A Professor was teaching about Proverbs 15:1.
He asked his students, 'why do we shout in
anger? Why do people shout at each other when
they are upset?' The students thought for awhile.
One said, because we lose our calm. But why
shout when the other person is just next to you?
Asked the professor. Isn't it possible to speak to
him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout
at a person when you are angry? The students
gave some answers but none satisfied the
Professor. Finally he explained, 'when two people
are angry at each other, there is a distance in
their hearts psychologically. To cover the
distance, they must shout to be able to hear
each other. The angrier they are,the stronger
they will shout to hear each other through that
great distance. Then the Professor asked, 'What
happens when two people fall in love? They don't
shout at each other but talk softly. Why?
Because their hearts are psychologically close.
The distance between them is very close. The
Professor continued, 'When they love each other
even more, what happens? They don't speak,
only whisper and they even get closer to each
other in their love. Finally they even need not
whisper, they only look at each other and that's
all.....So next time you shout on a loved one,
know that you are creating distance between
your heart and that person’s heart. Proverbs 15:1
says a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh
word stirs up anger. Please share with friends U maybe healing a hot
tempered person today.
"Life is easy"