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Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by Nobody: 2:52pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
For those who have both is d love really the same. The love I have for my kids I can't imagine having such measure for other kids even nephews and nieces, yet I love them too. So when a couple adopts and then later have theirs, are they capable of showing equal love?.If so, I respect them. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by Nobody: 3:01pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
its allowed |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by Nobody: 3:07pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
It's more easier when there is no biological child after the adoption but seems we have not fully come to term with this issue in Africa even as some family members may see that child as not a full member/being part of the family. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by slimyem: 3:27pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Some parents even love their biological children differently not to mention an adopted child. You can't deduct the human factor. I do believe it is possible though to love an adopted child as you would your biological but I also believe the important thing is LOVING the child at all . |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by Nobody: 3:52pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
So I'm not mean by saying I find it difficult to love both the same way. Good to know. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by zed7: 3:53pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Its almost impossible. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by ireneidiva(f): 5:31pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
It is very possible. Children are children. Families are not always biological. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by Dyt(f): 6:00pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Only when u see them as ur own Are the adopted ones not born of a woman? God bless my soul To me every child deserves same love From experience, love my nieces n nephews and I even get the mummy 1 title |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by zed7: 6:02pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
From what the op is saying, can you love equally not can u love at all. Dyt: |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by Dyt(f): 6:15pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
zed7: Am sure it explains it all Very well |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by Nobody: 6:23pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Eeerrrmmmm,, I don't think it's possible. You'll love the child, yes! but not like you'll love your biological child. There's this thing attached to knowing "this child is the fruit of my loins". 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by aderonila18: 6:25pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
For me, absolutely. The minute a child becomes mine either through adoption or birth he/she is mine. I would love the child just as much, Infact the only thing I'll have to watch is that I don't over compensate for the struggles the adopted child may have had earlier by over pampering the child as opposed to my biological ones. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love An Adopted Child Like A Biological One by Nobody: 6:37pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Yes. I have seen a situation where a gal I usually refer to as the first born of one couple is actually a house help. So if one can treat a house help like her child, how much more ur adopted child. And yes,some house helps are treated like biological children. |
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