i proposed to my wife to be without an engagement ring,2 days after she bought one for me to put on her finger

lol

nope

but for the the sake of the girl neccesary

hell yeah well i think it is necessary it kinda makes it beautiful

he better have a ring when he is getting on his knees or the answer will be NO

teaser:

i proposed to my wife to be without an engagement ring,2 days after she bought one for me to put on her finger

sad ,sad,very sad - you should have done it the right way and not be so stingy .
I feel sorry for your wife ,because she had to buy her own ring

yup, it compliments the engagement. Imagine wat it'll look like when u tell pple that u're engaged and they see no ring on ur finger, they might prolly think u're faking it or desperate.

Nowadays girls dont mind.They might even buy one for you if that is the only reason you are stalling.

@German lady.That is very common nowadays.She might even pay her own dowry if you do not mind

@uche2nna
hmmmmmmmmm really well i don't think i can do dat

Well,you know as they say girls come in different shapes and sizes.

ah!well!!its just an english culture that has been practised round the world till date!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
its not our culture!!!!!its obvious that it was immitated
anyway its a somehow if you dont propose with a ring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!except you wanna prove that you are different and you have a more unique way of showing your love

tell them,iice

well, itz the culture
for the couple to be engaged before getting married and prresentation of rings is one of the things that goes with engagement

Well said.You have made my day

eeeeh yes he should, as a way of preserving the culture. But I guess if there
is money issues, he can propose without one.

God go provide money for me when my time comes

iice:

Sure a ring goes with engagement, but what if the proposal was spontenous and the guy ddnt have a ring on him but he really meant his proposal, would the girl refuse on the basis of no ring in sight? So long as he produces one later its all good.

fa! fa! fa! foul! ,the ring must be upfront and korokoro

@iice

why not ? Do you mean U would prefer one, but if not, it won't matter ?

oooooo Okay. I thought it didn't matter whether you got one or not, period .

Na waa ooh, many ladies would not only want one, but it most have "certain" karatz. Nice quality in a lady

Me too I want carrots, oops sorry, carats

i take back the complement then _{just kidding}

thanks peeps,got nice and friendly response to my post.
@iice,
i appreciate urs most especially becos u r a lady.
My fiancee didn't mind buying one, i think she shares the same opinion with u.It wasn't really money problem,t'was just that i didn't see it as compulsory.

no ring no proposal. Sorry mate, try again when u've got the ring. and i want the stones to be blinding and definately not those AVON rings that shines for just one day and turns black.

@busta
it's ur choice

teaser:

thanks peeps,got nice and friendly response to my post.
@iice,
i appreciate urs most especially because you're a lady.
My fiancee didn't mind buying one, i think she shares the same opinion with u.It wasn't really money problem,t'was just that i didn't see it as compulsory.

ohhh now THAT maks her a lady?? because you are too stingy to provide a ring for your LADY .shame on you hahahahaha
proposing is not just a thing you do every day,like asking a lady out or so.

that moment should be in a ladies mind FOREVER,so be a gentleman.

of course a desperated woman takes any men ,ring or no ring,they might be happy someone is asking them.

a real lady want to be asked the RIGHT way and therefore a ring is a must.

if you want to pop the question THINK before you ask her,and be at least prepared for that big moment.just don't ask your lady out of the blue moon.so that way you will have enough time to get a ring.

ps: it does not have to be an expensive ring,just for gods sake let him have a ring when he is asking ME