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Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by personal59: 9:07pm On Mar 22, 2015


By Aisha Stacey / 6 May 2013

Islam is a complete way of life, each and every aspect is designed by our Creator to advance happy, healthy communities and ease the path to eternal bliss in Paradise. In today’s society modesty is seen as a sign of weakness or insecurity. This is not the case in Islam, where modesty is seen as a sign of respect for oneself and others.

The haya that every human being is born with is seen as something to be treasured. To this end Islam has a dress code for both women and men. Its purpose is to protect the society as a whole and promote modest dressing and behaviour. It creates a barrier between the sexes and allows us to conduct our lives with modesty, dignity and respect.

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “Faith consists of more than sixty branches (i.e. parts). And haya is a part of faith.”

Islam holds women in very high esteem and the Islamic rules of covering are intended to protect and guard her dignity and honour. The word used most often in regard to covering is hijab. All qualified Muslim scholars throughout the history of Islam agree that fulfilling the conditions of the dress code is an obligation on all Muslim men and women. They have based these conditions on evidence found in the Quran and the Sunnah. Below are the most well known verses of the Quran and the most well known saying from the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) concerning the subject of hijab.

“O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies. That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed.”(Quran 33:59)

Say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and protect their private parts (from sins); and they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what appear thereof...(Quran 24:31).

When a girl reaches the menstrual age, it is not proper that anything should remain exposed except this and this. He pointed to the face and hands.[Abu Dawud]

Women’s Hijab

The purpose of hijab is to cover the awrah and awrah varies in different situations and amongst different groups of people.

We begin with the conditions of hijab for a woman in public and amongst non-mahram men.  As long as these conditions are fulfilled a woman may wear whatever she pleases.

1. The hijab (covering) must conceal the entire body except the face and the hands.

2. It should not be translucent or tight. Tight clothes, even if they conceal the colour of the skin, still describe the size and shape of the body or part of it, and create vivid images.

3. It should not attract the attention of the opposite gender; thus it should not be extravagant or excessively opulent. Nor should jewellery and makeup be on display.

4. It should not be a garment worn because of vanity or to gain popularity or fame.  The female companions were known to wear black and other dark colours but other colours are permissible; a woman must not however wear colourful clothes because of vanity.

5.  It should not be perfumed. This prohibition applies to both the body and the clothes.

6.  It should not resemble the clothing worn by men.

7.  It should not resemble the clothing that is specific to the non-Muslims.

Men’s Dress code

Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and protect their private parts (from sins). That is purer for them. And Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.(Quran 24:30)

Although they are sometimes overlooked or not well understood there are conditions of dress code for men as well. Some of the conditions are the same as the conditions for woman but others relate particularly to men.

1. The part of the body from the naval to the knees should be covered.

2. It should not resemble the clothing that is specific to the non-Muslims. Western clothing that does not represent a certain group or sect is normally permitted.

3. It should not resemble the clothing worn by women.

4. It should not be tight or see-through.

5. A man is not permitted to wear garments made of silk, or jewellery made of gold.

6. Two types of adornment are forbidden to men but permitted for women. These are, gold and clothing made of pure silk.

The scholars of Islam overwhelmingly agree that for men everything between the navel and the knees (including the knees) must be covered in the presence of anybody. The only exception to this is a man in the presence of his wife.

Finally, it is recommended for men not to wear garments that fall below the ankles.

Awrah

The definition of awrah is the parts of the body that should be covered and this does vary in different situations among different groups of people.  However, to fully implement the Islamic dress code it is important to understand a number of other situations in which awrah becomes important.

The awrah of a woman in front of her husband:

There is no awrah between a husband and wife.  When a woman is alone with her husband she is permitted to wear any clothing that pleases them both.

And among His Signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. (Quran 30:21)

The awrah of a woman in front of her mahrams:

Who is my mahram ?  For ease of writing and understanding we outline mahram’s for a woman; however the mahram relationships are the same whether the person in question is female or male. (Father/mother; son/daughter etc)

A mahram is a person one is never permitted to marry, because of a close blood relationship, breastfeeding or marriage. One’s spouse is also one’s mahram. A mahram is a person one is allowed to be alone with.

· A close blood relationship: For a female, her father, grandfather, son, grandson, brother, both paternal and maternal uncles and nephews. Likewise for a male, his mother, daughter, granddaughter, sister, both paternal and maternal aunties and nieces.

· Breastfeeding: This includes anyone, male or female breastfed by the same mother or wet nurse. (and includes the brother or husband of  the one who breast fed the person in question)

·Marriage: People who become your relations by marriage for example father-in-law, mother-in-law, stepfather, step-grandfather, stepson.

When a woman is amongst her mahrams, the scholars of Islam  agree that a woman does not have to observe strict rules of covering but rather that she is able to uncover her hair, face, arms, hands, legs from below the knee, and feet. However, a Muslim woman must always remember that she is known for her modesty and haya, therefore she must never make a wanton display of herself.

And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent and to draw their veils and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband’s fathers, their sons, their husband’s sons, their brothers or their brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons, or their women, or the (female) slaves whom their right hands possess, or old male servants who lack vigour, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women…(Quran 24:31)

The awrah of a woman in front of other (Muslim) women:

A woman should dress decently in front of other Muslim women; she can uncover what she would usually uncover, her hair, arms, feet. As for other parts of her body, such as her thighs, and breast area, they should not be uncovered.

Although she is allowed to wear beautiful and flattering clothes and make up, she must take great care to behave and dress in a manner that befits her station and does not offend the haya of other women.

If a Muslim woman finds herself in a situation where there are other women who are known to be morally bad, then she must dress accordingly and must follow the same rules of awrah that apply when in public. (The rules we learned as the conditions of hijab.)

The awrah of a woman in front of non-Muslim women:

This is a matter of some disagreement between scholars. Some say that the same rules apply as for Muslim women, however others say that a woman must observe stricter rules for covering amongst non-Muslim women.

When a woman is deciding on what level of covering to observe in front of non Muslim women she must remember that non-Muslim women may be unaware that she should not describe a Muslim woman’s beauty to any man.

Thus it is important that she makes her decisions based on each different situation. Muslim women should always dress in clothes that above all else express her modesty and dignity.  If there are unknown women in a gathering perhaps it would be better to have a higher degree of covering. 

The awrah of a woman in front of her children:

If the child is an infant or unable to understand the meaning of awrah and sexuality then it is permissible for her to uncover herself to the same degree as with other Muslim women.  If however the child is a male and comes to an age where he understands the meaning of awrah and the difference between men and women then the women’s awrah is the same as it is for other male mahrams.

All Muslims, male or female, should maintain a sense of haya (modesty) at all times because haya is part of faith. A person’s clothing is usually one of the indicators of their modesty.

The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “Faith consists of more than sixty branches (i.e. parts). And haya is a part of faith.” [Saheeh Al-Bukhari]

The Awrah Whilst Praying

In the first two lessons we learned a lot of new terms and tried to assimilate a lot of new information. We now shift the focus to what to wear when praying. Praying is something that every Muslim does at least five times per day. It is more than a few moments of quiet contemplation - it is a time when an individual is connected to the Creator of the Universe – Allah.  For this pleasure it makes sense to want to look and feel our best.

When the time comes for a woman to pray, one of the conditions that must be fulfilled in order for her prayer to be valid is that she covers her awrah.

“...Take your adornment (by wearing your clean clothes) while praying...”(Quran 7:31)

The Prophet said, ‘Allah does not accept the prayer of a woman who has reached puberty unless she wears a veil’.

The awrah of a woman when she prays is the same as for non-mahram men. (Please refer to the above table). However it is perfectly acceptable for a woman to wear a long loose fitting garment over her indoor clothes, presuming she is praying in the privacy of her home.  If she is praying in the masjid, of course she will be wearing clothes that are acceptable in front of strangers.

In order for a man’s prayer to be valid he too must cover his awrah, which is from the navel to the knees. However because Islam is a religion that is very concerned with community cohesion and respect for others, a man must always be aware of where he is. In accordance to the spirit of haya it is always advisable for a Muslim (man or woman) to be cautious about those things that could affect either him or those around him.

It is desirable for a man to wear perfume when he is standing in front of his Lord for prayer. Women must be careful of this point. While it is allowable, even desirable for her to wear perfume in the home it is not acceptable for either her skin or her clothing to be perfumed if she wants to pray in the masjid.

“If any one of you (women) attends evening prayer, let her not touch any perfume.”[ Saheeh Muslim]

The Wisdom in the Islamic Dress Code

There is great wisdom in the Islamic dress code. In order to see and understand it clearly one must remember a few basic concepts. First and foremost, that Islam was revealed for all people in all places, at all times. Thus what is in or out of fashion is not relevant. Secondly, Islam is a holistic religion concerned with humankind’s physical, spiritual and emotional health, and not just for each individual but for the community or society as a whole. This involves respect; for Allah, for each other and for oneself.

Thirdly, a dress code is required for both men and women, Islam does not put the responsibility entirely on one gender, and in fact the verses referring to men were revealed first. However both men and women are commanded to lower their gaze and protect their modesty; and both men and women are expected to create a healthy social environment with constructive morals, manners and values.

The term hijab, is more than a scarf and more than a dress code.  It is a term that denotes modest dressing and modest behaviour.  For instance, if a Muslim woman was correctly covered but at the same time using bad language, she would not be fulfilling the requirements of hijab. If a Muslim man was covered from the navel to the knee but walking around in public calling attention to himself or behaving rudely he would also not be behaving in an appropriate manner.

Women who wear hijab point out many benefits to be gained from adhering to the Islamic dress code. Some describe wearing hijab as being “set free” from society’s unrealistic expectations. They are no longer thought of as sexual objects, but are desired for their intellect. They are no longer valued for their looks or body shape but for their personality and character. Women wearing hijab report that it minimises sexual harassment in the workplace.

Many women report that people (both Muslims and non Muslims) are more inclined to show good manners towards a woman in a scarf. Men open doors, give up seats on public transport, apologise for bad language, and offer to carry groceries and many other small kindnesses that were once a normal part of life in most western communities.


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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by maclatunji: 9:44am On Mar 23, 2015
JazakumLlahu Khayra.
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by personal59: 3:52pm On Mar 23, 2015
maclatunji:
JazakumLlahu Khayra.
Wa Antum fa Jazakumullahu khayran

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by umarc19: 3:02pm On Mar 27, 2015
Proudly Muslim.
Alhamdulillah bi Ni'matul Islaam.

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Qyubee(m): 3:04pm On Mar 27, 2015
nice Jazakumuallahukhairan
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Nazeeboy(m): 3:04pm On Mar 27, 2015
Thanks OP.
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Chiefia(m): 3:06pm On Mar 27, 2015
undecided Guilty of no5(codes for men).... Alhamdulillah all the way... #juma'at mubarak
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by jamillion: 3:09pm On Mar 27, 2015
Good one!
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Nobody: 3:11pm On Mar 27, 2015
May Allah bless us with the understanding of his words and give us the strenght and belief to follow them to the very end.
check out this muslimah are they not mordern and beautiful?
(photo from google.)

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Nobody: 3:22pm On Mar 27, 2015
I know the reason for preventing going out applying perfume is because it causes fitnah (temptation). But what if it is like deodorant that doesn't really smell attractive like that, is it permissible to use it
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Nobody: 3:24pm On Mar 27, 2015
afolag:
May Allah bless us with the understanding of his words and give us the strenght and belief to follow them to the very end.
check out this muslimah are they not mordern and beautiful?
(photo from google.)
lol sure they are cheesy
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Nobody: 3:30pm On Mar 27, 2015
mzteemarh:
lol sure they are cheesy
the LOL means sometin d sure dey ar rep anoda tin. am only responsible for wat I post ooooo, for wat u understand? OP u ar OYO.
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Nobody: 3:37pm On Mar 27, 2015
LongestDick:
Islam is Evil
findout more about islam, ask questions. You will surely find out the truth about the religion called the religion of peace.

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by bakjal(m): 3:38pm On Mar 27, 2015
Alhamdulillah...Thank u very much for dis wonderful reminder,May Allah reward u abondantly.However,May Allah give us d wisdom to uphold dis qualities of a respectable men n women of ISLAM

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Ballotelle(m): 3:43pm On Mar 27, 2015
nice write up
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by MKO4ever(m): 3:45pm On Mar 27, 2015
Some of these requirements are kinda harsh sha, for instance:

The hijab (covering) must conceal the entire body except the face and the hands. ---This has generated so much debate as there was no clear quranic requirement for this

It should not be perfumed. This prohibition applies to both the body and the clothes.

It should not resemble the clothing that is specific to the non-Muslims. Western clothing that does not represent a certain group or sect is normally permitted.---How about suit and tie?

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by bakjal(m): 3:47pm On Mar 27, 2015
LongestDick:
Islam is Evil
My dear broda i respect ur personal opinion on islam,thus d world we live in made u tink so, but pls understand that we muslims in so many ways r not practisin islam d way it should! However i assure u dat islam is far from being evil.i pray dat Allah forgive u of ur sins n make u have a diffrent tot about d only religion of truth

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by LongestDick: 3:51pm On Mar 27, 2015
bakjal:
My dear broda i respect ur personal opinion on islam,thus d world we live in made u tink so, but pls understand that we muslims in so many ways r not practisin islam d way it should! However i assure u dat islam is far from being evil.i pray dat Allah forgive u of ur sins n make u have a diffrent tot about d only religion of truth


Tell me only one islamic country who lives in peace, without wars & killing

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by LongestDick: 3:52pm On Mar 27, 2015
afolag:

findout more about islam, ask questions. You will surely find out the truth about the religion called the religion of peace.

Now, tell me any islamic country you know who lives in peace

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Nobody: 3:55pm On Mar 27, 2015
LongestDick:


Now, tell me any islamic country you know who lives in peace
Have you ever asked what was the reason plus why the sudden outburst atleast islam did not just arrive yesterday pple av been living thre for God knws when.

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by dragnet: 4:15pm On Mar 27, 2015
afolag:
May Allah bless us with the understanding of his words and give us the strenght and belief to follow them to the very end.
check out this muslimah are they not mordern and beautiful?
(photo from google.)
These are not the stipulated dress code as described by the shariah.
You cannot 'modernize' islaam. Islaam is named and perfected.

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Nobody: 4:22pm On Mar 27, 2015
dragnet:

These are not the stipulated dress code as described by the shariah.
You cannot 'modernize' islaam. Islaam is named and perfected.
I will love to learn more. did they in anyway violate the dress code?
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by personal59: 4:26pm On Mar 27, 2015
MKO4ever:
Some of these requirements are kinda harsh sha, for instance:

The hijab (covering) must conceal the entire body except the face and the hands. ---This has generated so much debate as there was no clear quranic requirement for this

It should not be perfumed. This prohibition applies to both the body and the clothes.

It should not resemble the clothing that is specific to the non-Muslims. Western clothing that does not represent a certain group or sect is normally permitted.---How about suit and tie?



Yes u re right my brother but its one of the compulsory prophet way (sunnah) moreover is not harsh we are just mk to seem so wen I was @ ilaro poly in Ogun state we av one hajia like that taking us bio my dear she got d lecturing job with that dressing too and also one of the librarian @ funaab also dress d same way so there is no problem in dressing that way

And sir u can't be a righteous muslim without following the prophet sunnah

Allah even ask us to follow the prophet in the quran so its sunnah is also a way of life not only the quran thanks

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by bakjal(m): 4:30pm On Mar 27, 2015
LongestDick:



Tell me only one islamic country who lives in peace, without wars & killing
If u mst knw, all d islamic nations in world is affected wit d so-called NEW WORLD ORDER i hop u r enlightent enough to knw wat dat stands for...n for dat reason all missdeeds n missconception about islam was born to life

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Kagarko(m): 4:54pm On Mar 27, 2015
dragnet:

These are not the stipulated dress code as described by the shariah.
You cannot 'modernize' islaam. Islaam is named and perfected.



Jazakumullah bil khair.

Iam so much impressed by this writeup.
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 5:02pm On Mar 27, 2015
afolag:
May Allah bless us with the understanding of his words and give us the strenght and belief to follow them to the very end.
check out this muslimah are they not mordern and beautiful?
(photo from google.)
yes they re beautiful. Just wish those here in Nigeria could be this fashion concious.
Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Kagarko(m): 5:04pm On Mar 27, 2015
LongestDick:
Islam is Evil



Some people will die for lack of knowledge.


Ignorance is a disease.


Please find out more about your religion.

Compare it with ISLAM and tell yourself the truth.

The word bible is not mentioned anywhere in the bible.

The word Christianity is not mentioned anywhere in the bible.

Jesus AS prayed with his head to the ground.

No Muslim is a true Muslim if he don't believe in Jesus AS.

please contact your bible very well before you speak.


There is no God except Allah and Muhammad is his messenger and prophet.

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by Nobody: 5:11pm On Mar 27, 2015
@Bakjal, Afolag and other muslim brothers and sisters in this forum should please ignore that guy that is typing nonsense. He is looking for attention which he will not get it here. May ALLAH be please with us (Amin).

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Re: Dress Code Of Muslim Women and Men by honEmirate(m): 5:13pm On Mar 27, 2015
Jazaakumu llahu khairan for this comprehensive and encompassing piece...... I pray that Allaah softens the hearts of all the Muslim ummah to abide strictly by dis sensitive and very important part of faith.

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