Her husband beats her a lot. And she has scars all over her body. I happen to be the middleman and even best man at their wedding five years ago. So most times anytime she gets beaten, I get to hear. Both the husband and wife are my friends, that was why it was easy to match-make them. But I don't like how their marriage is going. They have two children already. The assault started almost immediately after their wedding. I couldn't believe it when I first heard it because my friend isn't violent. Until he gave her a dirty slap right in my presence over something very minute. I reproached my friend on the spot and even stopped associating with him for a while out of anger.Many a times I've counselled my friend and he keeps promising to change. I feel bad anytime the wife comes to me to report. She always asks me to advice her and I also do try my best to talk to her husband. I hate any form of abuse and I sincerely want the best for both of them. I wish my friend will stop it and save his marriage, I also wish his wife will end the marriage so as to save her life because I have seen cases of death and deformity because of abuse. Divorce is better than death. I am in a dilemma as to how to advice both of them.


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Some people were born to be beaten to death because their brains cannot be exercised. Yorubas call such people eran iyas.if you sit down there and enjoy the beatings who's business

I think the person that posted this needs to organise boys to beat his friend. Let his friend fill the excruciating pains, let him bear the scars. After the beating, ask him how does he feel? does he feel okay? if he says no, tell him that his how is wife feels. What you will not accept to be done to you, do not do it to others. I agree women have sharp mouth but you as a man should know that is the only thing they have. If you treat a woman well no matter how she does, one day one day, she will change. Battering is not the solution

You call such man a husband??that one is not a husband but a he-goat....

Hmmmmm. . . .

"Onoda" wan don come o. . . .
Na from whia all these punching bag 'women' dey come from biko kwa nu?

Has she tried adding OGBOLUKORKORMIYOR in his food?

EggovinMma:
Has she tried adding OGBOLUKORKORMIYOR in his food?

Hmmm, na so you go kill ya husband?

EggovinMma:
Has she tried adding OGBOLUKORKORMIYOR in his food?

What's that, Nne? Sounds funny though

chimkaire:
What's that, Nne? Sounds funny though

It's a very potent juju. Okijajuju makes some for his female clients as well.
Just a pinch inside your husband's favourite food, and you are the man of the house!

francizy:


Hmmm, na so you go kill ya husband?

kill ke?
OGBOLUKORKORMIYO doesn't kill o.It brings peace and harmony at home instead.

EggovinMma:

kill ke?
OGBOLUKORKORMIYO doesn't kill o.It brings peace and harmony at home instead.

Hahahahaha, the one that will turn the husband to a lunatic kwo?

#dustsShoes

EggovinMma:


It's a very potent juju. Okijajuju makes some for his female clients as well.
Just a pinch inside your husband's favourite food, and you are the man of the house!

Chaeeeeee!!!!!!!!
Nwoke ewee banyezie kitchen

Chukwu aju

[quote author=chimkaire post=32921159]Chaeeeeee!!!!!!!!
Nwoke ewee banyezie kitchen

Chukwu aju [/quot

Okwanu di!
Obuho kwa ife ojo biko!o banyezie kitchen,osibe nri o ga eri! O ife ojo?
Chukwu ama n jukwa!

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francizy:


Hahahahaha, the one that will turn the husband to a lunatic kwo?

#dustsShoes

Lmao.
That's the best.The washing of panties crew.
Wouldn't it be nice to see my husband coming into the bathroom and then bellowing in anger, "I have warned you not to wash your panties in this house as long as I am around?"


Omo na to rinse my hand go sitting room spread leg sleep.

EggovinMma:


Lmao.
That's the best.The washing of panties crew.
Wouldn't it be nice to see my husband coming into the bathroom and then bellowing in anger, "I have warned you not to wash your panties in this house as long as I am around?"


Omo na to rinse my hand go sitting room spread leg sleep.

Hahahaha, e go make sense make e come dey romantic in an annoying and aggressive way.. Like:

I have warned you not to wash your panties, cook, sweep and clean the house. In short I've warned you not to do any chores in this house again and I've also told you not to work, because I intend doing everything. The next time you try it eh, I will treat your Bleep up!

Afterwards, you try what he asked you not to do and you get beaten to a puld..

You never see where juju dey backfire. Na that one go make sense pass..

Iga ebute ofu na aka dibia! Anwa kwa na ya anwa oh!

francizy:


Hahahaha, e go make sense make e come dey romantic in an annoying and aggressive way.. Like:

I have warned you not to wash your panties, cook, sweep and clean the house. In short I've warned you not to do any chores in this house again and I've also told you not to work, because I intend doing everything. The next time you try it eh, I will treat your Bleep up!

Afterwards, you try what he asked you not to do and you get beaten to a puld..

You never see where juju dey backfire. Na that one go make sense pass..

Iga ebute ofu na aka dibia! Anwa kwa na ya anwa oh!

Lmao.
Beating me up for doing any chores at all?
And what we I tell people that I did to deserve such beating?
"My husband bear me to a pulp because I did some house chores"?
The whole community of women will come out to see such marvellous man.Ndi bianu ga asi, "Nne biko hapu ozi! Oburu n di gi achoro k' naga ozi n'ulo, ga na sitting room kube nke bu Ezigbote ura! "

EggovinMma:


Lmao.
Beating me up for doing any chores at all?
And what we I tell people that I did to deserve such beating?
"My husband bear me to a pulp because I did some house chores"?
The whole community of women will come out to see such marvellous man.Ndi bianu ga asi, "Nne biko hapu ozi! Oburu n di gi achoro k' naga ozi n'ulo, ga na sitting room kube nke bu Ezigbote ura! "

LoL, funny enough you'll get tired of it all cuz your husband will be behaving like a sissy. He won't act like a man and all that will show in public. You won't enjoy it as you feel you'ld tho.

francizy:


LoL, funny enough you'll get tired of it all cuz your husband will be behaving like a sissy. He won't act like a man and all that will show in public. You won't enjoy it as you feel you'ld tho.

Seriously I won't enjoy it dear
before I go dey house one day, husband go carry yam for head with designer suit enter house.