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Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by Suspect33(m): 5:40pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
All of a sudden my mom has become very frustrating, she is never satisfied with whatever anyone does, she is just so bitter, she never finds time to laugh with anybody, she is just so concerned on how to make money..... She get angry and always complains on anything i and my broda does... Its really getting to me and am beggining to detest her(dnt judge me am only human) ..... Pls hw do i help her...... Am jst totally confused and angry.... I NID HELP |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by AndreRose(f): 5:48pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
Interested in making money? Maybe she had an argument with your dad as regards the financial issues at home and it didn't end well. Does your dad still provide for the family? |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by Nobody: 6:07pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
eeyah...i love my mum & would do anything to see her smile.Maybe its ur dad she's angry with and thereby transferring aggression to u guys..or i didn't want to say this before,but how old are u? maybe she feels it time u move out and be a man to support her..u know women and money our mothers join oh not just ur gf or those cray*** girls do something,get out of the house,don't lazy around even if u have nothing to do just get out and give her the impression that u are unto something it would help & also try to support her as often as u can.We need them happy to last longer for us |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by Nobody: 6:25pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
how is her relationship with ur family members? how old is she? sudden anger, irritability cud also mean she's going thru menopause or about to Suspect33: |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by innervoice(m): 7:26pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
It isn't your job to change, teach or correct your mother. It isn't possible in your position unless she asks for help. You better take some healthy distance so that her moods don't take a toll on you. How old are you by the way? 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by dsquare33: 7:29pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
aflyingbird:That is a very good point you ve' made.The op should find out what is really happening,women don't just throw tantrums,she might be apprehensive about your future.calm her down by assuring her everything will be okay. |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by Suspect33(m): 7:44pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
innervoice:am 19 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by innervoice(m): 7:47pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
Suspect33:I don't know the nature of your relationship but talking to her may be a solution. Tell her how you feel without blaming her. Seek a quiet moment, in which she is relaxed. |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by Suspect33(m): 7:47pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
AndreRose:my dad is actually not staying with us, he was tranfered 2 lagos last 2 months, but he does send us money |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by Suspect33(m): 7:49pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
innervoice:i've been doing that, but she jst dismiss me in anger |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by KanwuliaJara: 8:34pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
She has lived as a very miserable woman all her life! Dysfunctional family life with RELIGION and POVERTY, not to mention unhealthy loveless marriages can only make for a narcissistic and miserable persona! She hates herself and her world! |
Re: Pls Help, My Mom Is Always Bitter by misfab(f): 11:21pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
Suspect33: perharps she misses ur dad n is tryn hard to cope without him being with u guys at d moment. take it easy with her dear.... try to kip urself n ur bros out of her way. alsso....help out wit chores n all.. maybe u shld cook for her or do smthn u wouldnt ordinarily do for her. i bet she ll b happy n then u can hav a talk with her. above all...dont resent her. we all av our down moments. 1 Like |
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