships failed largely as a result of the fact that I was not willing to have sex. Yes, I know what you are thinking. But are relationships all about sex? Personally I have said 'no sex' till I'm married ; but it seems most of the ladies I've met are having a different idea. Can't one get a lady who will love him for whom he is and what he stands for and be ready to wait for that D- day when she can have him? Please I need answers.

I thinks this all depends on the types of girls you date some girls believe that the physical aspect of a realtionship is very essential while others are willing to wait till after the marriage.
Maybe you should make your views known to the girl quite early into the relationship, this way she is aware of what to expect and in your case what not to expect

well, u can't blame em too at times, no gurl wants to get married and then find out that her hubby can't perform.

@ busta:you think the fear not being able to perform in marriage is enough reason for most ladies to think that unless they sleep with the guy that he will not be able to perform? Is 'no sex' enough reason for a lady to sever a relationship?

definately gotta be one of the reason, cos for me, I sure wanna try the deal to see how my guy dey perform b4 i become stuck for lyfe.

anotha reason could be that the gurls ain't got control and the thingy dey itch them for some action.

Busta:



anotha reason could be that the girls ain't got control and the thingy dey itch them for some action.

My gosh! where did you appear from? i admire your stand (congrats a million times). Personally, i have the same problem and it bugs the shit out of me.  I would stay with my man even if he can't perform cause I'd marry someone i love unconditionally and would have to deal with it. Sex is a beautiful act but let's not be confused. It's inviting and enticing for the main propose of reproduction. You wait sweetie i am sure there is a girl who will appreciate the fact that you waited just for them and didn't go with every Janey, sally and Lucy.

p.s. Dvampire? what and who you sucking? think about a name change ok? laterz

Congrat guy!

i got so interested in ur TOPIC

Must u have a gurl frnd self!

Every guy i meet wants SeX all i tell 'em is BUzz OFF i'm on ma own naw

Everyday i Pray to God To give Me a MAN dat wnt Ask 4 SEX

just stay on ur own period

@ poster, ;Di cant understand y u are so tensed, unwind and have sex, i mean fun