@alibabagcfr: "Generosity... Is a
life dictate but no be by force
oooo! You no know wetin the
person you ask for help, also need
help for.

Just bear it in mind that,
everyone has their personal
battles. If someone is battling on
how to pay school fees, it's the
wrongest time to ask the person
for a small loan to make up the
amount you want to use to buy an
iPhone 6S that you saw at very
good price.

People will weigh what you want
to do, against the sacrifice they
have to make to help you or the
important things on their to do
list. They may choose to also
consider your lifestyle and your
capacity to pay back. Not to
mention that major consideration
of if they can afford to not get the
loan back. There is also the
matter of who needs help the
most at the time you asked for it.
The person in hospital needing
surgery or you who wants to buy
a laptop for your business? Is it a
guy who needs to pay school fees
or your rent that is due? A single
guy who needs cash or a single
mum who has to feed herself and
hers? Are you a generous person?
Would you help others if it were
you? Are you the person's
responsibility? What attitude did
you exhibit when you asked for
the assistance? There are people
who do not have, but do not mind
going broke to help you or even
going to borrow to sort you out.
However, some people just don't
like to help. They can have what
they can help with, several times
over, they still won't help.
While you have some people who
have donor fatigue and just need
some time to recover. Sat with
wealthy man last year, he taught
me about dynamics of generosity.
He said, "2 people get N10m...
One decides to spend his on
looking good. Shoes! Clothes!
Perfumes! Good life! All the
works......

The other spends his on
doing good by spending on
friends in need and family..... The
wealthy man now asked me, who
do you think society will consider
the most successful? I answered
the guy looking good. He said of
course! And added, that is why
anyone who likes to do good has
to work harder so that his good
works don't come to nothing.
Because, his 10m has to become
30m or else the stingy guys 10m
will look like 30m, since
Nigerians believe and live by
what they see than what is real"